I'm fed up with you!I shouted angrily at Xiao Fan. "You're busy with work all day, and you don't take care of the house at all!”
As soon as we returned from the children's full moon wine, he plunged headlong into work. I was in charge of everything at home, and he didn't even see a shadow.
Xiao Fan said tiredly: "The company has been too busy recently, and I can't help it, so I only work overtime for the sake of my family." ”
Family-minded?We are not your home at all!I continued with red eyes, "The child waits for you to come home every day, and you don't show up, is this your family?"”
Xiao Fan listened to my words, his face was full of helplessness. I know he's working hard, but I'm really uncomfortable. After marriage, I gave up my career to teach my husband and children full-time, and after giving birth to a child, all the housework and childcare fell on me alone, but Xiaofan was busy with work every day and didn't go home. I feel very aggrieved.
Xiao Fan was speechless in the end, and just walked into the study silently. I know he's sad too, but I can't help but get angry.
After this quarrel, Xiao Fan became very abnormal. Instead of working late into the night, as he used to, he would try to get home as early as possible. At first, I was a little uncomfortable, but then I noticed that he seemed to be trying to learn how to do housework. Although the craftsmanship is not satisfactory, I am still very moved to see his back washed and washed.
One day I was sick and resting at home, and Xiaofan actually took half a day off to come back to take care of me and the children. He's rarely taken time off home over the years, and I know he's trying to make up for it.
Sometimes Xiaofan would also take me out of the blue to eat and relive our previous dates. We would talk about the past, our love and our wedding. The warmth I haven't felt for a long time makes me feel happy and at ease. I understand that Xiaofan is trying to rebuild the bonds of the family.
I also started to reflect on myself. I shouldn't always complain that Xiaofan is not around, but I should understand the difficulties of his work. I should have learned to be considerate and supportive of him, not to blame him for alienating his family. To love someone is to embrace his whole life.
In this way, our relationship was slowly repaired in the run-in. Xiaofan learned to share housework and accompany me and my children;I learned to be considerate of his work and give him moral support. This period of time made me feel the warmth I had not felt for a long time, and I knew that Xiaofan was managing this relationship with all his heart.
However, at this moment, an accident broke the warm construction. Xiaofan's company has a big project that requires him to travel for a month. We had a big fight about it before the business trip, and I couldn't control my emotions and scolded him for turning back to his old way of caring about his work without caring about his family. Xiao Fan wanted to explain but couldn't explain clearly, so he could only leave gloomily.
Xiaofan must be very sad when he goes on a business trip alone. He put so much effort into rebuilding our relationship, but he was misunderstood by me before the business trip. He must have thought that I didn't understand his difficulties and just wanted him to be by my side. In fact, I understand that he is also on a business trip, but he is emotional and says excessive things.
Thinking back to the bits and pieces of the relationship between the two of us these days, my heart is filled with guilt. Xiao Fan learned to do housework, watched movies with me, and made children laugh, and his serious and hard-working appearance was the cutest he I have ever seen. I really appreciate the hard work he put into this relationship. I shouldn't negate all his efforts just because of a business trip.
To love someone is to be tolerant and understand all of them. I shouldn't blame Xiaofan for ignoring his family because he pursues his career. I shouldn't have expressed resentment instead of support when he had a problem. I will apologize to Xiaofan, and I will try my best to give him some surprises and encouragement on a business trip.
This test, regardless of the outcome, we will grow. The loss of trust cannot be established, and I will try to make Xiaofan feel that I support him wholeheartedly. I also believe that as long as we are considerate of each other, we will be able to get through this turmoil.
During the month of my business trip, I worked hard to cheer Xiaofan up. I sincerely apologized to him and expressed my full support for his work. I also nagged about the bits and pieces of the family in ** and shared interesting things in life with him. I hope that Xiaofan can feel the warmth of home when he works in a foreign land.
When Xiaofan finally returned from a business trip, I greeted him happily and gave him a big hug. This month's distance has made me know more clearly that what I want most is for Xiaofan to be safe and secure by my side. Nothing else matters.
Xiao Fan also hugged me tightly and whispered in my ear, "I'm sorry for your hard work." ”
I know that after this test, we will be stronger than before.
That night, Xiaofan and I sat down and had a good heart-to-heart chat.
Xiao Fan first sincerely apologized to me. He said that this time of business travel made him reflect a lot, especially my outburst before the business trip, which made him very self-reproachful.
I'm sorry, but this time I decided to go on a business trip again without considering your feelings. Xiao Fan said apologetically, "I want to pursue a career to give you and your children a better life, but I ignore your inner needs." I really know it's wrong. ”
I saw the self-blame and pain in his eyes, and I felt very uncomfortable. I took his hand and whispered, "Actually, I'm also at fault, I shouldn't have said something so serious to break your heart." Your work is also important, and I should learn to be considerate and supportive of you. ”
After listening to this, Xiaofan looked into my eyes seriously: "Xinxin, no matter what happens in the future, we must communicate more and listen to each other's ideas." We should stop talking to ourselves, but understand each other. ”
I nodded, he was right. The root cause of this turmoil is that neither of us is thinking from each other's point of view.
We will find a way to balance our lives. Xiaofan said softly. This ordeal has given us a deeper understanding and trust.
I know, he's right. After experiencing the pain, we will cherish the present even more.
Since then, we've really found a new rhythm of life that balances work and family. Xiao Fan will take a fixed amount of family time every week to spend with me and my children. I will also encourage him to further his education and cheer him on.
We learn to maintain this relationship with understanding and trust, not resentment. Whenever we have a problem, we sit down and listen to each other's ideas instead of making a big fuss.
