During the meal, Wang Haiyang told his father, Wang Zhenbiao, that Ge Meixia was an old girl that no one cared about, and in the end she was not sure which person she would marry who was not very good-looking.
Eventually, the older woman married her father and became her stepmother.
As An Jie described in the play: Such a weather that is neither blown nor rained, and the wind and sunshine are really tricky.
However, Ge Meixia is by no means a person who is easily played by fate, and she can live a life of "superiority" happily in her "old age", completely relying on her own ability.
Suffer in silence. In this world, there are two types of cold people: those who pursue the life they desire through cold means to others, and those who achieve the life they desire through cold means to themselves.
Ge Meixia is one of the latter, and she is really the kind of person who can treat herself without hesitation.
In the play, there is such a plot: when Lao Ding and Wu Yizhu on the island are enthusiastically preparing for their wedding, they are instigated by Wu Yizhu to exchange locks on the door. However, Teckwah tries to curry favor with him, but is turned away.
Dehua's heart was full of grievances, as soon as he stepped into the house, he confided in An Jie, and then scolded Lao Ding loudly, after scolding, he couldn't get rid of his hatred, but instead "ordered" An Jie to call Lao Ding to the house, she wanted to scold Lao Ding in person, in order to calm the resentment in her heart.
At that time, Ge Meixia happened to be on the side and sent fish to An Jie.
When Ge Meixia saw that Dehua was furious, her heart was actually full of envy. Teckwah is supported by an older brother who is a commander, and she can reprimand her at any time when she is treated unfairly;And there is a sister-in-law who is both educated and very capable, who stands up for her, and can even reprimand Lao Ding in person, a "treacherous man".
Compared to the happy life that is about to be realized, Dehua is locked out of the door by Lao Ding, which is not a big deal.
However, Dehua is so happy that he can vent his dissatisfaction and grievances as he wants, but he can only silently swallow these grievances one bite after another.
Few people understand that when Wang Zhenbiao tried to stop her marriage to Lao Ding, and when Lao Ding abandoned her for his own future, there were so many grievances, angers, and tears in her heart that no one could say for sure.
When Ge Meixia appeared at An Jie's house again, it was as if nothing had happened. When she came to deliver fish to An Jie, the huge turmoil she experienced in her heart had been suppressed by her background that was spurned by everyone.
When Dehua insisted that Ge Meixia stay and reprimand Lao Ding with her, Ge Meixia's heart was full of resistance, and she said: Who do I have the courage to scold on this island?I have a principle that no one is allowed to hurt themselves!No one dared to be angry with me.
If Ge Meixia has the ability to scold Lao Ding, I believe her words will be more sharp than An Jie's scolding of Lao Ding for Dehua, because those who have been betrayed are always full of dissatisfaction in their hearts, and this dissatisfaction may eventually turn into a counterattack.
However, Ge Meixia has not been given the legal rights and identity to use this "**."
Ge Meixia left An Jie's house in a hurry and unexpectedly ran into Lao Ding outside the gate. When the eyes of the two met, Ge Meixia's eyes did not show any dissatisfaction or anger, but a trace of helplessness.
She had to lower her social status to do so, and even in the face of great injustice, she did not dare to give the other party a look full of anger and grievance.
It is sympathetic to the fact that all this is a fateful arrangement, full of sadness and helplessness.
Judging from her birth background, she has similarities with An Jie, but An Jie has enjoyed the good life she has always dreamed of;
In terms of appearance and culture, she is far stronger than Dehua, but under the protection of her brother, Dehua chooses to spend the rest of her life with the love she loves.
However, she could only bear the unfairness of fate in the mood of envy, but she could not change her fate, so she could only grit her teeth and silently say in her heart: Forget it.
Ge Meixia's grief reminds me of a sentence written by Yu Hua in the book "Alive": "The power of "living" does not come from shouting or attacking, but from patience, to bear the responsibilities that life gives us, to endure the pain, boredom and mediocrity that reality gives us.
Ge Meixia did not resist the unfair fate, because she knew that she was powerless, so she chose to endure and swallow the pain and suffering, perhaps, persevering to the end, the result would not be too bad?
