I have a pension of 8300, and I didn't know until I was old that when I was young, I bullied my wife and buried mines for myself
Text: Pear, pear, pear.
I'm Uncle Metasequoia, born in '62, and retired last year.
When I was young, I was an engineer in a mechanical factory, and the technical problems in the factory were solved when I came to me.
Leaders appreciate, colleagues admire, annual evaluation of advanced, on behalf of the factory to attend the provincial model worker meeting.
In addition to my excellent business, I am also a backbone of literature and art, serving as a publicity officer, and hosting the gala with witty remarks, which made everyone laugh.
I have a successful career and high spirits, but I also have troubles, that is, my wife is not satisfactory at all, and from young to old, I have always felt that my marriage is unsatisfactory.
I came out of the rural area, graduated from college and was assigned to the factory, and met a girl who was in love.
Unfortunately, her parents didn't look down on me, and thought that their daughter should find a son-in-law who was in charge of the family, so they broke us up, and then her family moved to the south and never met again.
My wife met in the hospital, when my mother was hospitalized and my father was at a construction site in a foreign country, and I was a boy taking care of my mother after surgery, which was inconvenient.
She is the daughter of the aunt next to the bed, and when she saw that I was clumsy, she was kind enough to help.
At that time, she was very simple, shy and shy, and at first glance she was a good wife and mother, and her culture was only junior high school education.
But the matter of marriage is that the right person appeared at the right time, I was injured because of the loss of love, and the two mothers facilitated, and finally we were together.
It's just that after unforgettable love, I can't let go of my ex-girlfriend and secretly compare the two.
I always feel unwilling, I, Wang Metasequoia, can only find this kind of girl?I have a dislike in my heart, and after the child is born, I don't like my wife's unmodified appearance anymore.
The loved one is always fearless, I talk to my wife, I don't even bother to call her by name, every day is a "hey".
The man's career is thriving, but his wife's unit has been laid off because of poor efficiency, and she has become a real housewife.
This made her even more humble, taking care of the family, and sometimes taking my mother to live in the city, and my mother often asked me to be nice to my daughter-in-law, but I didn't listen.
My wife's best friend family came to visit, and I counted her as useless in front of the guests.
The vegetables are salty, the soup is light, the color of the braised hooves is not bright, and the fried spring sprouts are not crispy, so they are picky.
Her best friend couldn't stand it, so she went into the kitchen to help stir-fry, and I accompanied the guests to chat in the living room, and my best friend's voice came out: How can you bear it?My husband dared to do this to me, and I kicked him back to my hometown.
The wife smiled innocently: He has this temper, his mouth is broken, and he is still very good.
I didn't know at that time that suppression and belittlement are the greatest harm to a person, and living in verbal violence all year round will destroy people's spirits.
After more than 10 years of marriage, I met Tian Mingming during a meeting in a provincial capital.
She was similar in appearance to my first love, intellectually elegant, and I inevitably fell into it, and the two of them secretly interacted.
Later, Tian Mingming's husband found out that she was cheating and found us in the factory, and the matter got big, Tian Mingming divorced her husband and asked me to marry her.
But I was scared, I found that I didn't want to divorce, although I didn't love my wife, but I was a real beneficiary in marriage.
My wife is worried about the inside and outside of the house, including my parents' pension and my younger brother's study and family.
And Tian Mingming was aggressive after the divorce because of my divorce, she took her daughter, and she had a big decision not to marry, which scared me.
Once divorced, my reputation in the factory will be over, and I will become Chen Shimei, not to mention an advanced individual, but I am afraid that I will not even be able to sit firmly in the office.
But my wife offered to give me freedom: After so many years, don't you just want to find a lovely woman?Now I fulfill you.
I was dumbfounded, seeing my wife's resolute attitude, my parents rushed to persuade her, scolding me while persuading her: The child is going to take the college entrance examination, and Metasequoia is not a human business, you will spare him this time, and he will not dare in the future.
Divorce is not good for you, you are in your 40s, and it is difficult for women to find a partner. ”
My mother's words angered my daughter-in-law, she blushed and said excitedly: It's not easy to find, I won't not look for it?Do you have to get married?I can live with my children!
The son helped his mother speak, saying that his mother had been coldly looked at by his father for so many years, and he saw it in his eyes, and now he supports his mother's divorce.
I suddenly became a loner, and I was so unwelcome at homeI had to whisper and beg my wife not to divorce.
The marriage was not divorced, but my wife fell ill, and it was breast cancer when I was checked, and a thunderbolt from the sky blinded me.
I guarded the hospital day and night, and the doctor said that it was easy to get this disease when I was angry and depressed, and when I thought back on half my life, I suddenly felt that I was not a thing, and I made her angry.
After my wife was discharged from the hospital, we switched positions, she became the shopkeeper of the family, and I became a good man who bought vegetables and cooked.
* After the wife let go of herself, she traveled everywhere with a group of old girlfriends, and ran all over the world.
She has survived to retirement age, and she can finally receive a pension, and she no longer has to reach out to me to ask for money, which has become her confidence.
And I had a stroke in the year of my retirement and was in the hospital for more than a month.
In a month, I thoroughly understand that no amount of wind and snow, swearing, or alliance, can not be worthy of a partner who really treats you sincerely.
When you were young, you didn't treat your wife well, so you dug a pit for your old self.
People can not always live young in this life, retire and return to the family when they are old, there is something wrong with the body, they need to be taken care of, you treat your partner well when you are young, and your partner will accompany and protect you in times of crisis.
And women are mostly more resilient than men, and many families are left by men first, and women can live alone for many years.
I don't dare to imagine the scene of my lonely life, if I don't have a wife, there is a high probability that I will not live too nourishing in my old age.
It's better to be kind to your spouse when you are young, and you should save for yourself to be virtuous, so that you can have a stable old age.
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