On the stage of life, some people are cautious everywhere, for fear of losing face, and end up living cautiously and appearing restrained, while others can calmly deal with their mistakes and embarrassments, so they have more courage and freedom to try new things, to challenge their limitations, to find what they are truly passionate about.
We all know the iron law: the more you try, the more you will make mistakes;The more ugly you are, the faster you can grow. Because as long as you dare to face problems, the more you make mistakes, the more you can learn. Failure and embarrassment are the levers that lead us to growth. If we are afraid of making a fool of ourselves and being criticized by others' eyes and words, then we may miss out on many opportunities to grow and meet a better version of ourselves.
You must know that in life, it is inevitable to make a fool of yourself. The traces left by youth should not be remorse and self-blame, but countless brave attempts and failures that are not afraid of making a fool of themselves. It's not terrible to be ugly, it's terrible because we are afraid of failure and shame, so we choose our comfort zone and choose to stagnate.
A person's life should not be lived around the gaze and evaluation of others. Face?That's just a way for others to see you. What others see as you is not necessarily the real you. Be brave and be yourself, don't care what others think, so that you can live confidently and happily. In fact, when we let go of these concerns and choose not to be afraid of making a fool of ourselves, then our lives will become more colorful.
People should be thick-skinned and smile when they live", which may be a kind of wisdom for people. Only by accepting our own imperfections and bravely facing all kinds of life can we truly feel the beauty and richness of life, and find that every corner of the world is worth exploring.
In general, those who are fearless and know how to laugh at life will really have the power to grow, because they understand that embarrassment is only temporary, and the harvest of learning and Xi and growth from mistakes is a lifetime. Everyone has the right to pursue their dreams and follow their own path in life. Even if the road is full of thorns and bumps, don't let it hold back. Because life is like a marathon, it doesn't matter if you run fast or not, just whether you have the courage to persevere to the finish line. It's not terrible to be ugly, it's terrible to not have the courage to face your imperfections and the courage to pursue your dreams.