In the face of family affection and life-and-death life, every choice is so difficult and important. Wang Dalong's case shows us such a big test of human nature. This is a touching story of a person who is facing the countdown to life, and his loved ones lend a helping hand and rekindle hope for life.
Wang Dalong, an ordinary and strong rural person, his originally happy life took a turn for the worse because of the detection of liver cancer. Although his wife and two sons have tried to provide a match, unfortunately they have not succeeded. As a result, his family fell into despair, and his relatives were deterred by the risks of the operation, and they declared that they could not do anything.
However, cruel fate did not defeat this resilient family. Wang Dalong's daughter-in-law, Zhang Jianxia, resolutely put forward her own idea - she is willing to give up her liver and do her best for her husband to fight for a chance to survive. Such a decision will undoubtedly bring great physical challenges and pressure, but her firm eyes and maternal care make people see endless courage and determination.
In the process, the spirit of warriors was widely praised for its extensive coverage, enthusiastic public participation, and courage. However, in this test of affection, everyone faces a difficult choice. On the one hand, kind-hearted relatives and friends are worried about the hardships of the postoperative process, and on the other hand, as family members, they have the responsibility to save the lives of their loved ones as much as possible. This contradiction may provoke the public to think deeply about the complexity of human nature and moral dilemmas.
Despite the difficulties, Wang Dalong received rare medical assistance and a short life extension due to his liver transplant. His deeds spur us to cherish the life in front of us, be kind to our loved ones around us, and do our best to provide them with the best help. In that vast rural land, Wang Dalong will not walk alone, and his story will continue to warm and inspire more people.
Xiao Liang, you quickly take your brother to find our relatives and friends in the family, ask for their help, find as many people as possible who can provide medical examinations, tell them that your family's vital destiny depends on them, and ask them to lend a hand. "
The main reason why Zhang Xiaoying is so anxious is that her husband Wang Dalong was found to have liver cancer, and if he can undergo liver replacement surgery, it may be able to save his life. However, according to the current conditions, the use of the hospital** is tantamount to a fantasy for this family, and the hospital does not currently have a proper **, and it is not certain whether Wang Dalong can persist until the moment when he can get an effective ** during the waiting process.
The only feasible strategy at the moment is to seek the degree of matching between Wang Dalong's relatives, if there is a suitable kinship, you can directly adopt the relatives as **, on the one hand, you can quickly find a suitable liver for transplantation, on the other hand, you can also save a lot of money.
When it was confirmed that Wang Dalong had liver cancer, Zhang Xiaoying and her two young sons were immediately tested, but unfortunately the three were not successfully matched, so they had to seek help from other members of the family.
Wang Liang took his younger brother to visit relatives everywhere, carrying carefully prepared gifts in his hands, and was fortunate to reach a consensus with them on entering the hospital for examination, expecting them to provide their possible matching supportIf they can be successfully matched, it will be a great help to their father's condition.
The relatives and friends of the family also clearly understood Wang Dalong's condition and expressed sympathy, but they obviously did not agree with taking the relevant risks to save Wang Dalong;After all, they are not the closest people, and when Wang Liang came to the door to ask for a meeting, some of them shirked on the grounds of illness, while others avoided them, which caused them to fall into endless trouble.
Despite the anxiety of the family, they cannot blame others, after all, if it is their own relatives who are facing the same health difficulties, they may not be willing to make sacrifices.
Zhang Jianxia watched her mother-in-law Zhang Xiaoying work day and night for her father-in-law Wang Dalong's condition, and the signs of aging were significantly aggravated in just a few daysSince she entered this big family, her parents-in-law have always treated her kindly, and now she is eager to contribute to this family.
Zhang Jianxia's heart was full of struggle, and she didn't know whether she should tell her mother-in-law the secret that had been hidden in her heart for several days, and this secret was deeply pressed in her heart for many days, and she never revealed it to anyone, because she really had a hard time making a choice. "Xiaoxia, you have worked hard to take care of the children during this time.
You don't need to worry too much about your father-in-law's illness, all the troubles will eventually disappear, you just need to relax and face it with peace of mind. Zhang Jianxia didn't expect that even if her mother-in-law was already in such a predicament, she could still cheer herself up and comfort others. Recalling the love given to her by her mother-in-law and father-in-law, Zhang Jianxia finally made a decision in her heart - in order to repay this deep family affection, she was willing to use her liver to replace her father-in-law.
It turned out that when Zhang Xiaoying, Wang Liang and others were unable to complete the surgical match, Zhang Jianxia quietly went to the hospital for a test, and it was gratifying that the results showed that there was a match with her husband. In fact, Zhang Jianxia's heart has also experienced ups and downs, because she is also aware of the dangers and serious consequences of liver replacement, so she has not told others about this matter. After much deliberation, she decided to step up and take on the responsibility of saving her father-in-law, after all, they had already become a close family.
After hearing that Zhang Jianxia had revealed that she was willing to find a matching liver for her father-in-law to save her life, Zhang Xiaoying, as a spouse, immediately objected, and although she deeply wanted to save her husband's life, she firmly refused because she did not want her daughter-in-law to undergo such a high-risk operation.
I can't agree with you, what will you do with your health after donating your liver?You and Xiaoliang still need to raise children together, and even if you can't continue to work after donating, what should you do?More importantly, you are my daughter-in-law, not my biological daughter, and if anything happens, how can we explain it to your parents?"
Not only Zhang Xiaoying, but also her husband Wang Liang also resolutely opposed her donating her liver to Wang Dalong. They all understand that there is still a long way to go, and that the physical weakness caused by a liver transplant may affect their quality of life throughout their lives.
