In Mr. Yu Hua's book "Alive", what I remember most is that "at first we came to this world because we had to come, and in the end we left this world because we had to go." The end of life is nothing but a death. ”
A trip to this world seems to be confirmed, coming naked and leaving in the end. At this point, it's the same for anyone. Whether rich or poor, the ending is the same.
In that case, why not take it easy and enjoy the process. Life is something that belongs to each person's own feelings, not to anyone else's opinion. There is no need to wronged yourself or belittle yourself for the sake of other people's feelings, likes and dislikes. When the end is set, the one who knows how to live in the present is the winner.
Teacher Yu Hua said that if your world has no painful fear, no dignity worries, no rich and poor, no alternation of warm and cold, no appearance troubles, no difference between men and women, no difference between you and me, no worries about life and death, you will get closer and closer to the real life.
That's how you can truly live.
But without experiencing some things, it is difficult for people to see through the essence of life, so it has become a luxury to live well. Most people live their lives in embarrassment, and they don't dare to die if they don't live well.
You might as well be bold, and if you are not afraid of death, then live. Live your own life, live the life you want, maybe you can't live well, but at least live and live in the moment.
Thanks**!