There are three hurdles in life, accept the mediocrity of your parents, accept your own mediocrity, and accept the mediocrity of your children. This seems to be the fate of three generations, but in fact, your choice is very important: you are not mediocre, you will give them more choices, you will know how to help them dismantle the world, so that they can build their own lives and realize their own values in full accordance with their own ideas.
If you want to be mediocre, you have to focus on induction and logic. For example, the mantra of many elders: "How much suffering did we suffer at that time, and what are you doing with this little hardship?""Other people's children have all got married, and you are just wandering around all day?."These words are essentially inductively observed with a small number of samples to guide your current life. Anyone who knows a little bit about logic will understand the great defect of the inductive method: it is derived from the particular, there is no logic at all, and it is the product of compromise for the development of the productive forces. For example, Newton's absolute view of time and space, there seems to be no problems in life, and that is because there are too few samples of observation. If we still believe in the absolute view of time and space today, we would not even be able to drive a car. Today's navigation satellites are 20,000 kilometers above the earth, which is different from the curvature of space-time on the ground. According to the theory of relativity, the flow of time is calculated to be 45 microseconds faster, and the speed of time is slowed down by another 7 microseconds due to the high speed, and the time flow of the satellite is 38 microseconds faster than the ground per day. This causes your navigation errors to grow larger and larger until it becomes completely unusable. As a result, the atomic clock on the navigation satellite automatically turns back 38 microseconds every day to ensure accuracy.
However, most people have the habit of emphasizing induction over logic. For example, when it comes to Chu Han, he blows Liu Bang and belittles Xiang Yu, as if as long as he does things like Liu Bang, he will definitely be able to control people's hearts and unite vertically and horizontally. Actually, this is just a survivor bias, don't believe it, go and see Liu Bei, who knows how to control people's hearts more after four hundred years. Most of the experiences summarized by the previous inductive method are not credible, because the number of samples we have observed is about zero, given the insignificance and transience of human civilization in the universe. Young people should have their own ideas, they should be unruly and sharp, they should be like Huo Quai's "seal the wolf and worship the champion", like Xiang Yu, who is stubborn and stubborn, and "he is a hero in life and a ghost in death".
In an ad, Steve Jobs recorded this passage: "To the crazy people, they are mavericks, they are unruly, they are troublesome, they are out of place, they see things differently, they don't like to be conformists, they don't want to rest on their laurels." You can identify with them, you can oppose them, you can praise them, you can denigrate them, but you can't ignore them. Because they change the ordinary, they push humanity forward. They may be crazy in the eyes of others, but they are geniuses in our eyes. Because only those who are crazy enough to think they can change the world can really change the world. ”
Seeing this, some people must say, this is chicken soup, what's the use?In fact, many times, people just lack an opportunity and an epiphany. Feng Qingyang only taught Linghu Chong a few mantras, and Dugu only left Yang Guo with eight words: "The heavy sword has no edge, and the great skill does not work". The master leads the way and practices in the individual. When motivational content starts to be called chicken soup, when despising motivational content all produces a sense of superiority, when "What is your dream?".It became a joke, and most people have already lost themselves. Subconsciously, each of us used to be the protagonist of this world, but now you no longer believe it, or are ashamed to face it. When someone comes to remind you, you have to use ridicule and disdain to hide your despair and numbness.
People must believe something in this life, just like the old people in the family love to buy lottery tickets, who would not know that the income expectation of the lottery is negative?But I never objected, because he bought a hope, and people live by hope. Everyone has a dark time, and all you can do is to believe more, complain less, ignore the suspicious eyes of others, and boldly go down your night path. The world is chaotic, and the ending cannot be forced, but how to go is your own choice.
We are all ordinary people, but although you are ordinary, you can refuse mediocrity, and the life of being crazy for your ideals is really beautiful!