On December 12th, a generation of beauties Zhou Haimei passed away, hoping that she would not be tortured by illness in heaven, Zhou Haimei has a very powerful ability, which is to immerse herself in herself.
At the age of 19, she fell in love with Lu Liangwei, a handsome, famous, but traditional actor.
At the age of 23, after Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei got married, Lu Liangwei and her mother-in-law hoped that she could give up filming, retreat behind the scenes, and teach her husband and children.
At that time, this may be the best destination for actresses, however, she refused to give up her career and finally chose to divorce.
Later, she and Liming fell in love because of the play, but when asked by reporters, Liming did not dare or was unwilling to admit it.
At that time, this situation was very common, so the reporter went to ask Zhou Haimei again.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Haimei made a different decision, she said: "The king of heaven never admits to being with me. Her expression and tone revealed dissatisfaction, and indirectly acquiesced in their relationship.
Subsequently, many Dawn fans attacked Zhou Haimei, and they tore up her posters and insulted her family in front of Zhou Haimei.
However, in the face of this kind of injury, Liming never stood up to speak up for Zhou Haimei.
In 2007, Zhou Haimei publicly admitted for the first time that she broke up with Liming, and after that, she began to fall in love with a legendary wealthy businessman.
But according to Hong Kong media reports, after the wealthy businessman learned that Zhou Haimei was not in good health and might not be able to have children, he proposed to break up, and Zhou Haimei readily agreed.
Most men think that a woman's destiny is to have children, but Zhou Haimei joined Miss Hong Kong at the age of 19 and made it clear when she introduced herself that she wanted to be the first female astronaut in Asia.
She admits that she is rebellious, not a good woman in the traditional sense, and she doesn't want to be a housewife in order to cater to anyone.
After knowing that she was sick, she joked that it was probably because God knew she had a bad temper and took back her fertility.
In 2022, she is still single, settled in Beijing, grows vegetables, raises flowers, raises dogs, cooks, and lives a paradise life.
She has been encouraging women on social platforms, telling them that love and marriage are not the main theme of life, and they can live happily without love.
For the current post-00s or post-90s women, this kind of remark may have long been a cliché, however, Zhou Haimei, who is born in the 60s, needs to bear great secular pressure.
She is truly remarkable, not only overcoming these pressures, but also courageously pursuing her feelings and needs, respecting her own values and beliefs, and rarely falling into self-doubt and internal friction.
I want to ask, how many people are forced to wronged themselves in order to cater to the eyes of others and the requirements of the world?
However, Zhou Haimei is not pessimistic, she has always lived according to her heart, she is not the kind of person who overemphasizes women's rights, she lives in the moment and accepts everything in the moment.
The best way to live should be immersed in yourself, not looking around, not comparing, and not internal friction.
When we can all be like Zhou Haimei, immersed in ourselves, the applause that belongs to us should not be absent, I hope you and I encourage together.