There is a podcast called "everybody has a secret" abroad, and the program team often goes to reddit to collect information and dig out the bloody stories that are still buried in everyone's hearts.
For example, ...... like "I fell in love with my boyfriend's brother", "During my pregnancy, my husband cheated on my mother".
One of the podcast's hosts: Annabellelee).
Not long ago, the program team paid attention to the list of high-quality authors of a 27-year-old young woman. Her story is equally powerful, telling:How she spendsyears ago, he made up a love story with a male classmate, and successfully deceived all his family and friends, thinking that they were about to enter marriage. In order to fulfill her lies, she has done a lot of incredible things, which made netizens call it unbelievable, and also called her paranoia......
Guest Eilishgilligan is reading the story).
The story takes place in the girl's high school days, when she met a boy named Liam through a ** learning forum. The two quickly became good friends, texting each other every day for almost two years.
Their relationship was very close at one point, but only online. Because the family lives far away, and they are not very old, it is not convenient for them to go out alone, so they have only met once in two years.
Until one day, this pure "online friendship" was broken by a sentence from a good friend of the woman......
A good friend told the woman that a boy had confessed to him that he wanted to be her boyfriend.
The woman was very panicked when she heard this, saying that her parents were very strict with her, never giving her a chance to experience a rich life, and did not even let her leave the house. Compared to her peers, her experience has always been boring and boring, and she has always been worried that it will affect her friendships.
Now, her best friend is about to fall in love, and the feeling of being "left behind" has increased her psychological burden.
After thinking about it, in order to integrate into the collective, she made an extremely absurd decision-Lying to everyone that he also got a boyfriend, that isliam
At first, this perfectly fills the woman's vanity, but soon, it drags her into the abyss of lies......
She had to find a way to get her lie, and even if Liam gradually cut off contact with her later, she had to insist on finishing the show alone.
In order to manufacture andliamThe illusion of affection, she forged a lot of fake ** numbersinsinformation and chat logs, etc., once, she even pretended to followliamWe went on vacation together for a week, but we were actually just alone in the apartment ......
If someone asks, why don't you see it all the time?liam, she would sayliamis a relentless addict, often has to undergo drug rehabilitation**, and he really gets through the tricks.
It is worth mentioning that the woman later re-contacted Liam with an anonymous Instagram account and learned that he had really taken drugs.
At that moment, her imagination and reality overlapped, but that only made her more confused, "I thought I knew Liam well, but I didn't know him at all. ”
One of the hosts of the podcast: gemmadimond).
That's it, for a momentYears have passed, and this lie has accompanied the woman fromThe year has comeYear.
During this period, she never thought about stopping the loss in time, but became more and more black, deceived all her family and friends, and even deceived herself.
Sometimes, those lies become so deep and complex that I truly believe that we are already in this together. ”
I was excited by his presence, obsessed with the idea that he and I were already in love, as if I were a teenage girl. ”
Even though I know it doesn't make sense, in my heart, I'm Liam's fiancée. ”
I love someone so dearly, he is a real stranger to me, but not a ......”
Reason told her that it was wrong, "I'm an impostor, but the only person I've ever lied to is myself." "I felt like I was about to lose my mind and realized that I needed to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. ”
But the thrill of fantasy prevailed, and the woman later took another risky move, telling her family and friends that she and Liam were engaged ......
The relationship has progressed to the point of marriage, and the lie is naturally becoming more and more difficult to maintain. In the end, the woman who walked on the edge of danger every day was still exposed.
Friends found out she was spentYears of maintaining a big lie, let her directly social death, at the same time,liamI found that I used it all the time, tooinsIt was the woman herself who sent the message to him, and he completely cut off contact with her.
This broke the woman's heartbreak, and now her illusions have collapsed and her real life has been destroyed......
She didn't know how to make up for it, so she could only share this unspeakable experience on the Internet, to which netizens reacted differently:
The saddest thing is that her friends and family may have realized that she was lying, only she mistakenly thought she had lied to everyone. ”
She really needs help, she has an excessive obsession with other people, and I'm worried about Liam. ”
She knows enough about herself to say to friends and family, but she's used to staying in the "safe zone" she's created for herself, a state that recreates the isolation she felt when she was growing up. ”
I had a friend who did something similar to my boyfriend and the situation quickly became dangerous and we had to apply for a restraining order. Please beware of such people. ”
Laughing to death, it is impossible for those closest to her not to know the truth. It's been 10 years, and they've never seen your 'fiancé'?They're just making fun of you with this. ”
It is not known what the woman ultimately took to remedy the situation.
What is certain is that she does need to accept the psychology **, and she also needs to step out of her beautiful fantasy and take a look at the real life ......