As the days passed, our relationship grew stronger, and I could feel that Xiaofan's love for me and my children never diminished. Looking at the happy appearance of the child, I sincerely thank God for giving me such a home.
This relationship has gone through ups and downs before it becomes indestructible. It teaches us to cherish and be tolerant. I believe that as long as we are always grateful and understanding, we will be able to overcome all the storms and find happiness.
After going through that turmoil, Xiaofan and I really found a balance in our lives. Xiao Fan will take time out every week to spend time with me and my children, do housework with us, and go out on outings. Although he is still very busy at work, he has learned to control his schedule and refuse unreasonable overtime.
I will also take the initiative to care about his work and greet him from time to time, so that he can feel the warmth of home in his busy work. Once Xiaofan needed to go on a business trip to study for a month, I did not hesitate to support him to go, and prepared a lot of things for him to travel. Before leaving, I gave him a big hug and told him to cheer up.
When he came back from a business trip, Xiaofan excitedly told me that he had gained a lot of new skills and met outstanding talents in the industry. He also said that the trip gave him a clearer plan for the future direction. Looking at his sparkling eyes, I was so proud of him.
We will encourage each other to pursue their dreams and give them the greatest support. I also regained my career plan, and Xiaofan did his best to support me to realize my dreams.
As the days passed, our relationship grew stronger because it was built on understanding and encouragement. We are delighted to watch our children grow up day by day and grow happily in the warmth of their homes.
When my children went to school, I also returned to work, and Xiaofan did his best to take care of the family, so that I had no worries. When I encounter competition in the workplace, Xiaofan will give me warm hugs and words of encouragement when I am at my hardest. I will also cook food for Xiaofan when he is tired from work, and take him out for a walk.
Over the years, we have realized our ideals and made great progress in our careers. But we have never forgotten that home is the harbor that supports us and is our most precious spiritual sustenance.
Watching the children grow up**, we feel that the years are quiet. Every year on our wedding anniversary, we revisit the past and thank God for letting us go through the storm and find happiness again.
My relationship with Xiaofan has experienced misunderstandings and run-ins, but we have learned to maintain it with understanding and encouragement. Whenever we are faced with a new problem, we remember the initial tolerance and gratitude. This relationship has become incredibly strong and can withstand any storm and storm.
Time flies, Xiaofan and I grow old together, and our children start a family.
Watching our grandchildren running around, we sighed at the reincarnation and beauty of life. Xiao Fan held my growing hand and said gently: "Xinxin, a lifetime of happiness is given by you." ”
I looked at his still bright eyes and felt very relieved. We have gone through so many ups and downs hand in hand, experienced misunderstandings and run-ins, but the longer the relationship becomes, the stronger it becomes. Because it is built on understanding and encouragement.
"I've worked hard for you all these years," I said gratefully, "and without your understanding and tolerance, our marriage would have come to an end long ago." ”
It is our mutual understanding that has led us to where we are today. Xiao Fan said with a smile.
Remember what marriage declaration you told me on the day we got married?Xiao Fan asked me softly.
I try to think back to the fact that more than a decade has blurred the past.
I said that I will always understand you and always support you. Xiao Fan looked at me gently, "Over the years, we have fulfilled this promise." ”
He's right, that's why we can grow old together. Understanding and encouragement are the cornerstones of love. It can withstand the erosion of wind and rain and make the relationship last.
Now that we are no longer young, I cherish this rare and warm time even more. Sitting in the courtyard with Xiaofan and watching the sun go down is enough to make me feel happy and satisfied.
Xinxin, I love you. Xiao Fan whispered softly in my ear. The familiar honey ripples in my heart, and even after the vicissitudes of life, his three words still make me feel extremely warm and happy.
Holding Xiaofan's hand, I know that for the rest of our lives, we will welcome every sunrise and sunset together, and continue to indulge in this hard-won understanding and tolerance. It's not easy on the road of feelings, but because of you, everything is worth it.
Although Xiaofan and I have entered old age, our love is still as sweet as when we were young.
This day is the 50th wedding anniversary of my marriage to Xiaofan.
The children talked about putting together a big commemoration for us, but we politely declined. We say that being together in peace is the greatest blessing.
I proposed to go for a walk with Xiaofan on the island of our honeymoon that year and relive our moments. The kids booked our flight and hotel for us.
Coming to the familiar island again, smelling the salty sea breeze, Xiaofan and I both felt a long-lost excitement and sweetness. We walked leisurely along the seashore, as if we had returned to those two hot-headed young men fifty years ago.
Do you remember when we first got married, what was your biggest dream?I asked Xiaofan with a smile.
I dream of being with you for the rest of my life. Xiaofan said softly.
The dream came true. I said with satisfaction.
We have walked side by side for 50 years. The road is not smooth, but it has become smooth because of you.
What about you?Xiao Fan took my hand and asked softly.
I dream of marrying someone who will always understand me and support me. I replied with a smile.
A hint of moisture flashed in Xiao Fan's eyes. He squeezed my hand and fell silent.
I know that the same feeling is welling up in his heart.
The years of struggle for ideals when I was young;
The excitement of welcoming a new life;
Appreciate the joy of your child's growth;
The courage to work together to get through the low point of life;
And, in every time I needed understanding and support, you didn't let me down.
Xinxin, thank you for 50 years of companionship. Xiao Fan finally whispered.
I'm more sure than anything else that we'll continue to stand side by side in the days to come.
After 50 years, I believe in the power of love. It allows us to overcome obstacles and support each other. It is the most precious treasure of my life.
Watching the sunset slowly set on the line between the sea and the sky, Xiaofan and I stood quietly hand in hand in the afterglow.
At this moment, I am satisfied, and I am extremely grateful to have you meet you in my life.