Recently, our focus has been on a high-profile woman - Lin Chiling. was once a peerless star, after marrying Japanese actor Ryohei Kurosawa and having a son, Lin Chiling lived in seclusion in Japan for a long time and lived a low-key and deep life. However, she recently returned to Taiwan to participate in a high-profile event that attracted a lot of attention from ** and the public. This event became her first public appearance after marriage, and it also became a window for the outside world to explore whether her marriage was happy or not.
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In this high-profile event, Lin Chiling's figure has attracted countless attentions. In the past days, she paid silently and took care of her children wholeheartedly, which made ** have a strong interest in her private life. As her children grew up, Lin Chiling finally had the opportunity to rejoin her career and return to her hometown of Taiwan. The event became her first step back into the public eye, attracting a large number of journalists who asked various questions, especially about marriage and family planning.
The reporters urgently asked Lin Chiling if she planned to have a second child, and she responded bluntly: "I can't do it", and even apologized for it. This candid answer goes straight to the essence of the question and dispels speculation about unhappy marriages. Lin Chiling revealed that it is not easy to live with one child, and the expectations of the surroundings for the second child, but she made it clear that her body does not allow it, pointing out that childbirth is not the primary goal of her current life.
At the event, Lin Chiling shared her life after becoming a mother, which surprised herself. Since the birth of her son, she has unreservedly devoted herself to the role of mother, putting all her thoughts on her child, and she is almost indifferent to her image when she was once glamorous. One day, after leaving her job, she held her child and saw herself in the mirror, and was instantly shocked by the image in the mirror, as if she didn't know the responsible woman at all. This self-awakening became an opportunity for her to change her image and return to work.
However, it seems that it is not easy to return to the glamorous Lin Chiling before marriage. She realizes that she is not in a good state, and despite her efforts to change, there is still some way to go back to her old self. Whether the marriage is happy or not, the hard work and energy she has put in, are deeply engraved on her face. This is in obvious contrast to other female stars, such as Tang Yan, who has a happy marriage and has always maintained a very good state, even if she becomes a mother, she still exudes the charm of a girl.
The connection between marital happiness and personal status can also be seen in Wu Qian's example. After marrying Zhang Yujian, she has been living an unhappy married life, and her state did not gradually improve until after the divorce. This contrast makes people wonder whether the happiness of marriage can really determine the overall state of a woman.
Lin Chiling's marriage began in 2011, and her acquaintance with Ryohei Kurosawa was not love at first sight, but the two tied the knot in 2018. The progress of this relationship, as well as Lin Chiling's transformation after marriage, are the focus of attention. Not only did she choose to stay away from home, but she also followed the Japanese tradition of marriage and changed her surname to Kurosawa. She was happy when she was married for the first time, and once showed a happy side in domestic activities, but with the arrival of her child, her state gradually went to a low point.
Although Lin Chiling's married life is full of twists and turns, her experience may give us some inspiration. Marriage is not the only criterion that defines a woman's happiness, but it requires a balance between career, family, and personal life. For Lin Chiling, after a period of low points, she began to realize that women should pursue their careers and lives even if they are married, so that they can truly maintain a good relationship with their husbands.
Overall, Lin Chiling's story allows us to see the growth and transformation of a woman in marriage. The twists and turns of life are not her weakness, but her steps towards strengthening. Perhaps in the near future, we will see a more independent and determined Lin Chiling rejuvenated and meet the next journey of life with a new attitude.