In 1994, a 22-year-old woman changed her life path, and she was the singer Lu Wei, who later became a household name.
Lu Wei was born in a literary family, and has a soft spot for singing and dancing since she was a child. She could have chosen to become a people's teacher after graduating from university and enjoy a stable job in the system.
However, the passion for ** has always flowed deep in her heart, and it cannot be suppressed in the end. After receiving encouragement from relatives and friends, Lu Wei plucked up the courage and signed up for the ** Young Singer TV Grand Prix that year.
The audience was full. Lu Wei was wearing a performance costume that had been carefully modified by her mother, and she was nervous and excited. When she walked onto the stage, she looked down and saw that her parents and teachers were looking at her with warm eyes, which gave her great strength.
As soon as Lu Wei's singing fell, her magnetic and loud voice shook the audience. Her mellow and rich treble voice is like a heavenly sound, and her light singing voice is like a spring breeze.
There was a round of applause from the audience, and everyone was sincerely happy for this wonderful newcomer.
Lu Wei finally won the silver medal in this Grand Prix with her outstanding strength and widespread popularity, marking her official entry into the music industry as a professional singer. A few months later, the senior management of the Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe added her to the team, and soon she grew into a high-profile military singer.
Over the years, Lu Wei has appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times, and even became a resident guest of the Spring Festival Gala. Today, she is a high-profile star singer, and her achievements make everyone feel sincerely proud.
A deep and unforgettable first love.
In 1997, when she was 25 years old, Lu Wei's career was smooth sailing and radiant. At the same time, her love life has also ushered in a beautiful start.
On a crisp autumn afternoon, Lu Wei gets off work as usual to meet her boyfriend, but finds that she can't find him in the old place they agreed upon. She furrowed her brow slightly, looked around, and waited alone.
Her mood began to become uneasy, which was not common.
Her boyfriend suddenly had a high fever and was admitted to the hospital, but Lu Wei didn't have time to find out. When the girl rushed to the ward, she found her boyfriend lying weakly on the bed. When he saw her, he smiled reluctantly, but there was a faint pain in his heart.
He was found to be suffering from a terminal illness with a very unpromising prognosis and the possibility that he would not be able to take care of himself at any time.
Let's wrap it up. The boyfriend tried his best to say these words, but tears were already coming out of his eyes. He was reluctant, but he had to let go.
The singer, who once had everything, made the decision to stop his performance plans and apply for long-term patient leave. In the days that followed, she stayed at the hospital bed all day, wiping her boyfriend's body, feeding him and changing his dressing.
In the past three years, Lu Wei has never left a step, just hoping to stay with her boyfriend for a while. Her dedication was exchanged for the incomparable admiration of her mother and future mother-in-law, as well as the increased love of her boyfriend.
However, fate was cruel. On a cold winter night in 2000, her boyfriend gently twitched in her arms a few times and passed away forever. Lu Wei hugged him, who had become cold, and tears rained down.
For years, she was deeply grief-stricken, unable to heal the pain in her heart, and no longer willing to accept other men into the depths of her heart. This first love has become the deepest and most painful memory of her life.
Sun Hao's old friend, thirty years as a day.
In 1994, Lu Wei began to emerge in the music industry and met fellow singer Sun Hao. In the process of singing together, the two established a deep friendship. The outside world has always regarded them as a tacit combination, but because Lu Wei already has a heart, they just maintain a pure friendship.
Thirty years have passed, and everyone has changed, only Sun Hao remains the same. After Lu Wei's first love experience of wrestling with death, he became the first person to give her comfort.
Every sleepless night of Lu Wei, whenever she has an emotional breakdown, Sun Hao is always by her side. His solid embrace seemed to have the power to help her heal herself.
Sun Hao often said: "Everything will be fine, be strong." ”
Over the years, they didn't see each other often, but whenever they had free time, they would spend the whole day sitting and chatting slowly. Lu Wei regarded him as a brother and sister, and confided in him her truest and most secret thoughts without reservation.
Sun Hao never expressed any dissatisfaction with her weak performance.
There is often speculation about whether they have a private relationship. However, the friendship between Lu Wei and Sun Hao has always been the same and has never crossed the line. Perhaps it is precisely because of this clear and transparent friendship that they have been able to accompany each other to this day.
Lu Wei's most intimate friend in life is Sun Hao, and the friendship between them will last for a long time.
Fill the void in your heart with your work.
Lu Wei was deeply traumatized by the death of her boyfriend, and the whole person became listless. In the first two years, she guarded her boyfriend's ** in a daze all day long, and she couldn't even swallow food, so thin that only a skeleton remained.
The mother had red eyes and tried her best to introduce her daughter to someone, but the daughter kept refusing. She was very sad to see her daughter in trouble.
Lu Wei weakly replied that she was exhausted and could no longer love someone.
It wasn't until 2011 that she suddenly began to devote herself to her work, filling the emptiness in her heart with a singing career. In fact, her parents had already considered this solution, but Lu Wei had to go through all the grief to get back on her feet.
She resolutely accepted the invitation to perform in Milan and donated all her appearance fees to a local hospital for the purchase of medical equipment.
Lu Wei returned to the center of the stage, she fully integrated into the ** and the role, forgetting all the pain for the time being. When the performance ended, the thunderous applause from the audience made her feel happy for the first time in a long time.
Lu Wei realized that perhaps only by continuing to work hard could she find a glimmer of peace.
Since then, Lu Wei has frequently participated in various performances, participated in ** meetings, and recorded records, and work is as important as life for her. Only in the busyness will she gradually forget the figure of the man in her mind.
Lu Wei is no longer deliberately looking for new feelings, but hopes that her singing can touch more people, and she sincerely thanks ** for giving her the power to be reborn.
Live firmly in the present moment.
Time flies, and in an instant, Lu Wei has entered the age of 52. The girl who was once heartbroken is now living a resilient life.
She no longer deliberately looks for new feelings, but devotes most of her energy to the development of her singing career. Although her love is long gone, Lu Wei has learned to be grateful for every encounter in this life.
Especially her old friend Sun Hao, whose 30 years of companionship has become a steady source of strength for her.
Lu Wei occasionally wonders what their lives would be like if that man was still aroundBut no matter what she thought, she could only smile bitterly. The daughters all married off to become other people's wives, and she still lived alone.
Loneliness is not within the scope of Lu Wei's perception, she has adapted to the state of living alone.
Lu Wei has now made great achievements in her career and has a wide range of interpersonal relationships. Her life is no longer as poor as it used to be. Sometimes, she travels to distant places alone and enjoys a quiet time.
She also began to take a little interest in this matter, and gradually it became a little hobby of hers.
Lu Wei has no regrets or expectations for the future, she will not deliberately pursue a specific person, but she also does not reject natural fate. After all, after experiencing such pain, Lu Wei is very open-minded, and she knows that cherishing the present is the most important thing.
She still sings and performs, hoping to move others with her singing, just as she was moved by it. Living a fulfilling life in her unique way is the best inspiration that Lu Wei conveys to everyone.