I first watched the TV series "Parents' Love", and then read the original book in depth.
She is the most vivid and bright for the character of An Jie, she is the kind of person who hides her intelligence under the outside.
I really didn't understand why a delicate young lady who was obviously a bourgeois gave birth to seven children due to fatigueNow it seems that it is no wonder that this is the idea of "male superiority and female inferiority" in **. From the original work, we can gain deeper insights.
Anjie has lived in excellent conditions since she was a child, and she is in good physical condition and full of vitality.
In the original, this description goes like this:
Since my father married his mother, who came from a bourgeois family in the city, he not only admired her young and beautiful appearance, but also met a large number of children of different genders.
Jiang Defu's feelings for An Jie were at first sight. After meeting her once, he decided that he wanted to marry her.
It can be seen that An Jie is by no means an ordinary young beauty, and for people like Jiang Defu who have experienced war, his health and vitality are also strongly attractive.
During his childhood, Jiang Defu could neither eat nor drink, and even needed to eat. His father was an ordinary coal miner, pulling a cart of coal from the mine every day. AnJie grew up in a privileged environment, which is very attractive to Jiang Defu.
In Anjie's family original, the description goes like this:
My mother was born in a medium-sized capitalist family in Qingdao. His father was a petty-bourgeois landowner who made a living by herding cattle for people. My grandfather ran a textile factory, a cart shop, a dye shop, a pharmacy and a small restaurant. My father was a capitalist and landowner, and there were three sons in the family, and my mother was one of them. On the eve of liberation, this ruthless capitalist greedily plundered all his treasures, sold all the property that could be sold, and then fled to Taiwan with his wife and the two children born to his wife.
The city where Anjie lives is called Qingdao, which is a well-known seaside city in China.
In the current situation, our family's property is owned by the group company with many subsidiaries and branches, and its assets are as high as hundreds of millions, even more than a billion.
Therefore, during Anjie's growth journey, he enjoyed good food and wine, received a high-quality education, and therefore his physical condition was also quite outstanding.
This is incomparable to the wives of many officers, such as Wang Haiyang's mother.
In the original, this description goes like this:
My courtyard was so large that seven of our relatives were playing hide-and-seek in it, and the shrill sound was like a knife scratching through glass, and it was easy to mistake it for an elementary school or a nursery. My dad and I were both fourth-graders, and every day after school I would go to school, then home, and then home.
Such a prosperous scene undoubtedly constituted a bad irritant to my neighbor on the left side of the house. Wang Haiyang's mother has been ill for a long time, spending almost a year and a half in the hospital, and at home, she spends most of her time frowning, purple-mouthed, and short of breath. His father works outside the home all year round, and his mother is alone at home. As Wang Haiyang's only son, his loneliness and loneliness are obvious.
Due to Wang Haiyang's mother's long-term illness, Wang Haiyang became the only child. In order to take care of this only daughter, he took out almost all his savings. In those days when family planning policies were not implemented, this was quite rare. The contrast between the two stands out.
An Jie showed his wisdom, and he gave birth to 7 children, which is a kind of appreciation for Jiang Defu.
Anjie is a beautiful, kind, simple person with good personal life Xi. She loves to socialize with people and make friends. Outwardly, it does.
However, the background in which she grew up suggests that she was not a particularly "simple" individual.
An Jie's brother, sister-in-law, and sister-in-law are all relatively "snobbish" people, and An Jie will definitely be influenced by them, although she is reluctant to show it.
Jiang Defu's deep affection for An Jie is because An Jie often uses hue to show the emotions of others.
Anjie does understand the point of view: "How long can we maintain a relationship without others?".”
In order to strengthen Jiang Defu's deep affection for her and maintain his position in the family. She decided to give up her career as a mother and go to find a man. Wouldn't having more children be a solution as well?
Moreover, Jiang Defu was born into a peasant family, and he attached great importance to his offspring.
For AnJie, this strategy is clearly highly effective.