For those who stopped her action, Zhang Jianxia knew the reason. She had already carefully considered these issues, otherwise she would not have chosen to hide the news that she was suitable for an organ transplant. However, since she has already expressed her position, it shows that she has made up her mind, because she deeply remembers the love that her father-in-law once gave her.
Born in 1982, Zhang Jianxia and Wang Liang are fellow villagers, who met and fell in love while working hard outside and finally entered the marriage hall. At the age of 22, she got rid of her singleness and embarked on a new phase of life hand in hand.
Soon after marriage, Zhang Jianxia welcomed her baby, and her in-laws at this time took out their savings to help them start a small business in order to give them a stable income in their future life**. Although it does not provide a huge amount of wealth, it is enough to ensure that the young couple's life is comfortable and stable.
During the time when Zhang Jianxia was pregnant, Wang Liang was always surrounded by heavy work and did not have enough time to accompany her and take care of her. The responsibility of accompanying her through pregnancy fell on her in-laws, and their meticulous care for Zhang Jianxia, including the food and drink delivered to the table in person, made Zhang Jianxia feel that their love was consistent.
After the birth of their son, the prince Wang Dalong was so happy that he couldn't keep his mouth shut. It stands to reason that he should enjoy a leisurely retirement at this time, but in order to prepare for the wedding expenses of his youngest grandson as soon as possible, he began to work hard again.
This was originally a family full of laughter, but when Wang Dalong was diagnosed with liver cancer, this beauty was shattered.
Mom, you don't need to say more, although I have only been married here for three years, I will remember your endless love for me during these three years. In the back of my heart, I have long regarded you as my biological parents. "Zhang Xiaoying and Wang Liang both understand that if they want to save Wang Dalong's life at the moment, only Zhang Jianxia is suitable to sacrifice his liver for it. However, Zhang Xiaoying still felt very sorry in her heart, and she didn't know how to explain all this to her in-laws. After all, as the only child in the family, Zhang Jianxia is undoubtedly the pearl in their palms, but now she needs to take this huge risk for her husband's family.
Zhang Jianxia, who knew Zhang Xiaoying's worries, comforted:"Don't worry, I'll make sure my parents don't know about it. At present, I am the only one who has the ability to save my father-in-law, so please stop trying to persuade me to change my mind. "She had already strengthened her convictions.
Dad, Mom, I need to stay in Beijing to take care of my father-in-law, and it is expected to take about a month. In the meantime, we hope you will help take care of our children. "After Zhang Jianxia hid the truth from her parents and entrusted her child to her parents, she was ready to go to Beijing to donate liver to her father-in-law.
Wang Dalong, who learned of the incident, resolutely objected, emphasizing that he was old, and even if his life was irretrievable, he was helpless;However, her daughter-in-law is only twenty-five years old, and her life is still long, so she can't risk her life.
After Zhang Jianxia's long-term and patient persuasion, Wang Dalong finally agreed to accept the liver donation of his son and daughter-in-law. The reason is that Zhang Jianxia told him that he only needs to have a small amount of liver removed, and there is no need to worry about his physical condition after the operation.
After nearly 10 hours of surgery, Zhang Jianxia successfully transplanted 69% of her liver to her father-in-law, Wang Dalong. Fortunately, the surgery achieved the expected results, and Wang Dalong did not show obvious rejection.
Due to the sudden loss of 69% of her liver, Zhang Jianxia's immunity decreased significantly and her appetite was greatly reduced. The original plan was to recuperate in the hospital**, but due to family financial constraints, they could not afford the hospitalization expenses of the two patients, so they both returned home first while they were recovering.
In fact, in order to pay for Wang Dalong's ** expenses, the family has been burdened with heavy debts. Wang Liang was unable to take care of his wife full-time at home and was forced to go out to work to earn a living. Zhang Jianxia was unwilling to let her mother-in-law take care of her and her father-in-law alone, so she persuaded her husband to send her to her mother's house.
Zhang Jianxia's parents obviously did not expect that their daughter said that she wanted to take care of her father-in-law would personally perform a liver transplant for her, and such an important matter was not discussed with her.
Zhang Jianxia, who was in the prime of her youth, was extremely weak due to this liver transfer operation, and it became extremely difficult to go upstairs. Although it was a great price, it only allowed my father-in-law to enjoy three more years. Due to complications of infection, Wang Dalong eventually passed away.
Faced with this cruel reality, Zhang Jianxia's parents could not bear it, they said that they could not forgive Zhang Xiaoying's family for agreeing with Zhang Jianxia's extremely risky operation, and decided to cut off contact with her from now on, and even Wang Liang was not allowed to set foot in the house during the festival.
After this incident, Zhang Jianxia received much attention from the society and was hailed as a "moral model", and her heroic deeds were adapted into a movie to widely spread her filial piety and benevolence.
At a time when Chocolate Grace is known as a well-regarded wife and mother in the region, despite the high prestige of such events, there are still voices of criticism.
Zhang Jianxia, who has accumulated a good reputation, is often invited to participate in various social welfare activities, so some people question that this move is self-hype to increase popularity.
Others pointed out that Zhang Jianxia was too impulsive and rashly donated almost 70% of her liver, causing her health to deteriorate, which was too stupid.
Despite all the controversy, Zhang Jianxia has never regretted this choice. If she had stood by and watched the death of her loved ones, the guilt of abandoning her would have stayed with her for the rest of her life, even if it only extended her father-in-law's life by three years, she would have at least tried her best.
Regarding whether Zhang Jianxia is really deliberately hyping up and enhancing her fame, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes. Even natural relatives may not be willing to donate their hearts to Wang Dalong, but the great sacrifice of being a daughter-in-law who has nothing to do with it is undoubtedly admirable.