Once people get their senses, they will discover the cruel reality that no matter what kind of family we are born into, we will be indoctrinated with a series of lies from an early age. It's just that people born in the upper class will be exposed to more truth, and the stupid dog who came out of the garbage heap at the bottom is so ** because he has been instilled with all kinds of garbage and lies since he was a child. As a result, in the process of growing up, you can't see the reality clearly, and when you really come out of society, you will hit a wall everywhere, find yourself doing nothing, no matter how hard you try, you always feel that you are not as good as others. At this time, many people began to accept their fate, saying to themselves, this is my life, no way, don't blame my parents. But in reality?All your problems are caused by your parents and your surroundings. If you don't face this reality, you won't be able to enter your own inner world, you won't be able to find your true self, and you won't be able to find your true wealth, happiness, and health, all of which are meant to be yours. The biggest lie in the world is the self-righteous love that many parents have. They have been repeating a point of view since childhood, children, parents love you, but what about actual actions. If you want to refute it, why do you say you love me, but I don't feel it at all, all I feel when I grow up is your control and demand for me. I guess a lot of people get along with their parents like that. In the past, I was deceived by their set of things, but in recent years, my income has increased, and I have begun to reflect on their words and deeds. I knew it, I realized that this group of people didn't love their children at all. I don't know, you can't even understand your own life, you live a miserable life, how can you have the ability to love your children?It's all self-deception. 
A lot of stupid dogs definitely still don't believe it, so think about it yourself, what is love?For ordinary people, it's money. But for me now, I finally understand that it's really not money. It's about nourishing a life without any opinion, and money is just one part of it. True love is the willingness you have to help the other person mature and become a real adult. But obviously, most parents don't have it, they themselves have been running around for a humble livelihood all their lives, and they can't care about your mental maturity at all. Not paying attention to all the actions of your mental maturity is not love. The conclusion is that in fact, in this world, at least in the environment where ordinary people are born, there is hardly a truly loving relationship. Yes, that's also where you were deceived. This reality is what you have to recognize clearly, because they don't have love in their hearts. Since childhood, they have not been loved by their own parents, how can they give you real love, it's just nonsense. And the purpose of seeing reality clearly is not to rebuke reality, but to no longer have to be burdened by it. So why many people read my articles in ***, and the efficiency of making money has become faster, it is because the reality I talked about has made the shit in their heads, and life is naturally smooth. But this also requires understanding and a certain degree of ability to bear pain. The difference between a counterattack in the real world and a brainless cool article is that it is necessary to conform to objective laws. And everything you want, health, wealth, beauty, happiness, happiness, is self-sufficient, and you don't need to ask for anything from outside. So, don't be anxious about the process of getting stronger for anything, what to encounter, what to solve, follow the objective law, give full play to the subjective initiative, complaining and losing your temper will not solve any problems. The strong are people who are strong in their hearts, and when they are strong enough to crush ordinary people, the strong will swim against the current and creatively find solutions to problems. Loneliness is the norm in the process of becoming stronger, we must learn to endure loneliness, think in loneliness, move forward in thinking, mature in progress, and sublimate in maturity. If you can do it now, then you are a mature adult. This is the ultimate solution to all your problems, and your own problems have not been solved, and it is always vain to try to achieve this goal by demanding from the other person. But unfortunately, most of the people we see are cowards who dare not face their own lives, so their failure is doomed. 
Just as those who tend to love to learn Xi are escapists. Most people, learn to Xi, just come out of their brains, write notes, and write whatever people say, and don't want to do it. Is this called Xi?Have you learned?That writes actual combat strategies and draws inferences. Did you use it?What are you going to do with it?In the end, life is still a mess, and it should be poor or poor. Why are people nowadays so keen to learn all kinds Xi knowledge?Because it's cooler to escape from reality in this way, at least you won't feel guilty when you learn. These people can't be self-reliant themselves, they can't give birth to hope, so they pin their hopes on the outside world and on others. I treat such people as animals, and they are not even as good as animals. People, in order to pursue happiness, they can work hard, but in order to escape their own hearts, to deceive others, to deceive themselves, to make themselves easy, they can spare no effort and say any nonsense. Therefore, those who speak righteously are not necessarily good people. You don't think that you can make children obedient with the so-called "filial piety", the iron fist of reality is above any moral code. At key points in your child's life such as growth and development, if you do nothing, can't provide real money, and can't provide substantial help, they will definitely resent you and hate you. The biggest feature of the real world is that it is very realistic, and it costs money to do everything. Those books on the history of chicken soup are indeed useful after reading, but they are worthless in the face of reality. Smart people will use limited time to only learn knowledge that can be implemented and can make money. I said a brutal point before:Whether a person's career and marriage are smooth before the age of 30 is almost 100% determined by parents and family of origin. If your parents are waste, then your life and marriage will most likely be a mess and you won't be able to run away. A man, when he realizes that his parents are waste, he has the opportunity to rebel, and he also has the capital to go out. As long as he maintains his bloodiness, he still has a chance to soar. But if you want to change your life, you have to do something amazing, and gently going with the flow will only make you a waste like your parents. 
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If you already have children yourself, you need to be aware that you have to make something to set an example for your children, and it would be better if they could get hope from you. In any case, don't say brute things like "we put our hopes in you". The so-called growth is to boldly and courageously expose and face the lies of one's own environment and the people around him, including one's own heart. Those who show their teeth and claws, without exception, are not beasts who are full of lies in their hearts and are not willing to face them. If you dare to face it, you will break away from the beast and become a real person. It's not an easy process, and if you don't get it right, you'll fall victim to someone else's lie, but that's not a reason for you to back down, there's a cliff behind you, and you're not qualified to run away.