My name is Li Jing, I am 28 years old and I am Mr. Wang's nanny. Mr. Wang had just divorced his wife and was living alone. I have a good impression of Mr. Wang and try my best to take care of his daily life.
A few days ago, I found that Mr. Wang's mental condition is not very good, and he is often absent-minded. Today, Mr. Wang returned home as exhausted as ever. I hurriedly poured him a glass of water, and then plucked up the courage to ask him, "Mr. Wang, you seem to be worried about your work lately?"”
Mr. Wang sighed and said, "It's not exactly about work, it's mainly about my divorce from my ex-wife. Now living alone, unable to adapt. Obviously, they used to be a loving couple, but I don't know how it became the current situation. ”
I comforted him and said, "Mr. Wang, don't be too upset. I understand that you are indeed very disappointed as a man, but life has to go on, don't you?You have to cheer up!”
Mr. Wang smiled reluctantly and said, "Thank you Li Jing, I know that I am not in a good state during this time, and it has also affected your work." It's just that I can't forget the bits and pieces with my ex-wife. We used to be sweet, hugging and snuggling with each other. Now it's a two-person world overnight, and I can't get used to it. ”
I listened and fell into deep thought. Mr. Wang is really sad. He has been suppressed for so long, no wonder he has always been in a low mood. As his babysitter, I felt I should do something about it, at least let him open up and spit out the bitterness.
So I plucked up the courage and asked him tentatively, "Mr. Wang, can I ask you a personal question?"It's okay if you don't want to answer. ”
Mr. Wang looked surprised: "You ask." ”
I took a deep breath and blurted out, "Mr. Wang, how long has it been since you hugged a woman?"”
I also blushed a little after hearing this, but I still mustered up the courage to continue: "Mr. Wang, don't get me wrong, I don't mean anything else. Just seeing that you have been very depressed and miserable lately, I think maybe a warm hug can soothe your emotions and make you feel a little comfort. As your friend, I can't bear to see you go on like this. ”
Mr. Wang smiled self-deprecatingly and said, "Li Jing, thank you for your kindness. But I haven't felt a hug in a long time, and now that I'm suddenly being hugged, I'm honestly a little uncomfortable. ”
I nodded and said, "I understand." If you think it's acceptable, why don't you give it a try?If we don't feel comfortable, we can always stop. ”
Mr. Wang thought for a while and said, "It's okay, let's give it a try." ”
So I slowly approached him and hugged the man who looked lost his soul. At first, Mr. Wang's body stiffened noticeably, but soon relaxed. I could feel him gently hugging me back, like grasping at a life-saving straw.
We hugged like this for a long time. I didn't speak, just patted him on the back one at a time. I could feel his breathing getting heavier and heavier, and finally there was a "snap" and he was crying.
Mr. Wang cried like a child in my arms, and I could deeply empathize with the grievances and pain. I comforted him softly, stroking his back. We just hugged each other and cried for a long, long time.
I don't know how long it took, Mr. Wang's tears seemed to have dried up, and he slowly calmed down and left my arms. He looked at me with red eyes and said, "Li Jing, thank you." This hug really helped me a lot. ”
I also felt very distressed and said to him: "Mr. Wang, there will inevitably be lows in life, you must cheer up." The most important thing now is to live each day well. You are still young, and there will be a better and brighter life ahead. And I'm here to support you. ”
Mr. Wang nodded vigorously: "Yes, as you said, I can't just be depressed like this." I'm going to start over, maybe it's time for me to start a new life. ”
That's right, I wish you all the best of luck!I say from the bottom of my heart.
After that hug, I noticed that Mr. Wang's mental state was significantly better. I will also talk to him from time to time, enlighten him, and accompany him through difficult times. Gradually, he began to take the initiative to share his experiences and feelings with me. I also told him my story, and we became close friends.
Half a year later, Mr. Wang went out to dinner with me and officially expressed his love to me!He said that with my company and care, he rekindled his hope and passion for life, and I was like the spring breeze in his life. He asked me to be with him.
I was so excited that I blushed and said I loved him too. Then we had a wedding and are very happy now. We laugh when we remember the question I asked him impulsively. If I hadn't asked that question at the time, our story might have been completely different, Mr. Wang said.
We are now all very grateful for the courage in that moment, which made us happy now. Whenever happiness comes, we will hug each other and feel the warmest power in life.
After we got married, Mr. Wang's career was back on track. He put all his energy into his work, his performance skyrocketed, and he soon got the opportunity for a promotion and a salary increase. I also gladly quit my job to concentrate on my husband and children.