This is how it is described in the original book:
It seems that the father's attitude towards the mother has become a bit difficult. The father was very short-tempered and often reprimanded all three of her sons and one daughter, even himself. He had few special words to say about the woman who bore him seven children. The father believed that the woman was one of the greatest creatures in the world, and that she was capable of doing good for mankind, so there was no need for the mother. For a father, having three sons and four daughters is already quite satisfying. He believes that in addition to these, arguing with other women's families about other things is also an act of losing manhood. Therefore, in his attitude towards his mother, the father basically chose a laissez-faire approach, that is, turning a blind eye to her.
Jiang Defu is very satisfied with An Jie, who gave birth to three boys and four girls.
I'm so satisfied with some of Anjie's other things that I'm so happy that I don't have to worry about them.
For some of An Jie's affairs, he chose a non-interventionist attitude, which was undoubtedly a spoiling of him.
Obviously, An Jie has put a lot of effort into the strategy of fixed pampering.
An Jie has the ability to manage life, but he asked his aunt to take care of it, which did not cause conflicts between his aunts and sisters-in-law, and the relationship between his aunts and sisters-in-law gradually deepened.
An Jie is indeed a lucky person. Not only do they have the ability and conditions to have children, but they don't need to worry too much, and a life of wealth, leisure, and love is something anyone will enjoy
An Jie is indeed a thoughtful person, but he cleverly hides this scheming silently.
Dehua describes Anjie as a rabbit who really has the ability to give birth, breeding one litter after another.
In the play, when An Jie was about to give birth to his fifth child, Dehua commented: How can you be so fertile and not give people a chance to survive?
Although Dehua responded, he still took care of Anjie's children without complaint.
Therefore, it can be said that An Jie is blessed, she is only responsible for childbirth, her sister-in-law is responsible for support, and her husband Jiang Defu is responsible for making money.
In that era, An Jie had already lived a life of "you have to make money to support your family, and I want to be responsible for being beautiful like a flower", how can you not feel happy and happy?
In the original work, Jiang Defu's residence on the island is described as follows:
My home is located at the very end of the barracks and can also be considered as the very top floor. The building, with its red sloping roof, is a free-standing courtyard that sits halfway up the hill, while to the left is the same courtyard and residence as Wang's house. The two magnificent mansions appear to be a bit short-sighted, they solemnly overlook the stone-walled army compound, as if the commander and the commissar had to pay close attention to the details of their subordinates' daily lives, such as eating and sleeping.
Life went well, and even the breath was full of sweetness. In such a living environment, An Jie's appearance will naturally not be damaged, this is the author's description in the original work:
My mother was in her forties when I can remember, but her face was so delicately maintained that it was barely visible from the years. When I was in elementary school, my Chinese teacher called her "old flower face", and she was "white-faced".She is tall and fair-skinned. She has a fair complexion and delicate **, two characteristics that greatly reduce her age. I remember when my mother was a child, she always had a thick layer of fat powder on her face, and the wrinkles on her face were much deeper than now, but she was still so beautiful!When I was in junior high school, I read the phrase "are still charming" in a text, and I didn't know whether it was a compliment or a criticism. I don't understand, why is my mother so beautiful?When the teacher enthusiastically explained the meaning of "" and "charm" on the podium, my mother's fair-skinned and delicate face suddenly appeared in my mind.
Obviously, despite Anjie's residence on the island, the sea breeze doesn't have much of an impact on her life.
As long as you live a good life, you will be in a good mood. The older a woman gets, the more attractive she is to men. When your mood becomes cheerful, you will look younger. Isn't it more attractive and more likable to men?Is it easier for this type of woman to win over her husband?You see, how blessed it is to have a smart and lovely daughter!That couple's quality of life isn't the icing on the cake?When the couple's life gradually increases, doesn't the number of children also increase?
Whether it is An Jie's brother and sister-in-law, or An Jie's sister and brother-in-law, they do not have such conditions, so they are not in the mood to have more children.
Some readers have pointed out that Anjie's children do not excel in education. Because everyone is an ordinary person, but their personalities and abilities are different. Actually, there's nothing bad about it, it's just that it's not particularly good. We must believe that the vast majority of people are still ordinary people.
In any case, in that era, the person who was able to live a life like An Jie was enough to prove that she was a very lucky woman.