The "new type of comparison" for junior high school students is emerging, which is more terrible than showing off wealthParents are kept in the dark
Now ushering in a new era, the new generation of post-00s is rectifying the workplace, their thinking is completely different from the older generation, getting rid of feudal and conservative concepts, and having a new understanding and cognition of many things. As a result, today's students are becoming more and more difficult to manage, causing a lot of confusion for parents and teachers.
With the popularization of higher education, parents are paying more attention to education, and they are always paying attention to their children's academic performance. Chinese-style parents have always adhered to the concept of "no matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, and no matter how hard you can't be miserable for your children". Even parents from ordinary families work hard to provide their children with a quality education and life.
However, the quality of life and education provided by parents for students has gradually become the capital for students to show off. Especially in junior high school, students are driven by the psychology of comparison, and they begin to ask their parents constantly, and the doting of parents has become the key to ruining the future development of students.
A new type of comparison among junior high school students has emerged, which is more terrifying than flaunting wealth, and parents are often kept in the dark. Students at this stage are in the first stage of adolescence and are full of curiosity about various things in society. If parents do not intervene and guide appropriately, the problem of early love may affect students' grades and future development.
Especially girls in junior high school are prone to fall into early love and are attracted to the opposite sex who are handsome. Parents and teachers should not blame students excessively, but need to communicate and guide patiently. If parents let it go, girls may face undesirable consequences.
In addition to the rebellious mentality, students in junior high school also have a comparison mentality. If one student wears designer sneakers, there will inevitably be a huge gap in the hearts of other students, causing them to ask their parents for it. In order to prevent the emergence of comparison psychology, schools usually require students to wear uniforms uniformly, strictly control hairstyles and grooming, to ensure that each student can maintain a good mental outlook, avoid external and internal comparisons, and make students focus more on their studies.
Under the excessive requirements of the school, students are unable to highlight their individuality in their hairstyles and clothing, so the psychology of comparison is transferred to shoes.
Boys are as fond of shoes as girls are fond of beautiful dresses and delicate jewelry. Since they were unable to wear skirts and jewelry during school, their focus and pursuit of shoes was particularly strong.
In wealthy families, parents buy a variety of designer sneakers for their children, such as Nike, Adidas, Converse, etc., whenever they ask for them. The aura of these famous brands makes students exude a sense of self-confidence, and it is generally believed that the higher the shoe, the greater the personal face.
Although the students look glamorous on the outside, behind them is the hard work of their parents. The phenomenon of comparisons among students is more worrying than flaunting wealth, and many parents are confused by their children's needs and try to meet them, without realizing that such behavior only promotes an arrogant attitude and can also have a negative impact on their future development.
Parents can buy better quality and moderate sneakers for their children, but when shopping, you need to remember that shoes are only short-lived items, not lifelong companions. Don't let sneakers become a burden on your family, and don't let them become a tool for students to compare.
The education department has the responsibility to put an end to the spread of the culture of comparison on campus, and at the same time, it needs the attention and guidance of parents and teachers. Students should understand that learning is the most important thing and not focus too much on things that are not related to their studies.
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