——Preface · ].
"It's a pity it's not you, accompany me to the end".is probably the time when everyone feels the most when watching "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb".Watching the lights that represent hope go out one by one, I feel a sense of empathy.
Huang Han, as the first female instructor of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", has been incarnated as a "bosom" sister in 6 years, bringing a lot of serious words to the guests and the audience, which makes people feel relieved after listening to it.
But today, 7 years later, when I saw Huang Han reappearing, the image before and after was like two people, is this directly related to her choice to leave the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" 7 years ago?
——The reason why Huang Han joined
The blind date show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" can be described as a must-see "masterpiece" on the weekend at that time, the old people and the children, after they are full of tea and dinner, are all talking about it.
But it's such a show that has created many precedentsIt was also revealed that there was a naked "script" routine, and even CCTV personally criticized "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" for deliberately creating ** pressure, deliberately scandalizing women's money worship, materialization, etc.
The trigger for the whole thing was a girl named "Mano"., when she confessed to a male guest who particularly likes to ride and enjoy the scenery along the way, she asked if the girl was willing to accompany him to share the happiness of bicycles.
As a result, the heart-warming girl Mano directly refused and burst out with a golden sentence:"I'd rather cry in the passenger seat of a BMW"., the implication of this sentence is that I don't want to sit in the back seat of the male guest's bicycle, and it is also the most direct refusal.
As a result, after this episode of the show was broadcast, Ma Nuo was subjected to cyberbullying, and netizens said bluntlyMano is too materialistic, and she is a complete "gold worshipper".At best, it is a vase, and it is not worthy of the love of male guests at all.
And netizens also modified the golden sentence that Ma Nuo said on the show and evolved it into"I'd rather cry in the passenger seat of a BMW than laugh in the back seat of a bicycle.", portrays the gold worshipper to the fullest.
Then Mano's address and private ** were all doxxed, and when he was close to collapse,Ma Nuo bluntly said that he received hundreds of harassments a day, and his career was directly yellow because of this incident.
In the unbearable endurance,Ma Nuo directly revealed that everything he said on the show was a script given by the director in advance, and he just followed it, why did he take it all by himself when something happened, and the culprit could hide behind him and be unharmed.
This incident had a great impact later, and many female guests also stood up to support Ma Nuo, bluntly saying that what Ma Nuo said was true, and we are all "puppets" of the directoreven released the shady scene of the backstage director talking to the female guests.
Probably out of sympathy, netizens began to defend ManoIt is discovered that the male guest who courted her is an idler who has no jobIf Mano had agreed to his request, it would have been difficult for a girl to earn money to support a man.
And the impact of this incident was too bad at the time, and the program team wanted the program to continue to surviveSo he asked Meng Fei to look at the thatched house and invited Teacher Huang Han.
- "Sister Huang Han ].
Although Ma Nuo's matter is clear, there are still some male guests who signed up for this show, and they came to sneer at the female guests under the pretense that they came to go on a blind dateHowever, Le Jia and Meng Fei did not persuade, but added fuel to the fire, claiming that these male guests who dared to come up to the show and say what they wanted to say were "heroes".
The person in charge of the program team may also see that Meng Fei and Le Jia are two men with strong blood, and they will work hard to do many things, so that things will be irreversibleThat's why I was forced to bring in a female mentor as a regulator.
At the beginning, the program team racked their brains and didn't think of a suitable candidateAs a result, Meng Fei volunteered to invite his friend Huang HanShe is a professional psychological mentor who is humble and relatable.
At first, when Meng Fei went to invite Huang Han, he was rejected by Huang HanBecause Huang Han's identity was a "party school professor" at that timeThis identity made her dare not casually cross the line and go out to "show her face".
But under Meng Fei's repeated insistence, Huang Han was moved by his sincerity and decided to go out to give some constructive advice to the confused young people, which could also allow them to take fewer detours on the road of marriage.
When I first arrived,After Huang Han's first 4 episodes of the show were broadcast, her fan support rate was less than 2%.In the face of this result, Mr. Huang Han also made psychological presets for himself in advance, so there was no big psychological gap.
After all, when Teacher Huang Han came to this show, she was ordered to be in danger, and she didn't know much about the overall rhythm and tonality of the showI don't know much about the guests, so I can only talk about things and stop there, it is understandable that the audience didn't like Mr. Huang Han at first.
Later, Mr. Huang Han began to actively "prepare for class" and began to do the most homework, not only writing down the guests of each issue, but also making up for the relevant rules of the showTry to match your tone and tone to the audience's tastes.
Everything is ready, only the east wind is owed, and Mr. Huang Han, who is ready to go, reappeared on the mentor's seat in a new postureIn the face of every guest who comes up, Mr. Huang Han will say suggestions that can be accepted by the guests according to the mood of the guests at the moment.
For example, the male guest speaks of himselfAfter being from Beijing or Tianjin, he was turned off and complained by many female guestsSo Teacher Huang Han said to these girls seriously
We can have our own position and insistence, and it is the freedom of each of us to like which region people likeBut we can't afford to be discriminatory, and that is a bad sign.
For example, after many episodes of Teacher Huang Han's program, you regarded Huang Han as her idol, and personally knitted a cloak for Teacher Huang Han and wrote a letter to send to the program team.
On the show,Huang Han faced the gifts sent by fans, she did not hesitate to put them on herself, and kept praising the fan's ingenuityAnd he also took out a 4-page "confession letter" written by a fan, and was proud to have such a fan.
But such a knowledgeable and empathetic Huang Han served as a psychological tutor in "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" for 6 yearsSuddenly announced that he was quitting the show, which is not only reminiscent.
- Leave to Goodbye ·
When Huang Han left the show that had been with her for 6 years, many netizens speculated that the program team put too much pressure on her, or that the program team had done something behind her back that chilled Teacher Huang Han's heart, but it was not.
Ms. Huang Han chose to leave because she didn't want to miss her daughter's growth process again, on the previous show, I recorded a ** by Huang Han's daughter for her mother**.
Huang Han's daughter said that she understood her mother's work very well, and she had to explain to the audience all kinds of words that could untie the knot outsidePresenting the best side of herself to her audience, but returning home gives her little temper to her family.
may be very understanding of my daughter's mood at the moment, tooI feel like I spend more time on the show than on my family, so Mr. Huang Han quickly cut through the messI decided to return to my family and run my own small home.
After a lapse of 7 years, Teacher Huang Han appeared at a parent-child exchange meeting, and at this moment she faded away from her previous upright and generous screen image, cut off her long hair, and kept her short hairThe whole person feels more down-to-earth and kind.
She was at this parent-child meetingTake the relationship between myself and my daughter as the starting point,It has brought experience to many parents and audiencesIt has benefited many people who have come to attend the lecture.
- Epilogue ·
"The years are quiet" is vividly reflected in today's teacher Huang Han, accept the once glorious self, but also accept the slowly growing old self, these changes are the traces of the years that we have come,Accepting oneself at different times is also a kind of self that is appreciated in disguise.