At the age of 35, which is not too big or small, many people are already mothers of one or two children at this age, and many people are still unmarried young women. When the two children cry and need to be appeased because of grabbing toys, and feel sad because of the endless housework, and feel that life is a mess, the mother begins to envy the single good sisters around her, and wants to go around to play, go shopping, eat delicious food, and can do without the slightest concern, turn around and leave, do not be tied up by the husband and children's family, do whatever you want, do whatever you want, you can think about yourself, and live as you like. However, older women also envy these mothers, the warmth and happiness brought to them by the children's family, especially during the holidays, when the children gather around their parents, and they seem lonely and pitiful compared to themselves wandering aimlessly on the street alone. Most people are ordinary people, an ordinary older woman, an older brick moving girl, will not be as smart and witty as Andy, and have a successful career;will not be as beautiful, confident and charming as Wang Manni. There is no shortage of such older and single women around, which may be the reason for their level, in a small county, the income is average, the work is decent, and there are many who have no worries about food and clothing.
There is a 35-year-old young woman next to her, thinking every day that she can find a better job, because she was hurt in a relationship before, she no longer has too many illusions about marriage, and she has gone on a blind date many times, but the man's conditions are not satisfactory, when she keeps complaining, even if she doesn't marry, she can't wronged herself, find someone like this, a person who doesn't like it and can't take it, to be honest, you can understand the idea of the introducer, this age is in a small county, it may not be easy to find a high-quality man, but this friend's idea can also be understood, women must love themselves at all times, and they can't lower their requirements for choosing a mate, after all, they are people who want to live with themselves for a lifetime。 Later, suddenly one day a friend said that she was going to get married, I was stunned at the time, I was very puzzled, what kind of excellent man was it, won her who used to be picky in every way, and then inquired, I learned that the man's conditions in all aspects are very average, and even many places are not as good as her previous blind date, but in the end he chose him, I was a little puzzled. In the end, I couldn't help but ask her, she said that this is not her choice, it is the persecution of her parents and the compromise of reality, when the age comes, if you don't want to be a stepmother, you have to lower your requirements, she doesn't want to be a stepmother, and she can't be a stepmother, she can only choose a first-time marriage, she bluntly said that she doesn't have much expectations for the days after marriage. After listening, I was silent, what made "them" compromise?