If you decide that you want to have a good relationship with the person around you, then never share your successes and happy things with them, the greatest evil in human nature is not to see others better than yourself, there are a few core points in the Art of War that can help you act more carefully and wisely in relationships, including the following, don't tell anyone about your past.
When entering a new environment, you should pay attention to keeping a low profile.
Learn to restrain your desire to refute.
Learn to praise others, build positive relationships, and show respect and appreciation for others.
Don't easily forgive someone who has hurt you because he weighed the pros and cons before hurting you.
Don't be too enthusiastic about the people you just met, the more enthusiastic you are, the more others will look down on you, when you don't have the strength, the good to others will be considered to be flattering, you must know that in this world, people will only appreciate your success, but no one will account for the means you use on the road to success.
Think about it from another perspective, whether this way is more in line with the other party's wishes, not to give the right thing to the other party, the other party will be satisfied, this is human nature, of course, this does not mean that we should completely hide our success and happiness. Instead, we can build more positive relationships by sharing these positive experiences.
Therefore, in the actual situation, you need to adjust your social style according to the specific situation, which varies from person to person, do you understand?If you understand, give a like, and add a follow.