Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Love is like a plant, it needs to be cared for, pruned and watered.
If it is not watered and taken care of for a long time, it will gradually wither, and it will no longer have the vitality and vitality of the past.
When love enters life, it is necessary to spend each other's mind and energy to manage it, so that it can show a different brilliance.
The more you will "make a bad life" with a man, the more he will love you and be obsessed
Two people live together, and romance is no longer the focus of life. The feelings of each other will gradually forget to express love in the dullness of day after day.
Zhang Ailing once said: "Love seems romantic and innocent, but in the end, the reality is cruel, because she can't stand the cooking of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar." ”A truly intelligent woman is good at breaking the boring life, creating a sense of ritual, and bringing freshness to each other's world.
I've seen such a paragraph**, which says:
A couple who have been married for several years, because they are busy with each other's work, their relationship gradually fades.
On their wedding anniversary, the woman decided to spend it in the most special way.
She wears the long dress she had when she went on her first date with a man and is waiting for him in the restaurant where she went on her first date.
At the first sight of a woman, the almost forgotten memories in the man's heart instantly became clear, and the love in his heart was completely revived.
The woman said, "Let's get acquainted again, hello, nice to meet you." ”
And the man will smile heartily, hold the woman's hand, and say, "Hello, I'm glad to meet you too." That's where the love between the two began, and it's also where the love was reborn.
In a boring life, it is easy to bury each other's love, so that men cannot feel the existence of love.
Women are good at creating a sense of ritual, which will make a man's heart resurge with love and make him fascinated by you.
It doesn't cost a lot of money to create a sense of ritual, it can be to go to a movie together, buy him a flower when he gets off work, or take a trip ...... around him when he has a holiday
Create a sense of ritual, break the immutability of life, and the days will become unique and bright.
A woman with a sense of style is the most attractive.
It's just that most Chinese women are very reserved and reserved. Even if you get married and live with a man, you don't dare to show your style.
The same woman is easy to make men have aesthetic fatigue and are unwilling to put more thought and energy into it.
Try to let men see the other side of you, see you different, arouse men's curiosity about you, and be more conducive to emotional management.
The more amorous a woman is, the more distinctive her personality is, the more she can attract a man's heart.
Xu Zhimo wrote in the poem: "The most important thing is the gentleness of the bowed head, like a water lotus, which is not as shy as the cool breeze." ”Men's hearts will have more expectations for women, no matter what others are in, they always care about women in their hearts and miss women.
A man's heart, which is deeply attracted to a woman, will spend more time and effort to maintain the relationship between the two and give more care to the woman.
Women know how to express their style, which will make ordinary days show different colors. Let love become more vivid and charming.
When two people live together, women should not be too reckless and should not always refuse the help of men.
Women can show weakness appropriately and ask men for help to make them feel needed.
Occasionally, a woman can also make him worry about you and create his sense of worth.
For example, if a woman has dinner with a colleague in the company, she can end it later to create some worries for the man and make him always worry about you.
If a man can't let go of you in his heart, he will take the initiative to pick you up, and when he sees that you are safe, he will completely put his mind at ease.
Or, when encountering physical work, show weakness and ask him to help;When you encounter something you don't think you can do, go to him to solve the ......
Appropriate weakness will arouse a man's desire to protect. When he is not by your side, he will worry about you, whether he can take care of himself, and he will always worry about you.
At the same time, the occasional worry of a woman will make him find his value in the relationship and will deepen his maintenance of each other's feelings.
The more a man worries about you, the more he values you in his heart, and the more he can engrave the love for you in his mind.
Love requires two people to manage and maintain it with their hearts in a long life.
If love is ignored, the hearts of men and women will gradually drift away.
Only when both parties put enough thought and energy into each other, will each other be able to feel the warmth and sweetness of love.
Love with heart and manage with heart, each other will be able to harvest a happy and sweet life.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.