The first time I saw Ye Nanying, I fell in love with her. On the first day of reporting to the unit, the director of the party and government office called a girl, who was petite, wearing a simple white shirt, a pair of blue trousers, short hair to the ears, and two dimples that were particularly conspicuous when she smiled.
The director instructed her to take me around the various departments and get to know my colleagues. Nanying smiled and introduced herself first, she was admitted to the civil service a year before me, and her home is also in the urban area, and she has to go back and forth more than ten kilometers every day like me. Eventually, she said that sometimes she could commute to work together in her hitchhiker.
That's how I got to know Nanying, a soft-spoken and emotionally stable girl. Soon, I learned that my colleagues in the unit spoke highly of her, saying that she was a highly educated girl and worked hard, and both leaders and cadres liked her very much.
At that time, I didn't have a car and took the bus to and from work every day. When Nanying found out, she offered to take me. Every day she waited for me at the gate of our community on time, and when I got off work, I occasionally worked overtime, and she waited very patiently. For this reason, I have a better impression of her.
At that time, our unit's food and lodging were in an industrial zone, which was called to better get close to the enterprise. At that time, the enterprises in the industrial zone were in full swing and were the main tax revenue of the local area.
However, the place where we work is in the most lively area of the county, so we have to go to the management committee five or six kilometers away at noon every day to eat, and then take a lunch break. Fortunately, there are many cars in the unit, and there are many drivers, and there are car pick-ups and drop-offs at noon every day.
However, if we urban cadres occasionally work overtime at night and do not go home, we have to find our own way when we go back to the dormitory. There are more migrant workers from other places in the industrial zone, and the public security is naturally poor, and there are occasional robbery incidents. One of our female colleagues was robbed of her bag on the way back because she was working overtime too late, and she also injured her eye.
Nanying was a capable officer of the party and government office at that time, and it was often time to work overtime, although she had her own car, but it was probably past ten o'clock when she returned to the management committee.
In the dark suburban section, a person can be scared to drive, especially when returning to the management committee, and there are few colleagues who stay overnight. Nanying often guards the empty two buildings alone, and it is inevitable that she is afraid at night, and often does not sleep well.
At this time, a driver from the unit appeared, and whenever Nanying worked overtime, he patiently waited for her to get off work, and then sent her back to the management committee, talked to her, and even waited outside the door until late at night before leaving. After a while, Nanying was captured by the driver, and the two began to fall in love.
Soon, the news spread throughout the unit, and the other units also knew about it. After all, a civil servant and a driver are in love, and this is the first case in a small town.
Nanying has high quality, in fact, the driver is also a good person, speaks and does things very decently, and he is also very handsome. It's just that no matter how good and considerate he is, he is just a temporary worker, and the identity gap between them is probably difficult to cross in this life. What's more, the driver only went to junior high school and didn't study anymore, but Nanying graduated from a key university with a bachelor's degree. The driver's family is in a remote mountain village, and his parents are honest farmers. Nanying's family is in the urban area, and her parents both work in the agency compound.
No matter how you look at it, the driver is not worthy of Nanying. Nanying's parents forced each other to die, and Nanying resisted for a while at first, but finally compromised in the face of reality. The driver languished for a long time and finally left silently.
Nan Ying is really different, even if she has emotional injuries, she is not shocked, and she can't see any emotional changes on her face. She still works hard, still smiles when she sees people, and never mentions her own business. Just when Nanying was in love with the driver, several civil servants in the unit who were only admitted later were promoted one after another.
At the beginning, we all thought that we were all on the same starting line, living a similar life, and we were unimpressed by the changes around us. I love to read, and so does Nanying.
The two of us are very popular in the unit, and we often get together to chat about family life, and we talk about the insights from the books we have read. In this way, the days passed unhurriedly.
In the blink of an eye, batch after batch of newcomers came to the unit, and batch after batch of civil servants were promoted one after another. I was crowned as not seeking to be motivated, and there were only two people left who had no career pursuit, me and Nanying.
Nanying will be 28 years old in a blink of an eye, and a new career editor boy will start to pursue her. The boy's family is in another county, and his parents also have stable jobs.
This time, Nam Young's parents agreed to their relationship, and soon they got married and gave birth to a beautiful daughter the following year. I have been with Nanying for a long time, and I have been stumbling for many years in getting married and having children.
There are no secrets between me and Nanying, I will share with her when I sneak away to pick up the children, when I take leave, how long I take leave, and how much work I do at work. Nam Young always responds with a smile.
Nanying's husband is a somewhat extreme person, he can't joke, he speaks clearly, and he doesn't allow Nanying to have contact with anyone of the opposite sex. I know he's not very easy to get along with, and usually just nods and smiles.
In 2020, this year, the civil servants in our unit have been almost promoted, and everyone's treatment has also gone up.
I know that I don't have to think about the future in this life as a foreigner with no background, but I have heard that a graduate degree can enjoy the treatment of a deputy department. So he moved his mind to go to graduate school, and began to lobby Nanying to go to graduate school together.
Nan Ying has become more and more unassertive at the moment, and has been hesitating.
A few days later, Nanying's husband came to me and warned me not to encourage his wife to go to graduate school. I can't figure it out, isn't that a great thing?Why don't you support it?Later, I learned from elsewhere that Nanying's husband was very small-minded and afraid that Nanying would contact other boys when she went to study.
It dawned on me that Nanying was not worth it at the same time. It's a pity that such a good girl would marry such a short-sighted man. Since then, I have had very little contact with Nanying. And she doesn't come to me much anymore.
In 2021, by chance, a noble person appeared and helped me solve the problem of rank promotion. In fact, Nanying and I could have been promoted a long time ago, but we only buried ourselves in work and had no communication skills.
That's how it is in the unit, no matter how well you do it, no one will appreciate it, and no one will ever take the initiative to help you move up. For so many years, Nanying and I have Xi been accustomed to being ostriches in the unit for so many years, and we are also used to being used to each other as references Xi each other, and we are ignored together, but I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the news that I was going to be promoted came out, Nanying cried, and her husband jumped. They first went to the leader's office to cry and make a fuss about unfairness, and told me in detail about all kinds of bad things I usually do at work, and then said that she was conscientious and did not get promoted.
Not only did they entangle a few people to vote against me at the voting meeting, but they also said all the bad things about me in front of the assessment team. I was shocked, I never imagined that the secrets I usually told Nanying would eventually become a lever for their husband and wife to attack me.
I asked Nanying, so many latecomers have been reused over the years, why didn't you object?Is it really because they work harder than I do?
Nan Ying still smiled and said softly: "I always thought it was good to have you with me and not to seek progress, but I didn't expect you to be promoted, and now I am the only one left, of course I am unbalanced." The most important thing is that the only person I can bite in the unit is you, and I can't afford to mess with others. ”
When she said this, there was still no emotional rise and fall, and her tone was still gentle, just as I had when I first saw her.
It turns out that the so-called good person is just used to refer to people who are useful to themselves. There is no such thing as a person who is useful to all, and the interests of one person may be violated by the interests of another.