"Returning to the hometown on a blind date: the dowry of the factory flower and the choice of the times"
As the saying goes: "Men should get married, women should get married, and women should not stay." "When it comes to getting married, you can't be sloppy, and it's very wise to marry yourself off early while you're young. Now that the end of the year is approaching, when relatives and friends are urging marriage, many people have begun to create conditions for themselves to strive for an early blind date to choose the best son-in-law. In this process, there is no shortage of anxious suitors to go home early to create more opportunities, because "stupid birds fly first", at the starting line of marriage and love, preemptive strikes often get more choices.
A woman in Henan, who was working in other places, went home early to become the first batch of returnees due to the recession of the KTV industry. This woman has a clear sense of self, and although she failed to work in the city, she did not give up, but decided to return to her hometown and broaden the range of marriage options in a hands-on way.
The woman's original job in the city was not ideal, the KTV industry gradually declined, and the risk of unemployment gradually increased. She frankly admits that she is willing to continue to work in KTV, but she has a bottom line for bars and nightclubs and other places, and as a woman from the countryside, she does not want to be talked about by the villagers is one of her bottom lines. So, she asked for leave in advance and returned to her hometown in Henan to find marriage.
When the woman returned to her hometown, she first greeted the uncles in the village and expressed her expectations for marriage. She actively interacted with the uncles and showed her sincerity in marriage. He even took the initiative to show his phone to a neighbor's eldest brother *** and asked him to add himself as a friend in anticipation of more introductions from suitable single men. Although there are speculations and discussions about this high-profile blind date, it makes her stand out from the crowd.
At this Double 11 node, the woman returned to her hometown on a blind date and greeted the villagers in a high-profile manner: "I will come back in the first batch, see who robs me, there are single guys can come to me for a blind date, I want to marry myself this year." She makes full use of social means to attract the attention of the villagers and create more opportunities for blind dates.
Some netizens questioned the woman's profession, but admitted that she had outstanding appearance and a good figure. For such women, rural men should be in demand, and the key is to see how much bride price they are willing to pay. Some netizens believe that women engaged in the KTV industry may choose a comfortable marriage, but this requires an honest and stable person. Others believe that a woman's career will become a hidden danger to her marriage, and she may continue to pursue short-term gains.
The author believes that the woman's behavior is tactful, and she understands that opportunities need to be fought for by herself. For those who can't find a foothold in the city, returning home is also an opportunity. The woman who returns to her hometown for a blind date is obviously a person who is good at creating opportunities, and the move to go back early is just right, so that she will have more time to find and choose a suitable partner for herself.
Epilogue. Returning home to a blind date is a good option for those who have difficulty finding a suitable partner under the pressure of city life. The woman's high-profile return to her hometown for a blind date may be a journey to say goodbye to singleness. In the pursuit of a balance between ideals and reality, we need to assess the situation and be good at creating opportunities. The opportunity is created by herself, and for Changhua, going home early and gaining more time is exactly what she cherishes about her marriage.