Author: Wen Sui's emotion
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. This is a truth that we are all familiar with, but in real life, we are often prone to fall into the situation of being confused by the authorities. Let me tell you about my experience with my boyfriend during a crystal purchase, and I hope you can learn some lessons from it.
Once, my boyfriend and I went shopping for crystals. We took a fancy to a beautiful crystal, and the ** given by the merchant was 27,000 yuan.
In my opinion, this crystal is only worth 12,000 yuan at most. So, I boldly bid 12,000 yuan. However, when I reported this, I had already begun to regret it in my heart, thinking that it was too high
The merchant pretends not to sell, claiming that the purchase price is very high. At this time, when my boyfriend saw this, he actually increased the ** to 20,000 yuan, which was 8,000 yuan higher than my **.
I immediately felt anxious, afraid that I would be deceived. To prevent being deceived, I immediately picked up my bag, turned around and left.
However, when I walked out of the store some distance, my boyfriend chased after me in a rage. He asked me, "Why did you run away?".”
I replied, "If you don't run again, you'll be deceived, and that crystal is not worth 20,000 yuan at all." ”
His eyes widened and he said angrily: "Do you believe it or not, if I pay 20,000 yuan, the merchants will not sell it?"”
I said firmly, "I'm not buying, I don't want it." But he adamantly disagreed, and dragged me back to the store.
The boyfriend asked the merchant again: "Is it sold for 20,000 yuan?"The merchant pretended to hesitate for a moment, and then agreed to close the deal.
At this moment, her boyfriend suddenly realized that he might be ** high, but it was too late. He had no choice but to buy this crystal for 20,000 yuan.
Afterwards, we took the crystal to other shops and wanted to know the true value of the crystal. However, the answer is: this crystal is worth about 7,000 yuan at most.
In this matter, the boyfriend obviously made a mistake. But he always insisted on his opinion, and even argued with me.
I thought, is my boyfriend stupid?Or is it different from my concept of consumption?
But when I look back on this experience, I realized that the key to staying sane in the buying process is to learn to resist the merchant's ** and stick to your own judgment. At the same time, we should also learn to remind each other and face the fraud of merchants together. Only in this way can we keep a clear head in the complex consumption environment and avoid falling into the situation of "the authorities are confused".
In addition, this experience also showed me that there is a big difference in the way men and women think when it comes to consumption. Women tend to be more practical and dare to bid;Men are more likely to be induced by merchants and pursue blindly. To a certain extent, this difference reflects the difference in the perception of consumption between the two genders. Therefore, it is particularly important to remind and communicate with each other when shopping.
In short, this experience of buying crystals made me deeply realize that in order to stay sober in the consumer market, we need to constantly improve our own judgment, learn to listen to others' opinions, and jointly deal with merchant fraud. At the same time, we should also pay attention to gender differences, remind each other when shopping, and jointly protect our own rights and interests. Only in this way can we become a real "bystander" in this consumption war and see things as they are.