I said in the previous *** Shibu Okawa article that a very important way to obtain happiness is to stay away from anyone who harms you, and being close to those who are happy will bring us happiness, which is the simplest economics in the world. If a person is immersed in the environment of comparison, mutual harm, and mutual pit for a long time, no matter how hard he tries his best and exhausts his life, he will not be able to get out of the mud without staining, after all, in the world of crows, swans are guilty.
At the same time, your ability to think independently will be heavily polluted, and the longer a person spends in a garbage environment, it is easy to become stupid.
Because some of those who are struggling at the bottom of society are disgruntled all day long, full of anger, and their quality is generally low. He can't harm the people of the higher classes, because they don't work and live in the same circle with each other. Therefore, it can only harm other people who are also in the bottom of society, which is also the evil in human nature.
If you have lived in the countryside, you can often see a bunch of people sitting together drinking and bragging, tomorrow the parents are gossiping around, and the day after tomorrow watching who fights and cheers.
Not only that, but there are also people who fight every year over various land disputes.
Seeing that your family is poor and your family has no children to bully, when cultivating the land, they will deliberately occupy a few more centimeters of your family's land and turn it into their own field.
You go to someone else to theorize, and they are more justified than you, no matter what you say or scold, they just eat you and take advantage of you.
What's worse is that if you don't have children to help you, you can only watch others bully you, and you can't do anything.
If you have to take it back, then you can only fight hard, either see blood, or cause human life, just to fight for the little land that is not worth a few dollars at all.
The more garbage the environment, the poorer the people, the poorer the thinking, and the less good they can see.
If you often play cards and chat with them, suddenly one day you get up on your own, go to business and make money, and your standard of living is naturally alienated from them.
What you get is not the blessing that comes with it, but the malicious racking of the brains of others.
The greatest evil in human nature is that you can't see others better than you, especially acquaintances, or people who were poor together back then.
So, don't just talk to someone about your suffering. Confiding in someone else is the equivalent of bleeding in front of a shark. People who like to complain and pour out negative emotions will not be blessed, and their energy field will become weaker and weaker.
But all happy people, or wealthy people, are very concerned about their energy field, and they will not easily let negative emotions invade. If all you emit is negative energy, they will definitely stay away. And what you attract are all losers, and then you spit out your bitterness together and feel sorry for yourself together.
Don't underestimate the jealousy of the people at the bottom, the resentment is so big that he will feel that his misfortune is all your fault, and then inadvertently ** stab.
Only if you are worse than him, he will feel more comfortable.
You know, whoever forbids you to be good is a bad person, stay away from them, they haven't tasted the taste of a good life, and you are not allowed to taste it.
This kind of bottom-level mutual harm thinking is a mentality pattern that likes to compare and compete with each other, and kill others, so as to feel that it can improve one's status.
People who grow up in this environmental mode will not only have extremely painful interpersonal relationships, but also be psychologically distorted and torn.
Some people have not been able to escape from this model for the rest of their lives, and the young people who have seen through this model have escaped from the bottom early.
Only those who have experienced it can understand that it is a double trauma of spirit and body, and unfortunate people have been in their past and childhood all their lives.
The more motivated and hardworking you are, the more people hate and envy you. They will constantly deny you, hit you, pour cold water on you, and do everything possible to make you believe that you can't do what they can't do.
Therefore, the people who rise from the bottom are very cold and ruthless, they can no longer help the people at the bottom, but try their best not to have a relationship with anyone. It is only because of the evil of human nature that poverty is born of that no one can save it.
And a seemingly poor person, you don't approach it easily, because there is a reason, most of them are self-inflicted. If you hate the people around you, the best way to express your dislike is not to quarrel with them, but to be diligent and leave them harder.
Then they will disappear from your life forever, almost like dead. In this era of material abundance, there is a high probability that there will be no physical cannibalism, but there will be a situation where spiritual people devour people.
When you see people tearing each other, spraying each other, arguing and fighting, you can run as far as you can, don't indulge in that negative energy field, which will only bring you pollution and mildew.
The closer you are, the more susceptible your mind and mind are to being polluted and lose the ability to think independently.
And only by respecting human nature can we live openly. What is human nature?Three words: uncontrollable. Therefore, it is necessary to understand that grace will take revenge, break one's promises, and not save oneself in the face of death.
It's like someone scolding me, and I have always ignored it, because I know that I can't save him, and he can only get a small sense of existence by scolding people.
The more incompetent people are, the more they like to scold and harm those who are good to themselves.
As long as you have the kung fu of scolding people and raising the bar, you might as well think about how to change your life.
Therefore, you must stay away from anyone with negative energy, and their mental level is also at that level.
You can't save him, but he can easily drag you to hell.