Title: Online Romance: Beautiful Expectations and Cruel Reality.
There is a saying that goes: "There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away." With the changing times, the Internet has become an indispensable part of many people's lives, building bridges to connect each other. In this virtual world, online dating has emerged as a new type of love, allowing two strangers thousands of miles away to meet and get to know each other through the communication between screens.
However, one of the stages of development of online dating is Benxian, that is, from virtual to real. This process is often accompanied by anticipation and unchangeables. Recently, there is a story that has attracted attention, and people can't help but think about how the beautiful expectations in online dating are intertwined with the cruel reality
The protagonist of the story is a 30-year-old man with a relatively small social circle in life, and although he has experienced many blind dates, he has never found a suitable other half. In the process, he gradually lost his self-confidence because of the rejection and no longer actively participated in the blind date. So, he set his sights on virtual cyberspace, looking for the person with whom he could spend the rest of his life together.
Online encounters can sometimes seem like a miracle, and the man ends up meeting a young college graduate. The woman said she was looking for a solid partner, while the man felt she was a good fit. Online dating between the two is thriving in the virtual world, and the seeds of love are quietly taking root in this digital soil.
However, the ultimate goal of online dating is to move towards reality, because love is not just words and expressions on the screen, but also needs to get along and face it in real time. The two decided it was time to meet, and Ben Xian's plan began. The expectations before meeting are all pinned on whether the other party is as shown in **and**.
The man happily goes to the meeting place, and everything seems to go according to plan, however, when he sees his girlfriend with his own eyes, the situation takes a dramatic turn. Because his girlfriend looked "too small", the man directly expressed his inappropriate perception and even proposed to break up. He believes that the age gap between the two is too big and he feels unworthy of each other.
This scene makes people sigh, beautiful expectations and cruel reality are intertwined in an instant. Although his girlfriend looks young, she is already an adult and has excellent conditions in all aspects. And the man gave up a beautiful marriage that might belong to him because of a momentary subjective prejudice.
This sparked a wide range of discussions, and netizens expressed their incomprehension of the man. In their opinion, it is a blessing for a man to have such a beautiful girlfriend, and the age difference of eight years is not an insurmountable chasm. You can't be too picky in love, because the woman in front of you is already a beauty, and age is not a problem. Some netizens even said that if it were themselves, I am afraid that they would have already communicated in-depth and talked about marriage.
This story makes people reflect on whether they are too picky about love in their livesIs a possible happiness given up because of a momentary subjective feeling?A good marriage is not easy to come by, should we cherish it more, rather than give up easily because of some superficial differences?
Overall, online dating is an adventure full of unknowns and expectations. In this process, in addition to treating appearance and age rationally, we should pay more attention to internal communication and understanding. Only through real getting along can we really see each other clearly and find the resonance point that complements each other. The true meaning of love not only stays in the virtual world, but also needs to be tested in reality in order to go further.