I live in a small city and have a three-generation family with my son and my elderly mother-in-law. However, I must confess that I was once a disrespectful and violent daughter-in-law to my mother-in-law.
When I was younger, I was beautiful and had a strong personality.
I always want to be in control at home. I often yelled at my mother-in-law and even beat and scolded her. This act of domestic violence caused concern and resentment among my family, but I didn't care about it.
When I now recall the disrespectful and violent acts I had towards my mother-in-law in the past, I feel very ashamed and regretful.
During that time, I often lost control of my emotions, yelled at my mother-in-law, and even beat and scolded her.
Once, while I was preparing dinner in the busy kitchen, my mother-in-law accidentally knocked over a bowl of dishes. I instantly became furious, I loudly rebuked her for her carelessness and began to belittle her in harsh language. I could see that my mother-in-law was hurt by me, and her eyes were full of sadness and disappointment.
Another time, I lost control again over a small matter. I did not hesitate to beat my mother-in-law, and I continued to insult her despite the dissuasion of my family and the pleas of my mother-in-law. At that time, I had no idea how seriously my actions had caused my mother-in-law's physical and mental health.
These acts of violence happened not only on the spur of the moment, but also on the back of my heart of resentment and selfishness.
I used to think that I was the head of the family and should have absolute authority and control. I ignored my mother-in-law's status and dignity as the elder of the family, and the hard work and love she had put into the family over the years.
Looking back now, I feel very ashamed of my actions.
I understood that domestic violence could irreparably hurt the victims, and how cruel and inhumane the harm I inflicted on my mother-in-law. This experience made me deeply reflective and determined to change myself to become a more caring and considerate daughter-in-law.
Then fate began to train me.
My son brought back a really powerful daughter-in-law, her name is Xiaofang. Xiaofang is smart and independent, with a strong personality. She saw my disrespect and violence towards my mother-in-law and decided to take action.
Xiaofang has established a deep relationship with her mother-in-law with her heart. She gave her mother-in-law warmth and love, often chatted with her, helped her with household chores, and prepared hearty meals. I saw Xiaofang's kindness and care towards my mother-in-law, but I felt uncomfortable in my heart, thinking that she was taking away my power and position.
So, I began to provoke and abuse Xiaofang, trying to intimidate her into leaving the family. However, Xiaofang was not intimidated. She showed courage and strength in her heart. In a heated argument, I tried to beat and scold my mother-in-law, but Xiaofang resolutely stood up. She rode on top of me and gave me a resounding slap in the face.
At that moment, I was shocked. I saw my mistakes and shame in Xiaofang's determined eyes. I realized how wrong and inhumane the way I had treated my mother-in-law.
From that day on, I changed dramatically. I apologized to my mother-in-law and promised to respect and take care of her. I also expressed my gratitude to Xiao Fang, and I realized that I can learn a lot from Xiao Fang.
Over time, our family gradually rebuilt an atmosphere of harmony and respect. I learned how to be a caring and considerate daughter-in-law, and Xiaofang became an indispensable member of the family. Her courage and sense of justice earned her family's respect.
Through Xiaofang's actions, the disharmony in the family was improved, and I deeply reflected and realized my mistakes.
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