Before marriagePregnancyIt seems to be an inescapable reality. Somewhere in Anhui, there was a young girl becausePregnancyIt's been five months, and it's been a mess. She became the fuse of the conflict because of her family's actions, and was finally canceled by her boyfriendWeddings。Now, she is in a dilemma and is ready to claim a million from her boyfriend. The focus of the whole incident is mainly on:Bride priceThe woman demanded 88,000 yuan, and the man's family was from Chengdu, Sichuan, and his father was sickCancerIn the case of accepting **, only 50,000 can be offered.
Because the woman refused to compromise, the man finally chose to give up and asked the woman to terminate the pregnancy, but the woman considered herself a victim and could lead toInfertilitysituation. Therefore, after the breakup, the woman filed a lawsuit for a claim of one million, is it reasonable?Who's right and who's wrong?Next, we will analyze this in detail.
Before marriagePregnancyis a common problem, however, the consequences of which are unpredictable. In this incident, the woman suffered the heaviest injury. Whether or not the parties break up, miscarriage can cause great harm to a woman's physical health and can affect future fertility. If after the birth of the child, the woman does not have enough financial means to raise the child, this will give the woman a futureFamily lifeBring greatStress。And for a newborn child, growing up in a broken family can also have a negative impact on his or her development throughout his life. Therefore, both men and women should know how to protect themselves and each other at the stage of love, and appear before marriagePregnancyProblems should be avoided.
There was once a girl in our company, she was very young, tall, fair-skinned. I often see her in the cafeteria. However, a year later, I returned to the company again when she hadNot thereLater, I heard that she committed suicide. The reason is that she met an irresponsible boyfriend who gave birth to two daughters out of wedlock, and then the boyfriend chose another woman to marry, and she was forced to raise two children alone and bear a huge financial burdenStress。It made her completely devastated. This real-life example tells us that we must be cautious before marriage and never get carried away, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable.
In this case, the woman's family problems were the main reason for the escalation of the conflict. First of all, the woman's parents are too greedy for money, knowing that the man's family conditions are limited, and the man has tried his best, but they are still unwilling to give in, which undoubtedly pushes the woman to a desperate situation. Bride priceIt is a way for men to express their hearts, not to sell daughters, and it should not be a tool for comparison. Therefore,Bride priceIt's negotiable. Secondly, the woman's parents lack the ability to judge the timing, which not only makes the daughter fall intoPregnancyThe predicament of still insisting on their own demands is a disservice to their daughter.
Usually in this case, it should be the woman who doesn't care and hopes to get married as soon as possible. However, the woman's parents were the opposite, and they took a fancy to the woman at this timePregnancyThis bargaining chip wanted to force the man to raise more money, but the result backfired. According to the normal procedure, the parents of both men and women should meet before marriageBride priceetcWeddingsmatters are negotiated and then agreed upon to ensureWeddingsThe smooth progress of the project. However, problems can easily arise when disputes are resolved while preparing.
The woman is currently asking for a claim of one million, so is this request reasonable?We need to analyze it in detail. First of all, the womanPregnancyDoes the responsibility for the miscarriage lie solely with the man?Apparently not. As the saying goes, "a slap doesn't make a sound", and the woman herself also bears part of the responsibility. In addition, there is no registration of the cohabitation relationshipLawsThere is no guarantee. Therefore, the woman sued the husband for damagesLawsBasis.
According to the provisions of China's Civil Code, children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights and interests as legitimate children. Therefore, if a child is born, the woman has every right to ask the man for itAlimony。However, the woman did not have anyLawsThe clause supported his claim against the Husband for compensation. Theoretically, the man could not pay a penny at all, and if he did, it would be out of moral considerations. Therefore, considering the man's financial situation, it is unrealistic to claim compensation of one million, and being able to pay the medical expenses is already a goodwill compensation to the woman. It will not work for the woman to try to use this opportunity to blackmail the man.
Through the analysis of the whole incident, we can see that the woman is somewhat short of 38,000 yuanBride price, and fell into a dilemma, and finally lost the man's heart. This speaks volumes about onceMarriagebeBride priceKidnapping is destined to be the beginning of tragedy. Women must remember:Pregnancy out of wedlockThere will always be a loss of bargaining chips. Dealing with pre-marriagePregnancyThe problem needs to be rational and calm, and both sides should be frank with each other and try their best to negotiate a proper solution. In this case, the woman's experience is indeed sympathetic. She's becausePregnancyAnd faced with a lotStressand injuries.