In a township school in Hunan, a male teacher named Long Peizhu, as a class teacher, took advantage of his position to commit ** crimes against five female students. He repeatedly went in and out of the girls' dormitory and subjected the victims, three of whom were even assaulted multiple times, causing them to have major mental disorders. After the trial, the criminal, who did not deserve sympathy, was executed.
However, the impact of this incident on the students affected is not so easy to resolve. It is worth thinking about why many students choose to remain silent and not tell their parents in this situation.
In the past, parents sent their children to school, and they were largely carefree about their children's safety and Xi issues. However, parents now face more anxiety as they feel uneasy about their children's safety and well-being.
Especially in rural and township schools, many children grow up under the influence of the family environment and lack attention. The school's classrooms and dormitories are not standardized, and there is a lack of strict supervision mechanisms and monitoring equipment, which gives teachers the opportunity to behave inappropriately.
Long Peizhu is an intellectual born in 1963, he has obtained a college degree, and belongs to a group of educated people. However, education does not change the nature of a person. When he returned to his hometown of Longhui County, Hunan Province, to work as a teacher, he took advantage of the nature of his work to commit a series of unforgivable crimes.
As a class teacher, he can ask students to come into his office in the name of exams, teaching, etc. At that time, the township schools were sparsely staffed, and colleagues and students were not sensitive enough to safety awareness. Even in the girls' dormitory, he was able to come and go at will, wantonly committing ** crimes against the victims.
The five girls who were forcibly seized were all only teenagers. What is even more outrageous is that three of the girls have been violated on several occasions. They have been "occupied" by this so-called head teacher for a long time and many times, resulting in great mental damage to them.
Now, this heinous criminal has been punished, and netizens have expressed their due condemnation and dissatisfaction with this. His actions were undoubtedly unsympathetic, and he satisfied his own selfish desires while plunging so many innocent students into misery. This not only affects the image of teachers, but also violates people's bottom line.
So, why do many students choose to remain silent and not tell their parents when faced with such a situation?
First of all, there is a low level of awareness of sex education among families in rural areas, especially for girls. They tend to see gender as secondary or even ignored because of it. They encourage boys to behave "masculine" and subtly believe that it is reasonable, never realizing the absurdity in it.
Secondly, the more families at the bottom tend to simplify the educational concept of students to "must be obedient". However, few people talk about what is unreasonable and what cannot be followed blindly. This leads to confusion among students about these concepts. Even if they are hurt and suffering, they will feel that they are violating the "requirements" of the family.
In addition, the influence of the socio-cultural environment leads to the persistence of sexual stigma among women. It's obviously the fault of the male teacher, but adults know that once such a thing spreads, it is the girl herself who will be blinded and laughed at in the end. As a result, some parents even voluntarily conceal it.
It is undeniable that sex education is still relatively lacking in the country. Sex education is almost not universally available in rural and rural schools, and sex education in urban primary and secondary schools is limited to the distribution of promotional materials. Important content is often deliberately shunned, as if the human reproductive function is a shameful thing. Therefore, these conscious efforts by parents to provide sex education themselves become crucial.
In order to reduce the possibility of students being lured and harmed, it is hoped that parents in China will dare to face the problem of sex education and inform their children of the possible consequences if they are harmed or violated. Let children develop the right values, learn to protect themselves and respect others.
This incident has shown us some of the problems that exist in the education system. While most teachers are good, the convenience of the teaching profession will be a tool that will have a greater impact on students if someone abuses their power. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to explain their body parts to their children in a timely manner and warn them not to allow others to violate them.
Sex education is still relatively scarce in the country, especially in rural and township schools. This requires parents to take on the role of sex education, to confront the problem directly, to tell children how to treat their bodies and gender correctly, and to be vigilant about their surroundings.
The most important thing is for parents to let their children understand that both boys and girls can become victims of being ****ed. They need to know that they can seek help from their parents, teachers or agencies if sexual misconduct occurs.
We need to change society's attitude towards sex education and stop treating it as a topic of shame. Only in this way can we create a safer and healthier educational environment for children.