After another two years, we welcomed our own child, Xiaobao. The little ones are smart and cute, making our lives more colorful. Mr. Wang would hug Xiaobao to make him happy, and I looked at them with a bottle, and a wave of happiness and satisfaction rose in my heart for no reason.
One day, Mr. Wang suddenly asked me, "Honey, do you remember the question you asked me at the beginning?"”
I smiled and said, "Of course I remember, it changed our lives." ”
Mr. Wang also laughed, he said, "Yes, I finally understand now that the most important thing in life is actually mutual understanding, encouragement and warmth. I don't know what I would have become without your words and hugs. ”
I shook his hand and said, "And I'm grateful for the courage I mustered in the first place." If I hadn't asked you so directly, we might still be in an employer-nanny relationship to this day. ”
Yes, sometimes people really just need an opportunity. "This made me understand the importance of selfless dedication. Everyone can help others by taking the initiative to give, which is important for two people and for society as a whole. ”
I nodded approvingly. Indeed, when Mr. Wang was at a low point in his life, my little concern has made him happy now. If everyone can take the initiative to help, this society will be a better place.
Since then, Mr. Wang has become the most memorable person in my heart. This originally high-minded man finally understood the importance of mutual encouragement and care between people. He also became a helpful person. I also believe more that as long as everyone takes the initiative to care about the people around them, the world will become warmer and happier.
Now, we are a family of three. Mr. Wang and I would take Xiaobao to the park to play, or drive to the suburbs for a picnic. At sunset, we hugged each other, and Xiaobao played happily on the side. It's a good life we once didn't dare to imagine.
Every time I think of this, I sincerely thank myself for being brave a few years ago. That question, that hug, would change the lives of two people so much. This made me realize that there is more understanding and love between people than I imagined.
Perhaps everyone can be an important page in a certain life. You never know what a small act of yours can have a positive impact on others. That's what I often tell my friends now. We should care for each other, encourage each other, and use warmth to resolve the imperfections of this world. As time went by, my relationship with Mr. Wang became stronger and stronger. Xiaobao grew up and went to kindergarten. Mr. Wang's career is also thriving, and he has become the vice president of the company.
One night, Mr. Wang said to me, "Honey, I think we should do one thing. Since your words back then gave me the opportunity to be reborn, I also want to pass on this warmth and help more lonely and painful people. ”
I couldn't agree more with him. So the following weekend, my wife and I drove to an orphanage on the outskirts of the city. Most of the children here come from poor or troubled families and lack the love of their parents.
We brought them clothes, school supplies and lots of food and spent an unforgettable weekend with them. We accompanied them in singing, painting, storytelling, and organizing outdoor outings. These poor children, who have not felt the warmth of home for a long time, are close to us, as if they have found support.
Mr. Wang and I both had red circles under our eyes. These children are innocent, but they don't get the care they deserve from their parents. "We'll be coming to see you often!"Finally, we made a promise to the children.
Since then, "helping others" has become a part of our lives. Helpfulness has also become the life creed of Mr. Wang and me.
We regularly donate money and materials to the children in the orphanage to accompany them during important holidays. Watching the children grow up happily with our help also makes us feel more relieved and happy than ever.
We are also actively involved in other public welfare activities to send love and hope to those in need. We may have a small power, but we have lit one heart lamp after another. It also makes our lives more meaningful.
We often joke that all this is thanks to that problem back then. Thanks to it, we have come to where we are today and live a meaningful and happy life. We also often use this to encourage those around us that with love and courage, everyone can change the lives of others.
Now Mr. Wang and I are gray-haired, but our hearts are still young. It is our greatest happiness to go all the way with like-minded partners and watch the lives around us change because of our care. This is also our firm belief that as long as everyone is willing to give warmth, the world will become a better place. Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Mr. Wang and I have entered the twilight of life. But our love and happy life have not faded with the fading of years.
Mr. Wang and I often invite them to our home and listen to them talk about their experiences and life insights. This makes us feel extremely relieved and fulfilled.
So that's it!The little boy suddenly realized, "I will definitely pass on this spirit and warmth." ”
Originally, our lives may have been just the relationship between an ordinary employer and a domestic nanny. However, the courage of a question changed the fate of the two and infected countless lives around them. This is the magic of life, and it has made me more and more convinced that love and warmth can transcend all boundaries and create miracles.
Today, Mr. Wang and I are gray-haired old men. But our hearts are still young, and we still have infinite love to share with the world. Seeing these children start a family and live a happy life is a joy and satisfaction that we have never felt before.