As a mature young man, what childish psychology should you throw away?Here are some common childish mentalities that should be learned to avoid or overcome.
1. Dependence psychology.
Many young people are Xi to relying on their parents, teachers or friends from an early age, and still lack the ability to think and make decisions independently when they grow up. They often need the support and help of others to complete their tasks and lack self-confidence and independence. However, a mature young person should learn to think independently, make decisions on their own, and no longer rely on others.
2. Escape psychology.
When faced with difficulties and challenges, many young people choose to run away or give up. They are unwilling to face reality and put in the effort to solve problems. However, a mature young person should learn to face difficulties bravely and actively seek solutions to problems instead of running away or giving up.
3. Self-centeredness.
Many young people are self-centered and focus only on their own feelings and needs, ignoring the feelings and needs of others. They tend to think only of their own interests and not the interests of others. However, a mature young person should learn to respect others and pay attention to their feelings and needs in order to build good relationships.
4. Procrastination.
A lot of young people like to procrastinate and don't start acting until the last minute. They often feel that they have plenty of time and can complete tasks slowly. However, a mature young man should learn to value his time, make a plan and act according to it, and no longer procrastinate on tasks.
5. Complaining.
Many young people like to complain about the unsatisfactory in life and complain about their unfair treatment. They often feel that their unsatisfactory lives are caused by others or circumstances, not their own. However, a mature young person should learn to accept reality and actively seek solutions to problems instead of complaining or passing the buck.
6. Vanity.
Many young people like to pursue vanity and superficial glory, and do some irrational behavior for the sake of face. They tend to focus only on their own image and status, without taking into account their inner feelings and needs. However, a mature young person should learn to let go of vanity and face life and work with his true self.
7. Impulsive psychology.
Many young people tend to act impulsively and lack the ability to think rationally and make judgments. They often act irrationally because of the impulse, which leads to undesirable consequences. However, a mature young person should learn to control their emotions and behavior, think rationally and make informed decisions.
Letting go of these childish mentalities is a challenge that mature young people must face. Only by overcoming these psychological barriers can we better adapt to society and life, and become a responsible and responsible person.
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