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My name is Zhang Wei, the project manager of a large foreign trade enterprise.
In recognition of our efforts and excellent performance over the years, the company held a grand celebration.
At the banquet, I gathered with the team members to enjoy delicious food, ** and applause.
I drank a little too much, a little drunk, and when I came out, I saw a café on the side of the road, so I went in.
The café is brightly lit and the atmosphere is quiet.
I found a corner to sit down, ordered a cup of black coffee, and as soon as I opened my phone, I saw a WeChat message coming.
It was Mr. Li, that is, my boss, who sent a message: "Are you in **?."Are you home?If you didn't come home, I wanted to talk to you. ”
I froze.
I always met Li when I first joined the company, and Mr. Li was my direct boss at that time.
I am very impressed by Mr. Li's ability to do things, not only in an orderly manner, but also very much in charge of every subordinate.
Once, I met Mr. Li in the pantry, and when she saw me going to pick up hot water, my hand was burned, so she whispered to me to be carefulSeeing that I was working late, they prepared snacks and coffee for me.
Mr. Li's carefulness and thoughtfulness made me feel a trace of warmth.
Lee, though, was always a workaholic.
She often works at 10 p.m., and sometimes brings some snacks to accompany us to work overtime.
Under this high-intensity work pressure, the atmosphere in the office is very oppressive.
In order to change this, I organized a team building event.
At the event, I also arranged a small game to let everyone say thank you to Mr. Li.
When it was my turn, I said, "Mr. Li, you are a very responsible leader, and I believe that under your leadership, the company will definitely become better." ”
Mr. Li was very moved when he heard it.
She stepped forward and patted me on the shoulder: "Thank you. ”
Since then, our relationship has gotten closer and closer.
Mr. Li has given me great help and guidance in my work, and I have done my best to do my job well.
Now when I look at the message sent by Mr. Li, I suddenly feel a little difficult.
She was my mentor and friend.
Shall I go and see her?Or, is it an excuse?
After thinking about it, I decided to meet. Regardless, she is a role model for herself, and she can't live up to her expectations.
Also, I was curious to see what she had to say to me, so I sent her the location.
It didn't take long for Mr. Li to come.
After a few brief pleasantries, Mr. Li told me that she liked me.
She said she had always liked me and wanted me to be her lover.
I was stunned, yes, panic, not joy.
I am acutely aware that this issue is sensitive and difficult to deal with.
It's not that I hate her, it's that I can't accept her!
I was really scared that this would affect my relationship with my colleagues and even lose my job.
But Lee was always my superior, and I couldn't refuse outright.
If I refuse outright, I will probably lose the job.
In addition, our company has very strict requirements for the behavior of employees.
All I could tell her was to think about it.
Instead of embarrassing me, she let me go.
For the next few days, I was in a dilemma and didn't know what to do with it.
I wanted to ask a friend for help, but I was afraid that it would make a big deal and delay my career.
In the end, I chose to refuse.
I told Mr. Li that I was very grateful for her appreciation and support for me, but I couldn't accept her proposal.
I told her that I had a family, that I had a responsibility, and that I couldn't do anything to hurt them.
Although Mr. Li was a little disappointed, he didn't force me again.
In the next few days, my relationship with Mr. Li seemed to be back on track.
I wondered if she was waiting for a good moment to get me away.
However, I can't care about that much.
Because that's my bottom line, I don't want to make people think I'm relying on nepotism to achieve the success I worked so hard to achieve.
I have no regrets about this decision.