"People respect me, I respect people. "Respect others, others will respect you, on the contrary, if you don't respect others, others will not respect you。We often say that people are equal, respect for others is respect for oneself, helping others is equal to helping oneself, etc., based on this concept, respect for others can win the respect of many friends and achieve a career. Teach your child to respect othersYesKnowThis kind of character is not innate, but the result of a good education from parents
Parents should respect their children. Educators have said thatBarbarism begets barbarism, and charity begets charity, and this is the truth。If you don't have affection for your child, they don't have affection for others either. In other words, treat children with due respect, and children will know how to respect others. Therefore, it is incumbent upon parents to educate in this regard.
As a parent, you should respect others at all times and be an example of respect for others in your family。There are some parents who like to talk about people behind their backs and laugh at others. Of course, the person who is being ridiculed does not know, but such behavior sets the child up for disrespect"Role model"。Some parents call blind people blind, people who are blind in one eye one-eyed dragon, and some parents like to give nicknames to others. All of these disrespectful behaviors can have a bad impact on children to a large extent
Cultivating children's qualities of learning to respect others is to teach them to treat others equally, be honest and trustworthy, be good at helping others, be tolerant and generous, and form good interpersonal Xi habits. You can't look at others differently, and that's one way.
No matter how society develops, how ideas are renewed, how ideas evolve or open-minded, the virtue of mutual respect cannot be abandoned. As parents, they should teach their children to uphold the traditional way of life and the principles of life, so that children can learn to respect others. Because only by letting children learn to respect others can children earn the respect of others. Parents must teach their children to respect others, just as you want others to respect you, and you must acknowledge that others have the same rights as you. You must learn to treat others right, and to praise their efforts and forgive their mistakes, just as you expect others to praise your efforts and forgive your mistakes.
We should teach our children to respect other people's work, labor and willingness, let our children be truly civilized and polite, and let children learn to honestly show appreciation and gratitude for others or something. In addition, the subtle effect of parents' words and deeds on children is not trivial, so parents must pay attention to their words and deeds so as not to have a bad impact on their children.
A well-bred child should learn to respect and help others. People who respect others will be respected by others, and respecting others is actually respecting themselves.
Some children are spoiled, don't know how to think about others, and lose their temper when they don't do anything at will. What should parents do at this time?
Let's take a small example: my mother took student E to a small restaurant to eat, and student E felt that the food was unpalatable and began to lose his temper, and my mother taught him to be considerate of others, and student E was inspired by it. Later, when he ate in the school cafeteria, even if the food was not delicious, he ate it silently, and asked his classmates to be considerate of the canteen master.
It can be seen that if parents are considerate of others, children will generally be empathetic and considerate of the feelings of others when they are influenced by their parents. Therefore, in daily life, parents should try to be empathetic, considerate of others, not tricky, not embarrassed others, and tolerant and generous when encountering things.
For example, if you are misunderstood, as long as the facts are clarified, don't dwell on it anymore;In a crowded place, if you are touched or stepped on, as long as you are not injured, you should not be unforgiving;Others don't speak well, laugh it off, it's not a big deal, you don't have to take it seriously;Between relatives and friends, talk more about benevolence, be willing to sacrifice material interests for the sake ......of family affection, and do not quarrel endlessly because of a little self-interestParents are role models for their children, and children will be like that kind of people when they are parents.
In addition,In order for children to be considerate of the feelings of others, parents must first take care of their children's feelings. Don't think it's indifferent to what your child cares about. For example, if children need to stay with their parents often, parents should not let their children stay at home by themselves for various reasonsChildren are eager to communicate with their parents and express their thoughts, so parents should give their children the opportunity to listen patiently, instead of interrupting them at will, or even laughing at their childish and innocent ......
In this world, you are the one who knows you best. Parents can help their children understand themselves, but they must not ignore their feelings. Only by respecting the child's feelings will the child take care of the feelings of others.
In some family matters, parents need to take care of their children's feelings. For example, if a parent wants to move due to a job transfer, he or she should explain the situation to his child in advance so that the child can be psychologically prepared. When choosing a new home, let your child express his or her opinions. In this way, the impact of moving on your child can be reduced.
Some parents think that moving is an adult's business, and their children just need to follow along. Such thoughts are typical of thoughts that do not take into account the child's feelings. The child has lived in one place for several years or even more than ten years, has feelings for the surrounding environment, and has made many friends. Sudden parting will make the child feel melancholy. If parents tell their children in advance that they will have a farewell ceremony and exchange with friends, they will also take care of everyone's feelings when they deal with similar things in the future.