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Everyone has their own unique personality and needs. Some women believe that men's expectations of relationships are too simplistic or too direct, while others prefer more subtle and in-depth communication. In a relationship, women may focus more on expressing their feelings and emotions in the hope of gaining more understanding and support.
This does not mean that men do not have emotional expectations. In fact, many men also want to have a deep emotional connection with their girlfriend and enjoy the wonderful experience of mutual respect and care. In relationships, men are usually more focused on satisfaction and fulfillment, and they want their girlfriends to understand them, support them, and give them some help and encouragement in life.
Men and women have different ways of thinking and behaving, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. For example, some women feel that their boyfriends are becoming more and more inconsiderate of their feelings or are becoming more and more cold to themselves, while others feel that their girlfriends are too clingy or take their opinions too seriously. At this time, the two sides need to communicate and negotiate effectively to find a solution to the problem.
Some people may employ special tactics, such as trying hard to get a man's attention. These methods don't always work, and in some cases can even backfire. Due to the different personalities and preferences of each person, some men may not like this method at all and may even feel cheated or lose their self-esteem.
Here I would like to share three requirements for women and men. The more you say no, the more he spoils you, and the more men usually value you.
Don't give up dressing up.
The beginning of a relationship is always full of passion, and sweet words quickly become intoxicating. You've probably heard the promise many times, "No matter how bad things get, I'll still love you as always." However, Eileen Chang once warned us: "No woman is loved because of the beauty of her heart." The meaning of this sentence is that no matter how old we are, we should ignore our own image and the requirements of our hearts. 。
Even if you love someone deeply, you can't expect everything from them. There was a piece of news that made me think deeply. A woman who is a company executive with an excellent history, appearance, and career meets a man who is absolutely obedient to her. The man said, "I want you to be fat, and if I make you fat, you will never leave me." The woman believed him, and as a result, her weight suddenly increased from 180 pounds to 1,000 pounds when she was pregnant. Even after giving birth, my weight has not changed and I have gained a lot compared to before. As a result, the man's attitude has completely changed, "When I was thin, I was willing to do anything for you, but now I really can't stand it", which shows the change in people's hearts. Never underestimate a failed promise.
From the day you give up taking care of yourself, the seeds of psychological danger are quietly planted. We must always be vigilant, remember love, and never forget to love and care for ourselves.
Women should quit their jobs and go home.
In the ocean of love, there is a saying that nourishes people's hearts like honey: "I support you." This sentence is full of love and giving, giving people a warm feeling of being cherished and cared for.
Beautiful love words are certainly touching, but they can't warm a person's life. Just like the story of the TV series "The First Half of Life", in order to support her husband, Lazi resolutely quit her job and focused on family life.
At that time, Luo Zijun was full of confidence and believed that her husband loved her deeply and would cherish her for the rest of his life. However, when she returns to her family, she discovers that her husband had betrayed their marriage within a few years. This left her deeply disappointed and distressed. I also realized that the language of love is beautiful, but it cannot stand the test of reality.
Luo Zijun spent all her time on herself, trying to make herself beautiful and elegant, but she still couldn't keep her husband's heart. From this, she understands that love words are heartwarming, but really smart women will only listen to them and not take them seriously.
After all, love is not all there is to life in the future. Even if you meet someone you truly love, you still need to learn how to manage your life better. If a woman gives up her career easily, she will become reluctant to get married. Moreover, she will not be appreciated and valued by her husband.
Men don't understand her worth. Over time, the man began to feel that she was not worthy of his efforts.
Refuse to be overly dependent.
Men want women to trust them and rely on them. This will make you feel more valuable and important in the relationship. However, this dependence is not unlimited, and everyone must maintain a certain degree of independence and autonomy.
In many cases, women are already very independent before they have a relationship with a man. They are able to deal with various problems in life independently and have their own circle of friends and interests. However, dependence on men can lead to some problems.
Over-reliance can be detrimental to both parties. If a girl is always pestering her boyfriend, she doesn't have any room to use her personality and interests. As a result, their relationship may gradually drift apart.
Over-dependence can make a woman lose her self-confidence. When you give everything for your boyfriend, you may worry about whether you are good enough to deserve your partner's love. This worry can erode their self-confidence and affect their quality of life.
Women must learn to be independent and free in love. They should have their own goals and pursuits, and they should not put all their energy on their boyfriends. At the same time, we must also learn to use our own abilities and wisdom to solve problems, rather than relying entirely on each other.
Maintaining a certain level of independence does not mean being estranged from your boyfriend. On the contrary, moderate dependence can make both parties value each other more. If a woman can rely unconditionally on her boyfriend not only in her daily life, but also in important moments, then the relationship will be more stable and long-lasting.
Building a good relationship requires both parties to put in honesty, time, and effort to maintain, but at the same time, it is also important to always keep the relationship fresh and creative. Just like planting a tree, with careful watering, pruning, fertilization, the tree will grow and produce beautiful flowers.
The same applies to marriage. Marriage is not the end of life, but a new beginning. Marriage requires constant learning, Xi growth, and innovation to adapt to changing circumstances and challenges. Only in this way can our marriage last as long as the leaves are evergreen.
There is no one-time relationship. Don't give up on your dreams and pursuits, no matter when and where. Because dreams and pursuits are the driving force of life and the reason for us to keep moving forward. Only by constantly making yourself better and more attractive can you attract more and better people and make your life more exciting.
Cherish your current relationship and work hard to build a good marriage while not forgetting to chase your dreams.