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The writer Yishu once said:
"Be quiet in everything: come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise. ”
The sign of a person's maturity lies in having a mature mind.
A person with a mature mind, a calm personality, consistent in words and deeds, likes to express himself quietly, and also likes to be quiet and alone.
In the final analysis, only when people's minds are as calm as water can they truly be inviolable.
Because, the mind is calm, and you have to be calm;The mind is calm, and the soul can be nourished;The mind is calm, and you can calm down.
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When you are young and frivolous, when your blood is strong, it is difficult to be calm.
This is like most young people, who have endless energy, are not afraid of getting tired, are full of energy, and like the noisy and lively occasions outside.
But slowly, when a person has experienced more, understood more, and indeed carried it, he will slowly move towards maturity.
When a person reaches a certain age, he is going to **.
What you receive is that momentum, which is transformed into your own concentration, and then you are really quiet, determined, and constantly do your best.
Zeng Guofan said"If the mind is quiet, it will be fine, and it will save effort. ”
A person knows how to calm down, and slowly he can observe words and colors, and get straight to the essence of things.
In this way, in the process of self-cultivation, the efficiency is higher, and there is no need to spend more energy.
A person, only when he is calm enough, can he observe some small details, push away the fog in front of him, and his heart suddenly opens up.
When a person cultivates himself in such a state of tranquility for a long time, he will naturally be able to become more determined and wise.
It's like the Taoist saying:
"Stillness can give birth to determination, and it can produce wisdom. ”
In this life, the real maturity and success do not lie in how much money is earned and what kind of high position it has reached, but whether it feels calm and contented in the heart.
Only when people are content, can the soul breathe freely, and the soul can be free and spontaneous.
The heart moves forward quietly, and the content is always happy
The sooner you calm your mind, the sooner you will have a comfortable and happy experience.
Even if we have a lot of worries and a lot of pressure at the moment, these things are not things in our lives.
If you are always restless and live every day, like ants on a hot pot, it is really unjust.
Life is short, we must know how to be happy in time, and we must be content and happy.
However, the only way to do this is through mental tranquility.
People who can calm down have the simplest mind and the most straightforward way of living, and will never compete with themselves, let alone entangle with others.
Because once you are more serious with yourself, you are competing, you are entangled with others, and you are obsessed with it, and your heart is like a lake that has been stirred up, and the ripples in circles can't fade or stop.
Then, all kinds of grievances and grievances will entangle themselves, consume themselves, and make themselves exhausted, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Only by keeping a normal heart, cherishing the present, living the present, and creating the present, can we have a better tomorrow.
Just like what is said in "The Taste of the World is Pure Joy":
"Affectionate with a normal heart, remove obstacles with a soft heart, see the world with a pure heart, and live life with a happy heart. ”
Only by maintaining a state of tranquility can a person not be disturbed by the tediousness and desires of the world, and not let bad things and bad people consume his mood.
In this way, the heart is pure, the heart is calm, the world is calm, and the future is greeted with joy.
The heart is as calm as water, and all poisons do not invade
A truly strong person must have a strong heart that is as calm as water.
People, once they have achieved peace of mind like water, then no matter how the outside world stirs and chaos, they will not be affected.
In the face of fame and fortune, I looked at it calmly in my heart, Xi took it for granted, and I also did not take things to joy and not to be sad about myself;
In the face of glory and wealth, his heart is calm and carefree, and he does what he wants, and he will not rush for quick success;
In the face of success or failure, the heart is even more pessimistic, it doesn't matter, the heart is peaceful, the heart is as calm as water, and the exchange comes and goes calmly.
A truly calm person will not be disturbed by the outside world, and will not let outsiders hurt his heart, just like Su Dongpo wrote:
When he returned, there was neither wind nor rain nor sunshine.
In this way, he is upright, frank and open, and lives this life without poison.