Someone once said: "If a woman is indulgent in her feelings, she may become extremely realistic and no longer give her sincerity." ”
Indeed, after experiencing many relationships, women gradually lose faith in love, and their desire for men is greatly reduced.
In this case, when they are with men, they tend to pay more attention to reality, and no longer just talk about love as before.
In their opinion, no matter how beautiful love is, it can't withstand the reality of life, and they have experienced pain and have a deeper understanding of love.
Therefore, in the relationship, it is difficult for them to give sincerely, often wandering between men, constantly asking for what they need, and appearing indifferent to feelings.
Even if she meets a man who really loves her, it is difficult to touch her heart, she has experienced physical and mental damage, and she no longer believes in those sweet words.
Such a woman will have obvious features on her body, which can be detected by a man with a little observation.
After all, after many strange encounters, they are no longer as innocent as young girls, and they have a deeper understanding of the relationship between the sexes.
In general, casual women often have one "characteristic": they do not refuse to pursue the opposite sex, which seems very realistic.
First, women who no longer believe in love, but are Xi wandering around men and feel casual often no longer believe in love, they have experienced profound hurt, and are wary of men.
However, they have matured in many relationships and become very sensible, and although they no longer have faith in love, they do not reject male pursuits.
The reason is simple, their hearts are full of unwillingness, they once gave sincerely but were betrayed, they are eager to get it back, and take the opportunity to take revenge on men.
Therefore, they are Xi to wander around men, and whenever men pursue, they will not refuse, but pretend to be in love.
This kind of woman is well versed in men's minds, knows how to please men, can be regarded as veterans in the love field, and is good at mastering men and making them willing to pay.
In fact, women become casual about their feelings, which means that they no longer fall in love easily and use love as a kind of entertainment.
On the one hand, they cater to men, making them constantly provide material things to meet the necessities of life.
On the other hand, they want to see men give and find some comfort in the hurt they have suffered in the past.
Therefore, when women and men have been together for a period of time, they will inevitably leave mercilessly, just to see the sad appearance of men, so as to balance their psychology.
Such women are so clever that when the relationship is over, they will appear particularly cold and show no pity for men.
Therefore, they will continue to accept the pursuit of men, frequently wander around men, and seem to be emotional on the surface, but in fact they have long lost confidence in love.
2. Complex relationships between the opposite sex, and one of the most typical characteristics of women who often change boyfriends with casual feelings is that their heterosexual relationships are extremely complicated and often change boyfriends.
In life, as long as there is a male pursuit, they are willing to associate and behave very boldly, and the relationship is very open.
Therefore, they will have many friends of the opposite sex around them, some are spare tires, and some are boyfriends with whom they are dating, and the situation is complex and changeable.
Probably, they socialize with multiple friends of the opposite sex at the same time, and they seem busy every day, but they never really get involved.
Such women do not cherish men, and because they have been let down and hurt in the past, they have become ruthless and have no mercy for men.
For every man who pursues her, they don't be dating for a long time, maybe a week or two, or even months, and the relationship is destined to end.
Because, they didn't really pay at the beginning, and they didn't plan to fall in love, and the boyfriends around them were just spare tires.
Just like Miss Ai, she had a boyfriend in college, thought she had found true love, and devoted herself to it, only to be betrayed.
Her boyfriend flattered her in every possible way at the time, paid endlessly, and lived together in less than half a year.
Miss Ai thought that she would get married, but a year later, she accidentally discovered that her boyfriend had an affair with other girls, and only then did she learn that he was a flowery person, and finally broke up, which brought great trauma to Miss Ai.
After that, Miss Ai no longer believes in love, and even wants to take revenge on men through love, so as long as there is a male pursuit, she will accept it.
As a result, she later experienced more than a dozen romances, each relationship was short-lived, and her boyfriend changed wave after wave, and she felt satisfied whenever she saw her boyfriend leave sadly.
In fact, this is the direct result of the rich experience of women's **, once they are betrayed, they become ** and cold.
They do not refuse men's pursuits, but in the end they end their relationships in revenge on men.
In general, casual women do not refuse the pursuit of the opposite sex, and usually show two changes:
No longer believe in love, but Xi wandering around men;The relationship between the opposite sex is complicated, and the boyfriend often changes around him.
For men, when encountering such a woman, they should be cautious in their relationships, and if they don't see their sincerity, it's best not to give blindly.
At the same time, men should also be reminded not to let down women who truly love you, and if you let them suffer too much, it will inevitably cost you in another way in the future.
After all, women become emotionally casual, not inherently so, often after being ruthlessly let down and hurt by men in love, so that they lose the courage to love and cannot invest again. Therefore, if both men and women love each other, please treat it sincerely, otherwise, if both parties no longer love each other, please do not deepen the harm, which is the most basic quality of mature people.