Hi there, I'm Lejian.
Recently, I always receive private messages from readers and friends in the background.
Although the problems are different, most people are unable to do anything about certain issues, unable to make the right decisions about certain things, and wish I could give some advice.
In the past, Le Jian believed that girls could be confidently confused before the age of 25.
But now standing at the threshold of 35 years old, I find that many girls are too late to mature, we always think that we have seen the road ahead clearly and made a good plan, but people only find that their ideas are too naïve when they are middle-aged.
Real maturity actually occurs at the age of 35, which is the turning point in a girl's life.
But at this time, the vast majority of girls have become wives and mothers, we have almost no chance of trial and error, and society will not be so tolerant of us.
But this does not mean that we can't rewrite the trajectory of life, the more critical the period, the more people think that you are in this life, there should be a cognitive breakthrough.
At this time, we are more composed, calm, and very patient, and the odds are greater.
Today, Le Jian has summarized 4 very wonderful suggestions for everyone, deliberately practice Xi, and your life will turn around.
1.Adopt a healthy lifestyle
Health is 1, and no more 0 is useless without 1.
After the age of 35, your body begins to age slowly, and you need to pay more attention to health maintenance.
It is necessary to choose a nutritious diet, have a regular normal work and rest, you can eat less, but you have to eat better, you can get up late, but you must go to bed early.
At this time, our life is not only our own, but also our partners, children and parents, we have to grow, we have to wear many hats, all the light of life, but also to have health to support.
Health is not the first, but the only one.
2. Learn to subtract from life
A 35-year-old girl has more responsibility and pressure on her shoulders, and if the time could be changed to 48 hours, many people would be willing to exchange it for the most precious thing.
But time doesn't give you this option, it never gives everyone 24 hours.
But have you ever thought that the person who is friends with time actually has the right to choose, so that the day can be more than 24 hours?
Seek a life within 8 hours, and seek development outside within 8 hours.
PassedStay away from the people and things that consume you, and get back all the time you have wasted.
Life will take on a very different look because of the choices and ways of using it.
Let's all go and become the closest friend of time, cherish it, love it, and refuse all people and things to dissolve it.
3. Learn to be a good role model
Children are a mirror of their parents, and many of their problems can be found in their parents.
Children imitate their parents and are influenced by their parents.
A good example is better than a thousand teachings.
If you want your child to love school Xi, put down your phone firstIf you want to raise emotionally stable children, don't be too anxious yourself.
At this time, you should read more, review more, and strive to improve your cognitive level.
To knowInvesting in education is the only excellent target that can have a certain return, and it doesn't necessarily cost much money, but it does have to invest in action and time.
Your efforts and awareness will bless the whole family.
4. Manage your money well
90% of the world's problems can be solved with money, and the remaining 10% can be alleviated with money.
I suggest that you must have a job, and if you have a side hustle to make more money and faster, of course it is good.
But if you don't have other channels to get money, you must not put your palms up, even if the salary is low, you must have a monthly living guarantee.
I'm not trying to keep you stuck in a paycheck forever, I want you to use a stable income as a foundationWork hard to develop your new skills.
Let yourself gradually have an income that does not depend on others, does not rely on a monthly salary, and can also create an income that you can use your skills, specialties and hobbies.
This income will continue to increase as you continue to improve, and there is no ceiling.
I have a friend who has been teaching photography on his own for 2 years while working as a waiter, and now he has started to teach students and has successfully turned his hobby into work.
Life is not for money, but we need money for the life we want.
Managing your own money is especially important for girls who are already 35 years old.
The rules of the world are:When you become better, other things will get better. Girls who don't have a good family of origin basically start to wake up after the age of 35. Therefore, for ordinary girls, 35-45 years old is the first ten years, we must manage this critical ten years and manage our lives well!