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If a woman has a lover outside, there are actually many different behaviors from the past, which will make the man feel very strange.
As British writer Alain de Botton says in Love Notes, this is the story of a beautiful woman who betrays her live-in boyfriend and falls in love with his colleague.
The betrayed man, who is more sensitive, immediately senses the woman's mistake.
But some sluggish men who have been cuckolded by women may not realize that they have been hurt more.
After a woman changes her mind, there will be the following five manifestations that men can understand in advance.
After a woman betrays, she will start to change her mobile phone password and secretly chat with the opposite sex, and the content has long exceeded the bottom line.
Even cheat men, find all kinds of excuses to go out and date lovers, sometimes combine with ** friends, find excuses not to go home for the night, and deceive men.
A man wants to see a woman's call history, or some social **, and the woman will refuse and ask the man: Why do you trust me so much?
After more such intimate behavior, it means that women are no longer unreserved to men, but there are some secret things quietly happening.
Psychologists believe that when adults are in love, the body is more honest than the mouth.
Even if a man doubts a woman, a woman denies it, but in fact, every time a man wants intimacy, she still shows resistance.
Even if a man just wants a good morning kiss or a hug before going out, the woman will walk away shyly and make the man have to think.
In addition, women will find various excuses to start sharing rooms and beds with men, leaving men "alone".
Japanese writer Keigo Higashino said very well in "The Devotion of Suspect X": As long as people have a favorite of the opposite sex, they will begin to pay attention to their appearance.
For example, it's been a long time since women have properly put on makeup or photographed beautiful **posts on social**. But after having a lover, she began to appreciate her beauty again, no longer bland, and maintained her beauty in the eyes of her lover.
Therefore, a woman is no longer sloppy, greasy, and dirty, but mostly she wants to use beauty to attract and retain people.
There is a passage in the book "Dawn Street":
During the bubble economy, men often spent money to please women, giving designer gifts on every date, dining at fancy restaurants, and sending women back to their luxury apartments with high-end imported cars they had painstakingly bought.
In fact, after a woman has a lover, she will also take the initiative to spend money on the man she likes. But this money is probably not earned by the woman herself, but by the man's living expenses.
Therefore, if a woman often asks for more money from a man, the man should pay attention.
Couples have been together for a long time, there is nothing new, and what happens every day does not make a woman's mood swings.
Then the man will find that the woman seems untroubled.
But once a woman falls in love again, the man will find that the woman's mood begins to change differently. For example, she usually looks listless, but after having a lover, she can be excited.
When a woman has a conflict with her lover, she may also transfer her anger to the man.
In everyday life, men are often despised and belittled by women, feeling that they used to be world heroes in the hearts of women, why does it seem to be especially bad now?
The truth is: men are still the same, but women have changed.