If you want your ex to take the initiative to get back together with you, in fact, you don't need him to miss the old love, and you don't need to improve your value, take advantage of the weaknesses of human nature, and you will be able to get back together.
If you also want to get back together with your ex and don't know what to do, you must learn to properly create anxiety for your ex, and you can think about whether you yourself are also anxious now, like ants in a hot pot.
If you are the one who is unwilling to lose the other person, you also have to ask your ex to tell you bluntly like you.
If the other person is in no hurry to solve the problems in your relationship at all, or even have the will to solve them, then you are entertaining yourself. Even, the other party will laugh at you and feel like you are a clown.
Now I will teach you a few steps to help you regain your self-worth, elicit an emotional reaction from your ex, and actively pursue your reunion.
First of all, you have to figure out what is causing the other person to panic
The answer is that he cares a lot, but there is no way to know for sure, or things are not going to happen the way you think, are you in this state right now?
So, how can we transfer this state to the other party and complete a state swap?
At this time, you have to understand what is the premise of your interchangeable status, the premise is that your ex thinks that you are more valuable.
He used to think that his value was higher than yours, but now he thinks that he is not so worthy, and your value is not as low as he imagined, in short, his status has become high.
Since your ex can fall in love with you for the first time, as long as you do well enough, you can also make him fall in love with you for the second time, and the other party's current state is actually more about trying to escape the problem, and you have to become the person the other party cares about.
Next, I will tell you three methods, all of which are practical and dry goods, and the last one is the most ruthless.
First, let the other party ask for it
Have you ever promised the other party a lot of things, and you have done all of them now, and when you have done this, there will be a gap in the other party's heart.
Let's say you used to know how to cook, and the other person felt that you had never cooked and were unhappy with you.
Now, your cooking skills have been able to make a set of cripples, what will the other party think at this time, are you deliberately angry with me?
At this time, the other party will think, why do others have what I can't get, so the other party will be very uncomfortable and unconvinced.
The second is to regain the freedom of hobbies
Did the other party do a lot of things that they didn't want you to do when you were together, and now that you've broken up, will you be able to regain control of these freedoms?
You can do what you want to do, and at this time you can imagine that your ex will really be happy if he breaks up with you.
The other party is actually still secretly paying attention to you, and the other party doesn't like what you do and what you want to do, so it will form a psychological gap again.
Third, it's very ruthless, you must find a new love
At the very least, it is the opposite sex that can be contacted frequently, you look ambiguous, the advantage of this opposite sex, must be the part of the ex that was very inferior before, you go in the opposite direction to find it, probably this logic.
If you do these three things well, the weakness of human nature will push your ex to take the initiative to come to you, do you understand?