The most snobbish person in Ode to Joy is not Fan Shengmei, who is proficient in human affairs, but Qu Xiaoxuan, who is quite poisonous.
Although Fan Shengmei has high conditions in choosing a mate and is relatively picky, she is still relatively righteous, and she does not bow down to her friends.
Qu Xiaoxuan's snobbish personality is very prominent, she is never presumptuous in the face of Andy, and always shows a yin and yang weird attitude towards the girls who live in 2202.
However, Qu Xiaoxuan's treatment of Guan Juer is indeed somewhat unusual.
Both Qu Xiaoxuan and Andy have criticized Guan Juer for being too stubborn, trusting anyone's words, and working very hard every day, but her attitude towards Guan Juer is obviously much better than her treatment of Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying.
Although they are all people who rent houses in Shanghai, why did Qu Xiaoxuan bully Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying, but showed a deep affection for them?
There is a difference in the original family background.
Although Guan Juer lives in house No. 2202 with Qiu Yingying and Fan Shengmei, due to the superior economic conditions of Guan Juer's family, Qiu Yingying and Fan Shengmei only live in an ordinary family.
Due to differences in birth families, the living circumstances of these three people are very different.
After completing his university studies, Guan Juer was able to return home to enjoy the comfort of a house and a car, but he personally preferred to work in Shanghai.
The environmental conditions in Shanghai are also quite good, with the best quality master bedroom of Ode to Joy 2202 and working for the first few companies in the industry.
There is no need to be forced to become a fishing girl by a patriarchal family like Fan Shengmei, and there is no need to force herself to stay in Shanghai in order to fulfill her father's wish like Qiu Yingying.
As the only daughter in a more economically developed area, Guan Juer is more confident and personable than Qiu Yingying and Fan Shengmei.
This kind of Guan Juer's charm obviously surpasses that of Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying.
Everyone's personality is different.
The three girls in 2202 have very different personalities, and Fan Shengmei is too vain and often suffers for the sake of face, which makes her feel very embarrassed.
Although he is full of Akagi feelings in his heart, he dresses himself up like a fishing girl, thus reducing his personality attractiveness.
This also explains why Qu Xiaoxuan did not have a crush on Fan Shengmei at first.
Qiu Yingying is more action-oriented than Fan, but her elusive personality can cause additional distress to those around her.
After experiencing two breakups, Qiu Yingying's emotions fluctuated greatly and often vented her negative emotions to others, which made the neighbors around her feel very troubled.
Compared to Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying, Guan Juer's emotions are more stable and decisive, and he will not like to exaggerate like Fan Shengmei, nor will he babble like Qiu Yingying.
Qu Xiaoxuan's love for the relationship with her friends is also reasonable, because Qu Xiaoxuan's personality is both gentle and intelligent, and is quite popular with people.
Everyone's values are different.
Fan Shengmei, Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer have significant differences in values.
Take Andy's view of his career as an example, he believes that Fan Shengmei is a professional master.
More specifically, although Fan Shengmei is well versed in social etiquette and human sophistication, in her career, she is more inclined to rely on some small strategies and means to obtain short-term or insignificant gains, rather than showing a positive and enterprising attitude in her career.
Fan Shengmei's initial goal was to change her destiny through marriage, rather than pursuing a career.
Compared with Fan Shengmei, Qiu Yingying lacks enthusiasm for her career, she just wants to devote herself to love, find a partner and get married and have children.
During his love experience with Director Bai, he did not hesitate to devote himself to it, despite knowing that the office affair would have an impact on his work, leading to a breakup of love and the loss of himself.
Guan Juer has clearly contributed more to her career than Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying, and Andy and Qu Xiaoxuan both agree that Guan Juer is a wonderful employee and they are willing to help her join their company if she loses her job.
Indeed, Guan Juer is very aware of his shortcomings in academic qualifications, so he has put in more effort and time than others in order to successfully pass the assessment, which is really commendable.
Judging from the above three aspects, Guan Juer's personal appeal obviously exceeds that of Fan Shengmei and Qiu Yingying, so it is not surprising that Qu Xiaoxuan can be attracted.