At present, in the social atmosphere of extreme material affluence, the misguidance of "money" and "power" has led to the loss of basic moral norms among some people. The night horror that has just been staged in Jinan, Shandong Province on December 10 has opened a corner of the dark side of the current society without exaggeration. We have the reason to reflect deeply, and we also have the responsibility to work together to reshape social values and protect the bottom line of civilization.
1. Behind the drunken gaffe is a huge social crisis
That night, Yao and two girl friends celebrated their birthday at KTV. In the wee hours of the morning, a group of apparently drunk men broke into the box. The first person pointed directly at the girl and shouted "1 person 1,000, can't go", implying that he needed to "accompany the wine". * The man in the middle is faltering, and he still can't hide his drunkenness with the help of his friends. Yao described how scared he was and worried that the situation would continue to escalate, so he had to leave.
It is not difficult for us to think that people who are drunk often lose their minds, and a dispute may lead to irreparable consequences. Fortunately, Yao and others left decisively to avoid further confrontation. But behind this incident is a concentrated embodiment of erroneous values and behavioral patterns in the entire social environment.
Some people may lightly attribute it to "drunken gaffes", but ignore the social ills behind it. This is not only a moral degradation, but also a serious threat to women's safety, a tiny flame that can ignite an entire forest. It is necessary to face up to the enormous crisis that lies within.
Second, moral deviation reveals systemic problems, and it is urgent for society to deal with them
So, in this seemingly civilized and harmonious society, why are there still people who openly trample on the bottom line of morality?
Perhaps it has something to do with the wrong concept of gender and power in reality. Some people are proud of their wealth and status, and mistakenly believe that they can trample on the dignity of others at will. On the other hand, some people's lack of family education and poor self-discipline are more likely to go to extremes under the influence of the external environment.
Moreover, consumerism is prevalent at present, and vanity and comparison are excessive. Some people are overly interested in money, mistakenly believing that they can exchange everything at will. So under the guidance of wrong values, such a ridiculous idea of "1 person, 1 thousand" was born. Finally, it also reflects the systemic problem of poor regulation. There is a blind spot in the supervision of catering and entertainment venues, and minors can easily obtain alcohol, which leads to the blame after the fact. This is both an individual case and the tip of the iceberg.
Obviously, in order to prevent the recurrence of such incidents, we need to fundamentally examine and revise the value orientation of society. This requires the joint efforts of every group in society.
3. Families and schools shall assume responsibility for basic education
Children and adolescents are at a critical stage in the formation of their worldview. It is necessary for families and schools to strengthen moral and mental health education to help them establish correct values and self-discipline. Specifically, parents should lead by example and help their children develop a correct sense of gender and power, as well as good Xi habits. Schools should also set up relevant compulsory courses, invite experts to teach, and organize relevant social practice activities.
Only by strengthening basic education and enabling minors to have sufficient judgment to resist the negative impact of the outside world can we curb the occurrence of such incidents at their roots. This is a shared responsibility between the family and the school.
Fourth, improve laws and regulations and law enforcement, and severely punish the behavior of stepping on the line
Under the influence of the environment, it is still difficult for individual moral self-discipline to completely eliminate the occurrence of deviant behavior. At this time, authoritative external intervention is needed to protect the public interest.
It is necessary for relevant departments to further improve the laws and regulations, and formulate and issue more specific and operable rules for the supervision of catering establishments and the drinking of minors. At the same time, it is also necessary to intensify law enforcement, strictly investigate places that evade supervision, and impose sufficiently severe penalties. The judicial departments should also deal with acts that have already occurred out of context, and give judicial punishments to warn society. Deterrence can only be achieved by making violations of the law pay a price.
5. Create a positive cultural atmosphere and guide rational choices
In addition to the inappropriate factors in the environment, we also need to actively guide positive values in our daily lives. **The platform should play a positive leading role, set up special topics to discuss the construction of social morality, and publicize typical cases;Entertainment works should be consciously implanted with positive energy. Each of us can also spread love stories in our lives and create a rational and harmonious atmosphere for social discussion.
Only by making "truth, goodness, and beauty" the mainstream values of society and giving people positive energy will people make rational decisions spontaneously in various choices. This requires the joint efforts of every citizen.
Some netizens said: "This incident once again reveals the hidden dangers of female friends' travel, and I hope that relevant departments can increase law enforcement and severely punish drunk drivers;."Hotel employees should also be self-disciplined and strict, especially in preventing drunken disturbances. ”
Some netizens also said: "Behind the incident is the ugliness of some human nature, which cannot be expanded and attributed to the moral collapse of the whole society." We still have to believe that most people still adhere to basic moral norms, which is why the contrast is even greater. Another netizen said: "The high attention to this incident also shows that the society is highly sensitive to public morality incidents and attaches great importance to the governance of the problem." Therefore, I believe that through the joint efforts of all walks of life, we will be able to gradually build a more civilized and rational social environment. ”
To sum up, the emergence of this barbaric extortion incident reminds us that there is a long way to go in the construction of social morality, and on the other hand, it also reveals the positive role that different sectors can play. Let's start with ourselves, spread positive energy, and continue to promote social progress.
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