Filial piety has always been a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
It has always been natural for parents to raise their children for the young, and for their children to support their parents for the elderly.
But for the children, when he was born came in
From the moment of this world, everything is unknown and ignorant.
It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and if you want to cultivate a filial and sensible child, then you can't do without it
Parent's words and deeds.
Only by leading by example can children learn from each other.
In our society today, parents will pay more attention to
The child's conduct and behaviour Xi.
Because these Xi often reflect,
What is a person's moral character, and how much respect and love they have for their parents.
For parents, whether children are filial,
Whether they have good conduct and demeanor has always been the most important thing for them.
Children have the following 3 Xi habits, which are the precursors of unfilial piety, and parents should leave a way for themselves
01.Extremely selfish
The extreme selfishness of children is a Xi of unfilial piety.
When the child behaves in a way that shows
When extremely selfish and self-centered, he tends to ignore the needs and feelings of his parents.
This behavior will not only lead to,
Tensions and conflicts in family relationships can also affect parents' expectations and trust in their children.
Parents want to see their children who are caring, helpful, and not only looking out for their own interests.
If the child's temperament continues like this, then he will definitely not understand in the future that he will be grateful and repay his parents.
In the face of an extremely selfish child, parents may have bitter words in their old age.
02.Playful and hedonistic
Although it is a child's nature to love to play, if it is too playful and enjoyable, then this will also be a Xi that worries parents.
When children are addicted to games
Recreation or other pastime activities without neglect of schoolwork
Parents often feel anxious and disappointed when it comes to work and family responsibilities.
Parents hope that their children will be able to establish a correct outlook on life and values, work hard to learn Xi and strive for progress.
Instead of indulging in it all day long
Unreal fun and enjoyment.
Children who have been living in such an environment will have a hard time making it difficult for them to grow up in the future.
03.There is no empathy
The reason why this world is beautiful is because even though life is cruel, there will still be in the world
Many kind and empathetic people.
When people get along with each other, only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, and each other's feelings will become more profound.
But if it is when the children are to others
Parents feel heartache and anxiety when they are indifferent to their feelings and needs, and lack understanding and respect for others.
They want their children to be empathetic, empathetic, and kind, not cold and ruthless!
As a child, you should understand the expectations and concerns of your parents.
We must work hard to establish
Correct outlook on life and values, cultivate good conduct and behavioral Xi, reassure parents, and make families harmonious.
On the road of growth, always keep in mind the teachings of parents, respect the expectations of parents, and take practical actions to repay their years of nurturing grace.
Let the family be more harmonious and make people's lives happier, only in this way can we be
Truly be filial to your parents, and also leave a bright future for life.