Title:"Family Drama!The child's full moon banquet, the family funds were redistributed by the mother-in-law"."
My parents always told me that I had to marry someone who was in the same household, and I couldn't agree more.
There are also many friends around me who ignore the warnings and insist on chasing love, and they all pay the price in the end.
Therefore, when I started dating on a blind date, I always wanted to find a partner with the same conditions as me.
I was very cautious and consulted with my family at every step of the way, from dating to marriage, and finally married Mr. Yang Jianhao.
In the process of getting along, he was very generous and did not hide anything from me about their family.
My father-in-law was the founder of a manufacturing company and he opened factories in several parts of the country to produce lubricants for machinery.
The mother-in-law has her own beauty salon.
Long before they got married, their in-laws owned three properties, one of which they lived in and the other two were rented out to others.
Since the ownership of these properties was registered in my father-in-law's name, when we got married, my parents insisted that my husband and I buy another property and write the real estate deed with both of our names.
My in-laws' financial conditions are very good, but my parents still warn me to avoid risks as much as possible and not to expect to live under the fence.
The only thing that reassures my parents is that my husband is very stable and works within the system.
Generally speaking, a background check is carried out when entering a state unit, which also shows the stability of the husband's family situation from another perspective.
I got pregnant less than three months after I got married, my husband let me take maternity leave very early, and my mother-in-law also handed over the beauty salon to the staff to run and took care of me wholeheartedly.
Seeing that I gained more than ten pounds after pregnancy, my parents really put their minds at ease and felt that I would be able to have a good home in the future.
The whole family is looking forward to the baby in my arms, and my husband is even happier like a child, and every day after work, he will come to my belly and listen to the baby's movements, and he said that he wants to establish a good relationship with the baby in advance.
Therefore, I know that my in-laws will more or less have some patriarchal thoughts.
I am the only child in my family, and my parents think that both boys and girls are equally good, and their daughter is more caring.
Therefore, I was also a little anxious that my husband would have the same thoughts as my in-laws.
Later, I asked my husband if he wanted a boy or a girl.
He replied, "If it's a boy, we'll have another one;"If it's a girl, it's no longer there. ”
It took me a while to understand that my husband also wanted to have a daughter, which reassured me.
I think that we usually don't live with my in-laws, and if there is a need, I can ask my mother to come over and help me take care of the children in the future, as long as I don't have conflicts with my in-laws because of the children's problems.
In the end, I really gave birth to a daughter, my father-in-law was not very good-looking in the delivery room, and my mother-in-law was a little embarrassed to hold the baby, and finally she said let me take care of my body first, and then give birth to one.
My parents were so happy that they even discussed with their husbands, "Let's take our family name for this child." ”
The husband cherished the baby very much, and said, "She is my first little padded jacket, of course, with my surname." ”
The three of us happily discussed the full moon banquet, at this time my in-laws received an urgent **, so they left in a hurry, I thought they were unhappy, but as soon as I was discharged from the hospital, my mother-in-law came to my house and said: "Something is wrong, your father-in-law's company capital chain is broken." ”
The husband was surprised and asked, "Why did it happen so suddenly?""I learned that my father-in-law had been running a loss-making business, and because he was in a hurry, he invested all his money into it, and as a result, the employees under the factory messed up production, resulting in all losses, and millions of debts.
My father-in-law is now going to deal with the problems of the factory, and my mother-in-law means that we should be mentally prepared.
After my mother learned about this, she said: "I will pay for the child's full moon banquet, and the 50,000 yuan will be done for your mother-in-law, which is just to let the joy dilute the bad luck." ”
I passed on my mother's words to my mother-in-law, and then transferred the 50,000 yuan together.
The mother-in-law said happily: "I know what my in-laws mean, I will definitely handle this matter, and it will be very powerful." ”
A few days before the full moon feast, my parents asked me to ask my mother-in-law how things were going, if she needed help, etc.
The mother-in-law was hesitant and said with an embarrassed face: "I will take all the 50,000 yuan to pay off your father-in-law's debts......."I was shocked and angry: "That's the money my mother gave, how can you quietly use it to pay off the debt?"The family doesn't even have the 50,000 yuan, right?The mother-in-law revealed the truth: "As early as when we started the company, my father-in-law had already mortgaged the house to the bank for a loan, and now something has gone wrong, and the bank has confiscated our three houses." ”
Hearing my mother-in-law say this, I realized how serious the situation was, and I didn't have the heart to hold a full moon banquet at all.
Before I could recover, my mother-in-law continued: "My beauty salon has also been sold, and the company has gone bankrupt and liquidated, which can barely be regarded as calming down, but my father-in-law still has more than 200,000 personal debts." ”
Hearing this, I was completely stupid and cautiously asked, "Is it a high-interest loan?".The mother-in-law nodded heavily: "So I now hope that you will talk to your parents, let them help, and help your father-in-law pay off the money first, otherwise the creditor will come to the door every day to collect debts, and our family will not be at peace." ”
My husband cried when he learned about it, and felt sorry for me, I was so angry at the time, I really don't know what my father-in-law was thinking, he spent all the family's money alone, what will he live on in the future?Now only my husband has a job, but his monthly salary is less than five thousand, and he can't support the family at all.
If it hadn't been for my parents, we wouldn't even have a place to live.
When I explained the situation to my parents, they said they were willing to help pay off part of the debt.
But I'm especially worried about what if we easily clean up my father-in-law's mess and he will borrow money later