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There's a term that's particularly popular online, which roughly means "short, warm, but shy love." In any case, a crush is different from previous likes or loves, less formal, less complicated, but also simpler and purer.
It describes how men and women often only need a big smile, a casual look, and a flash of turn to be crushed. It's no wonder that some people say that there are very few people who are truly in love in their lives, but the number of people who have a crush can be countless. Crush can also be considered a kind of "heartache".
Imagine what a wonderful "love" accident it would be for two people to pay attention to each other, like each other, and finally fall in love with each other because of the beginning of their crush.
Once you think about a love or love from a secular point of view, the more conditions there are, the probability of this pure "heartbeat" will naturally get lower and lower, or in the first second of a heartbeat, there will be countless nerves in your brain to control the propagation of this heartbeat.
This is the first stage of love - "heartache". So at the end of the day, how many "heartbeats" can a person have in their life?How many times can a person love in this life?
It's really hard to say. Some people have a shallow "heartbeat", and some people have a deep "heartbeat". Everyone's situation is different, but some attribute it to the number of times humans are touched by love, about three times in a lifetime.
First, when I was a teenager, my mind was hazy and I suddenly became excited;second, the superposition of suitability and goodwill for careful consideration under the rational measure of adulthood;Third, the person who happens to be in love with each other is the same person, and the two people love each other until they close their eyes.
Looking back, let's be honest, in today's society, especially as adults, it is rare for us adults to have a crush on someone and have a feeling of "heartbeat". Having true love is very rare and precious. Once you have the opportunity, I hope you can seize this opportunity and don't miss it.
The word "heartache" reminds me of a beautiful and famous foreign film "Heartache". I love this movie. In addition to many classic and thoughtful sentences and lines, it is more about the heroine Julie and the male protagonist Bryce. The whole process of falling in love is very natural and complete.
Julie fell in love with Bryce at first sight from the beginning, and then gradually came to her senses. In fact, Bryce's blue eyes weren't that dazzling, but her love made Bryce sparkle and nothing else.
Bryce felt that Julie was a little strange from the beginning, and was gradually moved by Julie's good qualities such as kindness, bravery, optimism, and strength, especially Julie's beautiful heart, and then gradually understood her heart and fell in love with Julie unconsciously.
I've always felt that love doesn't necessarily need to be strong, because sometimes love is too sudden and too passionate, but it actually dissipates quite quickly. On the contrary, it is this slow accumulation that slowly rises from "special" to favorable, to "like", and then to "love". The whole process is complete and smooth, and the love is often deeper and longer.