What should my husband do when a wife who goes out to work and lives with another man?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-19

Xiaomei, the once energetic wife, is now shrouded in a deep layer of anxiety, and her eyes are full of exhaustion and heaviness. This made her husband Zhao Wei feel both confused and helpless, and every time he tried to persuade her to take care of her body, he even directly offered to let her go home. However, Xiaomei always rejected his kindness on the grounds of stabilizing the family's finances and insisted on continuing to work outside the home.

After some communication and understanding, Xiaomei finally decided not to go to Hefei to work after the New Year. This decision means that they can be there for each other every day and face life's challenges together, no matter how financially stressful, is a blessing. Zhao Wei is grateful from the bottom of his heart for his wife's efforts and sacrifices, and he firmly supports her choice and assures her that he will be there for her no matter what happens.

When Xiaomei offered to find a job near home, Zhao Wei gladly accepted the decision. However, just after the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, Xiaomei suddenly decided to return to Hefei to work. This unexpected decision made Zhao Wei feel lost, but he knew that his wife was a stubborn person, and once he decided, things would not change. Although he was a little unwilling and regretful in his heart, Zhao Wei still chose to support her silently.

The next morning, Xiaomei left in a hurry, and Zhao Wei was full of loss and helplessness. He realized that his wife's sudden decision may have more complicated reasons, and under the psychological guidance of his family, he decided to go to Hefei to find his wife as soon as possible and let her return to him.

Zhao Wei finally found Xiaomei in Hefei, but he was shocked by what he saw. The rental room was messy, with a strange man's ** hanging on the balcony, and a pair of strange man's leather boots under the bed. Zhao Wei immediately understood everything. The anger in my heart suddenly manifested itself. But in the face of his beloved wife, he didn't know how to express it. Xiaomei's crying and explanation uncover the truth of the matter.

Xiaomei explained that while working in Hefei, she met a man from Shandong named Fan Qiang, and because Fan Qiang often helped her, the two developed a relationship. However, Fan Qiang is particularly domineering, and his desire for control and paranoia frightens Xiaomei, and she has tried to end the relationship, but she fears that Fan Qiang will hurt herself and her children, and her heart is in trouble. On the second day of the first lunar month, Fan Qiang sent him a message, asking her to return to fat as soon as possible, and if he couldn't see her on the fifth day of the first month, he would go home to find her on the sixth day of the first month. She was afraid that Fan Qiang would come to her home to look for her, and if she didn't get it right, she would ruin her reputation and might hurt her husband and children, so she suddenly changed her mind and decided to return to Fan Qiang's side.

When Zhao Wei heard this, his heart was full of anger and pain, but he could also feel his wife's sincerity and inner remorse. He understands that his wife is not going to find another man out of intention, but is bound by a man with a strong desire to control. Fearing for her own safety and the safety of her children, she fell into a fear that she couldn't extricate herself from. All this made Zhao Wei's mood gradually calm down, and at the same time, he also forgave his wife.

Zhao Wei realizes that marriage is not all smooth sailing, and everyone can make mistakes and encounter setbacks. He understands that marriage requires the efforts and tolerance of both parties, and only by understanding and supporting each other can a strong and happy marriage be truly built. At this point, only forgiveness is the key to maintaining the marriage. So, he chose to forgive his wife, and he was willing to work with her to re-establish the trust and stability of the marriage. He looked at his wife and told her, "No matter what happens, I'll be there for you." ”

On the same day, Zhao Wei left Hefei with his wife, went to work in a place where no one could find them, and started a new life.

Dear readers, do you think Xiaomei can really continue to live with Zhao Wei?What should Zhao Wei do. Let us know what you think in the comments section.

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