Yesterday in the group, I mentioned an eternal law, that is, value exchange.
And the best form of value exchange is gift-giving.
When it comes to gift-giving, many people will think that this is not the right way, and it is an act that shameless villains will be keen on, and they will be frank and disdainful of it.
However, gift-giving is just an act of respecting the value of the other party, and it has nothing to do with whether you are a villain who likes to go the wrong way.
In real life, many people claim to be upright and gentlemen, and they scoff at any gift-giving culture, but once someone sincerely asks him to accept the gift, his heart must be very happy, at least the other party respects his value.
Human nature wants to be respected by others, and human nature also likes to covet profits.
For example, if you visit your parents during the holidays, they will be very happy if you bring a small giftIf you come back empty-handed, they will say that it's good to be back, it's good to be back, and there will always be a dissatisfied look on their faces.
For example, on Teacher's Day, if you go back to visit your teacher, if you only bring someone one sentence: Happy Teacher's Day. Your teacher must have scolded in his heart, who wouldn't be a cheap blessing?
However, if you bring two cartons of milk (or fruit) back to see her, the effect will be very different, your teacher will smile like a flower on his face, take your gift, and say to you, "It's so polite, don't do it again, don't do it anymore......
Therefore, there are very few people who can transcend human nature, and do not use the standards of saints to demand from anyone.
If you want your family relationship to be harmonious and beautiful, you must also respect their human needs, talk more with gifts, and educate others with less empty words.
I saw a story about a pair of sisters who went home to visit their mother, and every time the sister went back, she gave something to her mother, and the younger sister didn't take anything, and my mother especially liked the sensible sister.
The younger sister was very angry, thinking that her mother was too snobbish, and kept complaining with her sister.
How did her sister persuade her?
After a few days, this sister picked a gift of tens of thousands of dollars to go to her house, and then began to persuade her.
Naturally, my sister gladly accepted her sister's kindness, so when my sister went back, she drove her sister to her home.
Before her sister got out of the car, she said to her sister, you always scold our mother, in fact, you are the same person as our mother, you see, usually I go to your house, you never send me, and you don't even bother to go down the corridor.
But this time, you drove so far to send me home, what is the difference between you and our mother?
Each of us is like this, receiving benefits, receiving gifts, always having joy in our hearts, and naturally behaving very differently towards others.
After listening to her sister's words, my sister instantly stopped being entangled.
Therefore, treat anyone around you and don't use the standards of saints to demand others.
Including me, I am also a villain who likes real gold ** and likes to talk about money.
For example, if a friend on WeChat comes to ask me a question, if I don't see any transfer red envelopes, I will also reject you and despise you in my heart.
Because, since you are talking to me privately, if I answer patiently and meticulously, it will inevitably take up my extra time and energy, so why are you embarrassed to speak in vain?
It's not that I'm pretending to be b, it's because Dawei's family has become a young man, and I can't get the hang of it, so I have to do this in order to filter the white people who pretend to be confused, in order to save energy and not be prostituted in vain.
I can't help it, wandering around this fucking world, I only believe in speaking with deeds. i have always been a realistic person, a powerful profitee, and a profiteering person.
This is true on the Internet, and it is also true in reality.
If you pay the bill, let him get a return;
Thanksgiving, Jean, he was rewarded;
the trick of opening up will make him rewarded;
Who makes me comfortable me, who makes me comfortable.
As for others, no matter how much it is.
Someone came to me and asked me how to give a gift to the child's teacher, and he gave him a trick at my own expense, and he turned his head and deleted me.
I spent a whole week asking me to help me plan the course, and then I only symbolically charged for a drink, and he turned around and said "I was in the wrong place."
Any more, I'm too lazy to say. No, I'm a doctor, I'm not Jesus, I'm not a bodhisattva, I only do things that are relevant to me, and I don't think about anything that has nothing to do with me.
Why 90% of the rich are obsessed with kindness?Doing this stuff is similar to opening a bank. For example, I ** donated 10 million to xx. xx will withdraw 30% and tax 25%, which is very few ...... to the patient's hand
Why don't the children of wealthy families read moral texts, but only learn social etiquette?Why do children from poor families go to learn the rules and the Five Classics?
The rich know that 90 percent of their income comes from the social exchange . The poor know that 90 percent of their income comes from part-time work, and part-time work must be in accordance with the rules, simple, obedient, and executed.
What is the purpose of reading?Is it to learn to kill, to live or to learn to release. The sky is speechless, and the saint is speechless. All sentient beings were either killed in a vague way, but were inexplicably released.
Why was the killing done?Why was he released?What is the logic behind it?Why doesn't anyone talk about it?Why didn't anyone write it?
Answer: Those who have the right to speak do not speak, and those who do not have the right to speak have the right to speak......
There are many things that have been experienced, and the mood will only become more and more calm. The colors of humanity are disappearing little by little. I can write colorful prose with a human color, but I can't write an advertisement with a human color.
In the blood-dripping river of business, my romantic heart has long been rusted, and my conscience is still a little bit.
I'm not a good person, and I'm not a bad person. People What I see is that people are good at doing bad things, and bad people are raising and cultivating good people. Our poverty is cultivated by a small group of people, and the law of eighty-two is human, for the sake of objectivity, and I laugh but don't say anything.
People who like to give gifts are people who take the initiative in this world, and their luck will not be too bad in the end.
Because they are using their precious lives to respect the value of this world and link the high energy of the universe.
Just imagine, the gifts given by any person, carefully prepared gifts, are not obtained out of thin air, either paid real money**, or spent a lot of effort.
How can you not like such a person?How can it not help such a person succeed?
Finally, I hope you are also a person who loves to give gifts and like to provide value to this world.
The gift you give to the world does not have to be a material object, but it can be a work of spiritual thought.
For example, an article that is patiently polished, a ** work that is carefully filmed, and a live broadcast that is carefully prepared.
If you do, trust me, your future must be golden.
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