I am Manman, welcome to the planet of women's growth, follow Manman, make money with one hand, and make love with the other. Welcome everyone to like and follow!As long as you remember these three points, say goodbye directly to the love brain.
First, don't test the other personDon't take the time to test whether the other person really loves you, because the more you study the other person, the deeper you will fall, you just need to care about your own emotions, am I happy for him to do this?If I'm not happy, what am I going to do about myself?Whether I am close to him or leave him, you have to learn to confirm your feelings at all times, and if you are close to him and you find that you are particularly painful and tormented, then you have to learn to give up immediately. Because for men, you really don't have to study too much, men are linear thinking, they are result-oriented.
Second, value yourselfInstead of always pondering a man's thoughts, it is better to pay attention to his own feelings and standards first, we must learn to decide whether we love him or not according to his performance, instead of always entangled in his thoughts, to ponder whether he loves you or not, and if he behaves well, we will love him a little more and give him a little more sweetness. If he is indifferent and does not care, then we must learn to give up decisively. The so-called two-way running, that is, what attitude you have towards me, what attitude I have towards you, love is the balance, if you become low, you have to learn to pull yourself back to a high position, how to pull back to a high position, is how he treats you, you treat him.
Third, love is the icing on the cakeTake love as the icing on the cake, if you like a person too much, it's all your own problem, because you need a relationship too much, and at this time, he happens to appear, not because of how good he is, how suitable you are, but because you give him some halo and add some filters to him, then at this time, your feelings are too full. We have to learn to distract ourselves, you have to know that he must not be all you have. Dear readers and friends, if it is useful to you, please click three times, like and follow the comments, if you understand, please put the love brain in the comment area, we will see you in the next issue!100 help plan