I, Shen Qing, am a psychological counselor, and my usual job is to help those who are hurt out of the haze. One day, however, I found myself in a psychic disorientation that I had never experienced before.
It was a normal weekend, and I was at home, as usual, reading a book on psychology. The book tells fascinating stories that made me ponder. At this time, my phone suddenly rang, it was a friend's **. She excitedly told me, "Sisters, I'm cheating on my mind!."”
I was shocked to hear the news. Because I have always been the person she confides in, I know that she is a very traditional woman, very loyal to marriage and family. I can't imagine her saying something like that.
I immediately asked her to meet to find out what was really going on in her heart. In the café, she confided in me about her troubles. It turned out that she felt very unhappy in her married life, her husband was indifferent to her, and the two barely communicated. And on the Internet, she met a man who knew how to care about her, which made her feel warm.
I, as her friend, were very worried. I know she's a kind, sensitive woman and don't want to see her hurt. I decided to help her find a solution to her problem.
In the days that followed, I accompanied her to various activities to help her expand her social circle and meet more friends. I also encouraged her to communicate with her husband and try to improve their relationship. At the same time, I also told her that thinking derailment is not the solution to the problem, but to find the true need of the heart and then satisfy it.
Through my efforts, she gradually woke up from her confusion. She began to realize that encountering problems in her married life does not mean giving up, but rather actively solving them. She also understands that the warmth on the Internet is not a substitute for family and love in real life.
After a spiritual loss, she finally found her way home. She decided to work with her husband to improve their relationship and work for her own happiness.
This process made me deeply aware of the responsibilities of being a psychological counselor. Not only to help others solve their problems, but also to guide them to find the true needs of their hearts. At the same time, I also understand that everyone may be confused at times, and the key is to find the right direction and face the reality bravely.
Through this experience, I felt confident in my career. I believe that as long as I continue to work hard, I can help more people get out of the spiritual predicament and find their happiness.
This is my story, about the loss of the soul and the way home. I want to tell everyone, no matter what difficulties you encounter, be brave enough to face them and find a solution to them. At the same time, you should also cherish the family and friendship around you, which are the most valuable treasures in your life.