He has a strong thirst for material life.
In the plot, An Jie invited Ge Meixia to his home to drink coffee, and Ge Meixia curiously asked An Jie: Do you prefer coffee or the taste of coffee?
Anjie: The taste of coffee really appeals to me, what do you think?
G: I don't know, but I do like it.
From the conversation between An Jie and Ge Meixia, it can be clearly felt that An Jie pays more attention to the true taste of coffee, while Ge Meixia pays more attention to its external performance.
When a person is extremely lacking in material aspects, it is difficult for him to truly understand the intrinsic value of events and the experience they bring, and he can only see the obvious sense of form that material brings to life.
Ge Meixia has always dreamed of living a life similar to An Jie, with a rich material foundation and no hands touching the spring water, so this dream makes her particularly purposeful when choosing a partner.
The writer Mo Yan expressed the view that a person's deep desire to be a certain being, but he has never been able to realize this wish. His life is a process of constantly striving for something, and constantly giving up something. As a result, this particular thing became the focus of his life.
Thankfully, Ge Meixia finally became the person she longed for, because she met Wang Zhenbiao, who had the same goal as her.
In the past, I was always confused and didn't understand how Ge Meixia would accept being with Wang Zhenbiao, especially considering that Wang Zhenbiao had deliberately hindered her relationship with Lao Ding.
Regarding this matter, Ge Meixia has a certain degree of resentment towards Wang Zhenbiao in her heart.
Wang Zhenbiao, how could he have the face to confess to Ge Meixia?After all, Ge Meixia had some unknown things in her journey to pursue a happy life.
If you think about it, you'll see what it means. In fact, these two people are just walking the same path, and they are both the kind of people who are willing to put aside their values for a while in order to achieve their goals. However, Ge Meixia's true intentions are well known, while Wang Zhenbiao's intentions are quite secretive, and he did not dare to appear in public until many years later.
At this point, I must mention one thing.
At that time, Wang Zhenbiao's main room Zhang Guiying was still alive, in order to assist Dehua, Zhang Guiying called Wang Zhenbiao and resolutely asked Wang Zhenbiao to prevent Lao Ding from marrying Ge Meixia.
Wang Zhenbiao said excitedly at the time: See what you can do.
Think about it carefully, when did Wang Zhenbiao smile at Zhang Guiying?He said he liked her and liked her deeply. Either because she was too glamorous or because she lacked cultural cultivation, but when he learned that Zhang Guiying wanted him to prevent Lao Ding from marrying Dehua, his mood became extremely happy.
Jiang Yaning described in the original work: Wang Haiyang's mother is a weak and sick person, who has spent almost a year and a half in the hospital.
Obviously, Wang Zhenbiao has already planned to remarry himself after the original partner leaves, and the existence of this kind of man is really frightening.
Wang Zhenbiao was only envious that Jiang Defu had married a beautiful wife with a good education, and hoped to live a life similar to Jiang Defu, so he chose Ge Meixia as his wife.
In the final analysis, Ge Meixia's marriage relationship with Wang Zhenbiao is just a lustful and greedy person.
For Ge Meixia, the value of material things is far more than love, it doesn't matter whether you love or not, what really matters is to get rid of a miserable life.
As Xi Bao once expressed: I long for endless love, and if not, then I will need a lot of money.
This "large amount of money" did provide Ge Meixia with an opportunity to live the life she longed for in her later years.
In the plot, Ge Meixia invited An Jie to drink coffee together, and An Jie soon tasted that this cup of coffee tasted different from her previous taste, and it turned out to be made from high-quality coffee beans.
An Jie said in a joking tone: I thought you were just exchanging earthen guns for foreign cannons, but I didn't expect to make an atomic bomb.
At that particular moment, Ge Meixia showed a bright smile, she finally enjoyed the good times that even An Jie would praise and envy, and this was also the life she had always dreamed of.
The writer Da Bing once expressed this opinion: In this world, there are indeed people who can live the life you desire, but please believe that most of these people have silently endured hardships and challenges that you have not experienced.
Ge Meixia went through all kinds of difficulties, and after silently enduring them, she finally found a way out.