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Maybe we can sometimes pat ourselves on the chest and say, I have a reliable person in my life, there are close friends, parents and children.
However, no one can be by your side forever, the backers will fall, everyone will grow old, close friends may not be reliable, parents will also get old, and children will have time to take care of themselves.
So I can't help but sigh, who else is the most reliable person in this life?It wasn't until I was fifty years old that I deeply understood that there is only one person who can be relied on in this life.
It is the one who understands you best, the one who can best relieve your sorrows, the one who is the most understanding, and the one who is the most considerate, that is, your pillow person, your partner, and your lover.
Therefore, it is only after the age of 50 that people can really see clearly who is left by their side when their bodies go downhill
When people are over fifty, they understand: the most reliable person in this life is only one person, don't know.
1. Wife, wife, old companion.
Maybe when you were young, you still couldn't feel the meaning of the three words "old companion", and it wasn't until you were in your fifties that you deeply understood the meaning of "old wife, old wife, old companion".
It is said that the previous relationship is long-lasting, because if the previous relationship was not good, it will be repaired, and if the current relationship is not good, it will be dispersed.
Everyone is only willing to live their own feelings, and everyone only cares about their own feelings, because the pressure of life is too great, and gradually they have smoothed out the patience in their hearts.
But with the passage of time, after the fifties really understand, what is missing by one's side is the other half, if you say that you have the other half by your side, even if it is just watching, even if it is just talking, many times you can make yourself feel warm, many times you can make yourself feel grounded.
Perhaps, such feelings, such experiences, only soul mates can have, or perhaps they feel the fragility of life, so they will have such a deep understanding.
Second, the other layer of soul mate means the chords of the piano, accompanied to old age.
After the age of fifty, I am facing the dilemma of the old and the young, and I am still facing my other half who is not easy.
No matter who is inside or outside the home, it is not easy for two people to help each other to grow old in this life, two people not only have to live for themselves, but also for the parents of both sides, for the children of two people.
The burden on their shoulders can be imagined, and the pressure in their hearts can be imagined, so two people can only encourage each other, can only support each other, and can only comfort each other.
Perhaps, after half a life, I found that the soul mate by my side is the most precious treasure of my life, and nothing can be replaced.
The other party will be by your side when you need it, give you support, give you companionship, give you encouragement, and will also warm your wounded heart, so that this heart will gradually be **.
3. After the age of 50, it is the other half who has spent the first half of his life with him, and it is also the other half who has accompanied him through his life.
People accompany themselves to the end of their lives, maybe only their other half, even if you were once the pearl of the family, but one day, all the reliance will no longer become dependent.
We can only rely on ourselves, and we can only rely on our other half, even if it is a dull and bland, chicken feather life, but fortunately, we have survived this life.
So sometimes I think about it, when I am old, who will I rely on when I lie in bed?Maybe it's only your partner who gives you a hot meal.
No matter how cruel the words are in his mouth, he still cares about you in his heart, but he still can't let go of you, but silently accompanies you for the rest of your life.
When I looked at him who said that he refused to help me tie my shoelaces, but his hands were honest enough to tie my shoelaces, I suddenly felt that he was the only one I could rely on.
Fourth, run in with each other, achieve each other, and carry each other for the rest of your life.
Husband and wife are the most intimate relationship, but teeth and tongues will fight, and there will inevitably be quarrels, contradictions, and estrangements between husband and wife.
In the rest of your life, you who have passed the age of fifty have a calm and calm heart, so you are not as impetuous as you are young.
Therefore, for those who have passed fifty, the heart that should be collected should be collected, and the mouth that should be managed should also be managed, and they will not do superfluous things, but they will do practical things, because they will deeply understand who people rely on in this life
Accompany you to chat, chat with you, talk with you, take care of your diet and daily life, care about your physical condition, maybe only your wife.
Cherish, treat the fate of this life, and walk the rest of your life together, and live up to this life in order to die well.
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