Recently, I swiped a news that there was a young couple who had been in love for two months, and the man gave 800,000 dowry and 260,000 hardware, and then divorced after three months of marriage. The man sued for the return of 1.06 million dowry and hardware, but only 800,000 yuan was returned.
In other words, the heroine in this news earned 260,000 yuan in 3 months of marriage.
And this may be the truth that some women ask for a bride price!So what they want is not a sense of security at all, but the confidence of divorce.
This is why I have always said that women say that they want a bride price for a sense of security is nonsense, if there is no sense of security in marrying a man, the best choice is not to get married, and then to marry a man with a sense of security, rather than asking for a sky-high bride price with others.
The reason why I want a bride price is to have the confidence to divorce. Why are divorces mostly filed by women?Because not only will they lose nothing by divorcing, but they will even make a lot of money.
Tell the brothers a hot knowledge, the bride price belongs to the woman's pre-marital property, even if the other party is at fault, it is impossible to return the full amount, which is the confidence of their divorce. For example, the fishing girl in this news, she was in love for two months, married for three months, and divorced 260,000 yuan, counting the love time, she earned 260,000 yuan in 5 months, and her monthly salary was 50,002, and she didn't have to pay taxes. If you only count the time of marriage, it is equivalent to more than 80,000 a month.
So now the brothers understand, women who ask for a bride price under the banner of a sense of security, just treat them as fishing women.
Because a woman's sense of security is not given by a man and his parents at all, a woman's sense of security must be given by herself and her mother's family.
If they were really afraid that men would cheat, commit domestic violence, and don't do housework and treat them as free nannies, they would have been as infertile as they said on the Internet or left their fathers and children (refer to Li Xueke), which is the real insecurity.
Or if you are insecure and want to get married, but you are afraid that the man will let him leave the house in the future, then buy a house by himself before marriage, write only his name in full, and then go to the son-in-law. In this way, if a man is violent or cheating, he can let them leave the house.
As a result, you will find that they do not do this, but continue to divide half of the man's property under the banner of a sense of security, not only to add their own names to the house they buy, but also to ask others to pay a bride price of two or three hundred thousand or more.
You say that if you want money, you want money, but you have to use the banner of a sense of security.
Coincidentally, there is also a woman in a certain book** her boyfriend who bought a house in full without writing her name, and then she felt uncomfortable.
Her core point is that they have been talking for seven years, and the relationship for seven years is not worth 1.35 million
However, what I want to say is that your seven-year relationship is worth 1.35 million, shouldn't other people's seven-year relationship also be worth 1.35 million?Then why don't you buy a house and add someone's name, or do you say that his feelings for you are not worth it, and your feelings for him are worth it?Is it true that women are young and priceless, and men are young and worthless?
It's useless to engage in double standards, reality will teach you to be a man. It's useless for the little fairy to spray us, reality will teach you how to be a man.
For example, this ** boyfriend bought a house without adding his own name, and finally broke up and became an older leftover girl, and this one who shared the 260,000 dowry of others, there is a high probability that he will not be able to marry in the end.
fell in love for two months, and lost 260,000 yuan in three months of marriage, which must not be passed down as a good story in the local areaIf someone dares to marry her, there will be ghosts. Of course, it is not ruled out that this woman will go to other places and harm men from other places.
But as long as the brothers remember one thing, it is okay to refuse a woman to ask for a bride price and a house name under the banner of a sense of security, if they feel insecure about marrying us, and are afraid of divorce in the future, then let them find someone with a sense of security, and find someone who will not divorce in the future.
This marriage is not indispensable for us men, and when we meet a fishing woman, we should be brave enough to say no, which should become a sign of the awakening of men in the new era.