Children in junior high school are in a sensitive period of youth, which is a stage full of changes and confusion, and many physical and psychological changes are facing, so children in this period have the most problems, so how should parents properly educate and establish a good parent-child relationship with their children?Below, Ms. Zhang Simin will provide some suggestions for parents, hoping to help you.
Good communication can help parents get to know their children better and also promote harmony in family relationships. Parents should not be in a hurry to interrupt or dismiss their children's opinions when communicatingAllow your child to express his or her own opinions, but also listen patiently and give the right feedback and advice in a timely manner, so that children feel respected and trusted, in order to make children trust their parents more, so that the family relationship is more harmonious.
Every child is a different individual, they have their own personalities, hobbies and interests, as long as they are legitimate hobbies, parents should be all soRespect and support children's interests and hobbies, and give timely encouragement and correct guidance to help them develop their own strengths and talents.
As parents, we should not always focus on our children's shortcomings and mistakes, and we should not always compare our children with othersLearn to appreciate and affirm children, discover and praise their strengths and progress in a timely manner, so that children feel valued and cared for by their parentsThis will not only greatly improve their self-esteem and self-confidence, but also increase trust in parents and enhance the parent-child relationship.
Parents can help and guide their childrenSetting a realistic goal will give your child a clear direction for Xi and motivate your child to Xi learning。But remember when setting goals,Parents should not put too much pressure on their children, and do not impose their unfulfilled wishes on their childrenThis will bring a lot Xi of academic pressure and mental pressure to children, which will have a certain impact on their physical and mental health.
Teacher Zhang Simin deeply studies contemporary family education and children's learning Xi problems, and concentrates on the development of "parent-child wisdom" courses, hoping to help parents solve the problems of children's growth and help more families have a harmonious parent-child relationship.
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