A few days ago, Ms. Tian Pujun was ridiculed by the domestic big V group because she mourned a certain American big V on Weibo, and it seems that everyone has formed an anti-"French" alliance with the same hatred, of course, this anti-French alliance is not the anti-French alliance against Napoleon, but. Forget it, let's talk about it at the end of the article, the popular news I have seen Ms. Tian over the years is often not her own release, but a group ridicule from various big Vs for her publications.
It's more ridiculousOn the one hand, some emotional big V educate their female fans on weekdays, and when hunting feelings, they should pay attention to the results, and on the other hand, when they turn around and laugh at Ms. Tian, they don't look at Ms. Tian's results very muchPerhaps, what they can't get, it can't be considered a good result. (* number Douyin: Uncle Yijuan).
I met Ms. Tian Pujun once, that time was the 2015 Golden Investment Award, and I was invited as a **person to report on some sessions, including her speech (I remember that the host at that time was Mr. Cao Qitai) , I remember that at that time, a few of us chatted with Ms. Tian at the scene, although not much, but the impression was that the words were decent, the wording was well-founded, not a little perverse like the later remarks on the Internet, and the deeper impression was the pair of trench rings in her hand, oh, by the way, at that time, she and Lao Wang were together for more than three years, year after year to fight back against the rumors that they would finish playing in a year, at that time, according to the rumors from the outside world, I guessed if she was a woman like Wendi Deng (Wendi Deng I also met once offline),But face to face at the scene, there was no prey in her eyes like Ms. Deng's waiting for an opportunity to pounce...There is more feeling in her eyes, it is a kind of comfort with the strength of a good wind, she was on stage, at the impromptu invitation of Cao Qitai, did a few rowing boat movements, and there was a colorful sound in the audience, it should have felt the charm of the scene, it felt a bit like a theater at that time, there was no intersection later, and when I heard some news about her, almost all of them were ridiculed by commentators with literati popularity.
According to the consequentialism of those emotional big Vs, Ms. Tian should have gotten good results and married a man who is a leader in the industry, but these people seem to be jealous of Tian Pujun's success and relying on her shortcut to gain a relationship with Wang Shi. Those heroines who are looking forward to being colorful in front of the camera may think that they are more qualified for such an opportunity than Tian Pujun, or more worthy of success, and then become dissatisfied and despise her, otherwise, it doesn't make sense logically, why teach other girls to catch high-net-worth men, to be consequential, and when they get to Ms. Tian, they don't look at other people's results, and they scold when they open their mouths.
I'm not familiar with Tian, and I don't even know each other, but at least if I insist on consequentialism, I think that from her path, she has obtained the most cost-effective results!
And the ridicule of some non-emotional big V, in addition to being humorous and finally finding a place to vent, I think more is what they see in their eyes, the conflict between social expectations and values in their hearts, after all, in the "orthodox" social concept, women either find a diamond king and admit it, don't flaunt their independent "means" and success, stay at home and teach their children;
Or, just come to an Ashin-style counterattack (not the singing Ashin, the heroine of the Japanese movie), and be expected to succeed through their own efforts, not through a marriage relationship, and then to show off their "achievements", as for the hot spot, all the boys and girls I know who are a little ambitious around me are keen on this, but the thickness of their skin is different, of course, they are not like Ms. Tian, because there is a huge halo around them, so, every time they "transform" In the business school I attended, on average, there were one or two girls similar to Tian in each EMBA class, and most of them were similar to Tian, who probably also held the same "goal" as Ms. Hetian back then, not seeking academics, only marriage.
Laugh at it, laugh at it, the world that Ms. Tian sees, those who laugh, probably can't see, can't see, that is, ridicule, it seems that it's not wrong, the audience also loves to watch, but everyone has become Xi to calling her "the king's woman", perhaps, this title, different people listen, has different meanings.
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