If you want your child to learn to respect others, you have to learn to respect your child, I once saw a mother yelling at her child when she was eating in a restaurant, because when the child eats the bun, he only eats the filling inside and leaves the skin in the bowl. Many people may think that it is the wrong way to eat steamed buns and should be stopped, but yelling at your child is the reason why your child is grumpy and will not respect others.
Some parents want to completely control their children's behavior and preferences, which is ridiculous, if parents want their children to become a person who knows how to respect others, first of all, they must respect him, when the child does something that you don't understand, we should pay attention to the environment and don't get angry with the child, first ask the child why he wants to do that, everyone has the ability to think independently and like different things, including children. When children have different opinions that are accepted, they feel heard and respected, and it also teaches them that they should be respectful despite differences of opinion, and that if we discipline our children with threats or harshness when they do something wrong, we are telling them how to be cruel to those who make mistakes.
Who can not make mistakes?Parents can imagine that if you make a stupid mistake at work and your boss speaks to you in a way that demeans you, it must feel terrible, and any of us will respect the boss more because of itNo, it's the same with children, harsh or punitive punishments don't earn respect.
Positive discipline is kindness and firmness towards children, and discipline means teaching rather than punishing. Studies have shown that positive discipline is more effective and lasting than punishment.